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Me too. When I first started my non-monogamous life, I went looking for support on internet forums. I felt like a pervert and all the other websites reinforced that feeling. This place makes me (and non-monogamy) seem normal.

If there was a better forum than this, we would be on it instead...there isn't (that we have found) and we like most of the people here so we stay (and try to help make it an even better forum).

Isn’t this sort of like going to a restaurant and asking if they know of any good restaurants?

Thanks! We're happy to have you as a part of it! To answer your question, not really, just here. Even when we were just regular members here, we liked the civil tone from smart and sane people here compared to some of what you see on the other sites, so the Swingers Board has always been top on our list.

The only game we play now while shopping is "where the kids?"

I haven't used any of the sites that connect people since we really don't swing - just our poly family and the one other couple now. Earlier when we did play more openly with others, it was people we knew: me and the guy at work (that wasn't so good), friends and acquaintances of mine as sex partners for hubby (that's how we found Clair and started our family), Lora and her boyfriend/husband (she left him to be in our family).

Yeah, the others are sort of like SLS for chat. There's some good stuff, but you have to weed through the junk.

M and I enjoy a game I created called the 5 minute game. She LOVES this game. A game played together when you’re both in a store shopping. Each of you has 5 minutes to find 3 fun & interesting items that can be used in the bedroom. Whether for foreplay or the act. It could be food, toy handcuffs, a feather duster...it’s really up to your imagination. You each have 5 minutes, the other person cannot see your items, you check out individually and don’t show the items till game time. Enjoy & you’re welcome ?

We purchased a love seat to arrange at the foot of the four poster bed.

Reddit r/swingers https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/ They really don't like any hotwife talk at all ourhotwives.org https://ourhotwives.org/forum/index.php I mainly inhabit the hotwife and hotties forum, but if you like humillation and such the cuckold forum is there for you.

We shave and prefer shaven especially for oral. We are over 70 but feel in love with the clean look as it began to appear in family nudism.

Got with a couple of other couples we know last Saturday. Pleasant time had by all.

Me too. If from a poly perspective, no recent swing experience because both men are my long term partners. We stopped swinging temporarily from any new persons. If from a swinger's perspective that is sex outside of home, mine was yesterday with boyfriend who lives in a nearby city. I'm glad both men trust my judgment on safety so there's no anxiety for infection risks. My boyfriend will be finally moving to our city because their office will be closing down in theirs and will be consolidating in my city's office. I'm excited and we're looking for an apartment near our house. I don't have to drive to his house everytime. But the new challenge will be the boundaries. We act like a couple in public when I'm in his place and his co workers knew me as his long time gf. Now, we have to discuss if we have to make adjustments in our public behavior. Or would it be a lesser hassle to just get an apartment on the other side of town not so near our home?

Since she has a few body piercings herself, we both find them sexy as long as they aren’t anything too extreme like ear gauges, cheeks, large nose or septum piercings. She has both her nipples done as well as a VCH and Triangle piercings around her clit. She mainly got them because she enjoys breast and nipple play and loves how her VCH and Triangle piercings help get her aroused and wet quicker. She also loves the sensations they have given her during cunnilingus especially when she receives it from another woman and she plays with her nipple piercings at the same time.

That's the philosophy for all of us. Especially me - I like those little swimmers living inside of me for days. If there is semen to be swallowed, it is usually by one of us women performing oral on another one of us women after we've been with a guy, although the guys will go down on us if we request it.

Mrs Doc doesn't like to floss while giving a BJ so initially, I trimmed close because I absolutely LOVE her blowjobs. After our first toe dipping experiences into swinging 15 years ago, we noticed that most couples we saw were at least trimmed. I shave cock, balls and pubic area clean twice a week. Mrs Doc shaves but leaves a landing strip. We prefer our partners that way as well and we've found that it does tend to eliminate any lingering mustiness.

I dunno if my hubby is bi but the first time I met someone who finished inside me I was late getting home and hubby was already there. I thought he would be upset because I didn't cook but he slapped my ass and caressed me while I was trying to get dinner started. But he carried me to the bedroom and I was so so nervous. But he kissed me etc and started licking me there. All he said was, "you must be horny or fertile cause it's really wet". I don't know if I wanna experience that feeling of nervousness again but the point, maybe hubby is bi if he likes the taste of another mans juices. Right?

I came aboard the lifestyle because of my older sister, who was already a seasoned pro. We are very close, and it wasn't a secret that she and her husband are swingers. It was early on in my swinging days so I didn't know a lot. They were among the first people I swapped with. We have done soft swaps, full swaps, and also group sex setting like in a club. The nudity didn't bother me because we had all seen each other naked on trips to nude beaches and resorts. I have also seen my sister having sex from my teenage days (we shared a tiny room) that it wasn't that big of a jump. At the time it really felt like a learning experience, sort of a no pressure situation with them as the experienced swingers showing us how it's done. Sure, there was possibility of ruining the relationship, but my sister and I already had a very strong bond that I was comfortable nothing would come between us. I had turned down swapping requests from good vanilla friends for fear of ruining the friendship but now that i think about, the thought didn't cross my mind when my sister and I swapped. Your situation seems to be reversed from mine, since you are the experienced couple and your sister and her boyfriend are new to the scene. I think a lot depends on your relationship with your sister. You probably know her better than most people. Does she have a jealous streak? Does she form emotional bond easily with sexual partners? What are her concerns being new to the lifestyle? I think you can get a decent idea if this will work or have some negative consequences. Also how well do you know her boyfriend? Problems usually come up when there is jealousy or when one partner becomes more than sexually interested in the play partner. One big question I have from reading the OP is that with your sister recently divorced, will she be jealous if she sees her boyfriend act out his sexual attraction to you? In my situation that wasn't happening because my sister and I have completely different taste in men when it comes to relationships. If it's something you and your husband want to explore, I'd say try soft swap first. You can always go further if everyone is comfortable, and even then there are many baby steps you can take without going full swap. You may want to check out the archive on this board for discussion on Swinging and Family Issues. Some of the posts are pretty old but you can see some long-time members have encounters like what you described.

Relax people, you can't catch the gay. I wish I could it would open my opportunity for play by 100% The swinger world has this weird double standard about male homosexuality, girl on girl action? hawt!! I might touch the guy's thight during a threesome? oh noes! teh gay! But yep, cowgirl, other positions you see in pornfilms are tricky to pull off and keep going. Don't forget double vaginal: very intense! as always it's the woman who calls the shots, she's in control of making everything stop. The 2 guys are accomplices in her pleasure.

I'm wondering if they also believe that the monster under the bed can't get you as long as your feet are under the blanket. Preferences are preferences, but they should at least be educated preferences.