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Because a lot of single guys mixed in the Swinger life is not legitimate enough to know their boundaries. Yesterday I get message by one on the SDC app as if he was ordering up a whore . He lets me know that the description he read offers up one on one sex and he would like to take me up on that offer to fuck some fine pussy. He is coming from Oklahoma on Wednesday and expects me to show up at such and such hotel at 3pm for some one on one sex. Excuse me? I don't know you and this is not how it works. He messaged again we'll that is not what your description says and that if I do not obliged he would turn me in for false advertisement and have my account shut down. I finely blocked him. He had the audacity to message me on a different swing account and harass me there too. Ended up blocking him off that account and turning him in. It's this attitude that will throw red flags and caution lights up on other single males. Some how few single males think Swinger sites is a pick out any woman you want pussy buffet and just because he picked you . You are supposed to submit.

Too long .. not since February. We really miss it. No plans to jump in until things improve.

Too long ago. I think it was late February. I mostly go to house/hotel parties and meet n greets, but all of that has pretty much been shut down due to COVID19.

Laura and I agreed that a "cute" waiter or waitress deserved a "cuteness quotient tip." She paid the men servers and I paid the women.

I enjoyed reading the last post, especially the part of why prostitution is seen in such a negative light. See, the problem with prostitutes is that its a job. Its their job, like you and I go to the office. So there are no feelings of conscience. Not in regards to how the woman feels about herself mind you...I'm talking about the fact that the vast majority of men who hire prostitutes are married and cheating on their spouses. Not okay in swinging, and not okay in the vanilla world in my opinion. Now. You take a state like Nevada, where it is legal in certain venues from what I understand. The women are mandatorily tested. If you are going to use a prostitute I would say go to one of those facilities. However, on the streets of any given city a prostitute is usually a poor woman, usually on drugs, who is treated like property. I don't know. Everyone has their own opinions. I do not like it when women allow themselves to be used like chattel. Exotic dancers I love, those women work their butts off. They get a man horny, he goes home to his wife and they have a great experience. Shelly

Sorry but if you barter for sex than thats nothing different to being a hooker!! he/she could give you cash for your services and then you could give it back to them to pay the bill!! all you have done is cut out the exchange of cash!!! No offence to anyone this is just my interpretation of what i have read... Steve