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I am going to get negative comments on this answer. We played three weeks ago. We don’t play often and look forward to vacation friends we met over 5 years ago. We met on a cruise and we try to plan our vacation either on a cruise or an island. The last time we met was last year when we visited their home hours away. All plans were called off this summer and we figured it was not something we were going to do. Our friends suggested coming to them. We would all be tested the week before meeting to make sure no virus among us. We discussed that is not 100% safe. Another couple would join us and they rented a beach house. We were nervous when our tests took almost a week for results. We all brought our results showing negative tests. As our previous times together, each night we played in separate rooms which didn’t stop group play other times. We have isolated since coming home and we have not showed any signs. I talked to our friends a few times and they are fine too. We are thinking of being tested again this week as a precaution.

We've kept going within our closed group of married couples. My wife played with one couple yesterday while I watched the kids.

No negative from me, you may have set the standard of future swinging. It sounds as you and your friends did plenty of planning to make your vacation a success. I think swingers before us would take tests for AIDS and other STDs to prove their health. My wife made a comment after an also recent meeting with someone, that since the pandemic the anxiety fades after awhile. She said she climaxed almost immediately as if it was the release of all the craziness in the world waiting to be relieved. On the home front, our own sex has become more often and unrushed. We talk more during sex and have tried many new things. Congratulations on making this work for you.

Going to write an answer to my own question. Attended the weekend of July 24th, 2020. The night club was closed due to COVID restrictions, which was disappointing but turned out not to be a problem at all. Staff & employees continue to be absolutely top notch. I haven't received the level of service I received at Caliente at anywhere but the most high end restaurant. The entire property was clean. I paid am extra $100.00 a day for a reserved cabanna (booked it when making the reservations). Any food or drink purchased poolside went towards the $100 fee for the cabana. So I would definitely recommend that for other travelers. The cabana we had was in the shade (not sure if they all are). It consists of a double matress that has a tilt to it so it's like sitting in a pool chair. The food was excellent. The burgers had been better in the past but chicken sandwich and steaks were awesome. I didn't drink but the bartenders worked fast and effectively. Out of maybe 200-300 people 50-60 dressed for theme night which was Boots & Booties, a cowboy theme. Saturday at the conversation pool was very hot and steamy bit also very classy. No one was ride, stared or made us feel unwelcome. On Sunday the pool was busy, and people were sociable without being instrusive. We asked for a late check-out changing from 10am to 1pm instead. We are not members and the room we got was dated however I am happy to report the carpet had been taken out and replaced with hardwood tile type flooring. There was no official after party the night we were there although it's likely there were private get togethers. SDC seemed the best way to see other attendees. Would have liked see the new members Meet & Greets return although I'm not sure if that's audible given the current envoronment. I give Caliente a 9/10. A room update being the only thing that would make the experience better.

No question they suck. I know women who've had problems. Gynos tell me it's eminently treatable, and progression to something serious is from not knowing, or neglecting. Get your checkup every year, ladies.

That is far too common an occurrence and it just tars the whole group. For good single guys, yes, it sucks to be lumped in with the worst of the group, but that's how it is. Just accept that going into it you are down at the lowest common denominator but then show them through your words and actions that in fact you are just the opposite. Do that and you will have a lot of success and make some great friends. If you can't be bothered to do that or don't think you should have to, then you just reinforced the stereotype and made it that much harder on yourself and every other single guy. Talk to just about any swinger couple that interacts with single guys and they can tell you more bad single guy stories than they can good single guy stories. You can't say the same about other couples. Sure, there are plenty you didn't hit it off with or whatever, and couples do sometimes show the same bad behaviors. Odds are a lot less with couples though, and that's just a fact. Couples get into swinging for fun, and having to police the single male ranks is not fun. So, many choose to just avoid it.

Because a lot of single guys mixed in the Swinger life is not legitimate enough to know their boundaries. Yesterday I get message by one on the SDC app as if he was ordering up a whore . He lets me know that the description he read offers up one on one sex and he would like to take me up on that offer to fuck some fine pussy. He is coming from Oklahoma on Wednesday and expects me to show up at such and such hotel at 3pm for some one on one sex. Excuse me? I don't know you and this is not how it works. He messaged again we'll that is not what your description says and that if I do not obliged he would turn me in for false advertisement and have my account shut down. I finely blocked him. He had the audacity to message me on a different swing account and harass me there too. Ended up blocking him off that account and turning him in. It's this attitude that will throw red flags and caution lights up on other single males. Some how few single males think Swinger sites is a pick out any woman you want pussy buffet and just because he picked you . You are supposed to submit.

I would NOT want single men playing with us. I want them married and when we are done, they go home to their wife. I don't want some lonely soul hanging on us. Single people are usally single for a reason or two. Just IMHO.