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Mrs. E mentioned her first sex dream about having a large audience the other day and being weirdly turned on by it. I asked if she thought it might have something to do with social isolation and longing to be around groups of people again and she agreed.

We did an LS cruise last summer that was like being in a 5 star hotel. Alas cruising needs to wait a bit, as do most social activities.

Wondering if anyone here had an all male threesome and how you liked (or not) the experience? I'm curious as a male couple contacted me on a website and we've been chatting a bit.

Yes, ours was a Crystal river cruise. It was absolutely top notch in every respect. We are distressed for the Crystal Cruise line that their superb staff have been furloughed. Hard to assemble and sustain that level of talent.

We were on a Crystal cruise that was a lifestyle takeover to Alaska in 2018, also top tier. So they exist.

So this is your first post, who is the “we” and who is the “her”? Does the “her” want this or is it your fantasy?

You could post a hot date to set one up on SLS. From what I understand a lot of men are no shows.

I don't know if you live in a larger city or not, but in many larger cities there are established groups of guys who advertise for women to get gangbanged by them. There are several in my area. They used to advertise on craigslist and similar sites before federal laws concerning sex trafficking changed. You can probably find them now on established swinger sites. They may not obviously be a group, but I'm sure some single guys on swinger sites are part of these groups. You might have to make an effort to find them, but they are out there.

Yes it was the best. We have talked about it many times and believe we were spoiled by it. The first date with them we went to dinner and could not help myself thinking about what might happen. Across from the younger woman I tried to imagine how the sex would be. It was special to travel through the evening going from a casual conversation at a table to being between her legs. We had danced some and on our way to our cars, She embraced me and kissed me. She said to follow them home. No woman has ever accepted me inside and giving me all her sex like she did. My wife was emotionally attached to her husband and we dated them many times. NO other couple has been so special to us.

Best thought is to find a swingers club and ask them about arranging something. It might just be showing up on a busy Saturday night or they might want to set something special up but make sure that you ask them first. DO NOT USE FRIENDS (and/or exs). Nothing good will come from that.

I can't give you a definitive answer, but go out in public proudly with any combination of adults and children, avoiding any public display of affection between adults. We have never had any problems, although I am sure people talk. Or likely used to talk. You know how it is, when people first think that Mary and John are an item, they titillated wondering if they're getting it on, after it's confirmed, they get married, kids are popping out, no one talks about it any more.

Our first time was wonderful. My wife and I had never discussed swinging and it just happened when a very close nudist couple had come over to our house. We were all nude and our male friend started massaging my wife while I was massaging his wife. His wife smiled and pointed to her husband and my wife were having intercourse. His wife and I immediately started ourselves. It made our friendship much closer.

They would need to, at least in part.

"Does it make you feel awkward or bad about yourself the next time she sees you naked?" If you do, this hobby isn't for you. You might want to consider bowling or golf. What we noticed almost immediately when we started exploring swinging over 15 years ago was how confident and comfortable in their bodies swinger couples are. Im about 6 inches which is quite average. What that means is that there are dicks that are larger than mine or some that are smaller. So what? There are tits that are bigger or smaller than Mrs Docs, but again, so what? At our regular parties, one of the husbands has a substantially larger dick, usually the biggest there. Mrs Doc always makes sure she gets some quality time with him. If Im in the same room, I'll watch for a bit because its such an amazingly hot visual and she always gets off on him. Its a joy to watch. I don't need her to comfort me afterwards because Im not intimidated or upset. We swing because we enjoy variety and sharing orgasms with our friends. Knowing that she's doing that and that she's fucked this guy (and probably several others) while I was fucking someone else's wife (or his)is incredibly erotic and THAT is what makes it OK to continue swinging.

From what I know of men, even vanilla sexually conservative guys wouldn't have a problem with their wife or girlfriend having a sexual relationship with a woman. Unless a guy has really low self-esteem, he doesn't feel threatened. It's great how you guys went from having some problems the first time to actually encouraging each other to have some fun when you two are apart.

I know he had a problem the first time he saw me with a guy, he told me. Not so when he saw me with my girlfriend. I was the one who suggested him playing with my girlfriend and sure was nervous and then excited. He was more nervous than me. All in all we are both glad we got by those first times.