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Yep. No way around it. Heck, unless you and your partner are virgins and then never have sex with another, the odds are so in favor of exposure. That is why my kids got the shot.

Already have played with HPV positive partners? I agree. Anyone actively swinging will.

I am more than a little tired of these viruses. Unfortunately, we know three women in the lifestyle who had adverse problems with HPV. One cervical cancer case, one hysterectomy for undisclosed to us HPV problems, one with multiple procedures to remove irregular cells. We are a bit spooked.

When out alone, especially on the beach we always point out attractive people. A bathing suit is the sexiest way to see a person for us. Mike is enjoying the many skimpy bikini bottoms this year. With so many college students and recent grads out of work there is plenty of eye candy. I’m not into muscle heads but enjoy the sights.

I was going to mention the Rialto Report but you beat me to it. Great source of vinatage info!

I cannot imagine money inducing a virgin to have her first experience. I doubt she would make the decision. I would want no part of such a situation.

i wont lie I hooked up with my cousin when we were younger. My parents tried to shield me from sex at my young age. But ill say it again their hiding places sucked. Her vibrators were usually between the bed and wall or under the mattress. The tapes were usually under the tv. One night me & my cousin were teens and discussing "the perfect girl." We both had seen porn. We were sleeping in the same room with nothing more then a thin "wall" between the beds. Just out of the blue he asked if I wanted to suck him. I paused because I was shocked but I replied only if he sucked me. He agreed. So I got naked and walked around the corner to him getting naked. I reached out nervously and started stroking him. He layed down on his bed as I continued to stroke. I said now or never and started sucking him. I did my version of a porn blowjob with him rubbing my hair. No moaning just rubbing my hair. After about 5 minutes he told me to lay down and he returned the favor. We didnt moan but it felt pretty good. He had me lay on my side and tried to fuck me. I was young and it stung so the only thing we did was oral. I never had an issue with it to be honest.

Certainly, assuming you can find another couple that's into that, it would be perfectly okay. This happens fairly often at swing clubs.

This is the husband answering, since the question is for the hubby. My wife was absolutely enamored by this guy. When they got together, and I was watching, he gave her probably one of the best orals, she has experienced. My wife has a small mouth and tight small pussy. Everything about her is small except her boobs and desire for sex. When she took him in her mouth she gasped, because until then she had not realized that he was about 7 inches (she is comfortable with 5 inches) and also was think. About 150% thicker than me. She stayed with licking him and sucking the tip of his cock. When it came to penetration, she was scared and told him, "you are too big for me. I will hurt. " The guy said, don't worry, let's do the cowgirl position and you insert as much as you can. She started with only having half of his cock inside her and grimacing. But, soon enough as she rode him faster and longer, the entire cock was buried in her and she was riding him with boobs swinging and arms flaying. When she came, it was the loudest shriek and moan of her orgasms. Now that she was used to his girth and length, he turned her around and shoved his entire shaft from behind. As she encouraged him to move, I could see six inches of his staff coming out and going in and her enjoying with moans,of "Your cock fits me great. Fuck me harder and make me cum again. Bang your balls against my pussy." He said, "you are so tight Venus, I can't hold it any longer," When he shot his stuff into the condom, she was clutching on to my cock and sucking the life out of me.

If you swing, you swing with people who are HPV+

There is no accurate way of testing it in men. If a wife has it, one must presume that her significant other has it.

By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have been infected with genital HPV infection.If you swing you are exposed to hpv.

I probably would avoid knowingly having sex with someone who was HPV positive. However, I suspect that as swingers, exposure is almost unavoidable. My recent Pap smear showed atypical squamous cells of undetermined significance, but the follow up HPV test did not show any high risk strains. So I may have been exposed at some point recently, but the HPV has cleared. Since I am currently negative, I have continued having sex with others.

Owing to the fact that I showed symptoms, I withdrew from swing activity for eighteen months. The HPV is now resolved in my system in a way that makes me unable to pass it to anybody else. For this reason I have no need to tell a prospective playmate about my HPV history. Don't have a context for HPV positive as there is no test for a man that would indicate a positive or a negative.

Oh, forgot to say what scares us off. Bad personalities. Not listed here. You can still have a good personality and do "all the above" and we still would like you. And the party goes on.