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We did not have our first LS experiences until the pandemic was already here. We have found plenty of couples ready and willing to play with precautions. We all screen each other about working from home, how many grocery store trips, any travel, mask wearing, symptoms, etc., so that we can all assess risk. One couple took our temperatures before allowing us into their home. We have played with 9 couples, and have settled on 3 that we will continue with as play partners. Oddly, all of us four couples have connected with each other, so it's kinda forming an ongoing small group organically. We do keep up with each other's exposure risks. I just arrived from a business trip involving plane travel last night. We had a meeting scheduled with one of these couples tonight, but have pushed it back a month due to my business travel. Once that was rescheduled, we booked Labor Day weekend with another couple we've seen before, and they're comfortable with 10 days isolation after my trip. Another couple isolates for 14 days after each play encounter. One other couple that we have met for a socially distanced dinner is still on the sidelines. Chemistry was there and we want to play together at some point but he has diabetes and they are not yet comfortable playing. We respect that and stay in touch and enjoy their company "vanilla" style. Except for the sexting part...

A wonderful statement. Whatever whoever is comfortable is with is what should be done. No judgments!

Congratulations! And who is listed on the birth certificate as the father?

We met with a couple we had played with before last weekend that had been tested during the week prior to meeting us. We had not been tested and it was almost a reason for not going further. We assured them we had not played with anyone. We are bareback players and we offered to play safer with no kissing and covered oral, something I wouldn’t know how to do to a woman. We went so far as to go to the local CVS to buy condoms. After our initial safe play all rules were forgotten and we all relaxed. I think kissing was held back if anything. This week we have been afraid of any symptoms we felt or had. We got tested yesterday and are awaiting results.

We have had A LOT of fun at casinos. Not just the casino area itself but the bars and clubs within it are great. We have gone together and with friends. Just a warning - my GF has dressed very provocatively (like a slut) in the casinos late at night and has been mistaken for a prostitute more than once. Just something to be aware of if you're alone approaching men.

Since when is science polarizing? Do people still think the world is flat? The sun revolves around the earth? Ignorance is polarizing.

Just wondering. How do you get to know and trust someone who is asymptomatic? They don't know that they have the coronavirus., it does not appear that they have the coronavirus, but they can transmit it to you and your partner, who can then transmit it to older parents, grandparents, community members. I think that you need to do more research on this topic with reputable sources of medical information. It would be beneficial to your health and the health of people with whom you come in contact.

With some people, you can explain it to ‘em ... but you can’t understand it for ‘em! ?

Talk about people falling for conspiracies. The whole world, almost every country has conspired because they had a secret meeting to put forth an agenda. Countries that can’t get together on anything else all figured a way to kill the economy of the world. They all said you know too many people are swinging so let’s say there is a pandemic so men keep their dicks in their pants. Oh, and let’s make sure to close schools, there are too many smart people and we need to level the field. Didn’t we hear Covid is a hoax and will go away in the heat of summer, all the greatest minds agreed. If you want to play that is your choice. Don’t downplay the risks, don’t put forth a false narrative. People played during the HIV crisis, I was too young. HIV is still not eradicated, still no cure, but there are therapies to treat. Your body, your choice. Something makes me think this your thought too, but only for men.

I recently had one about my wife finding a new boyfriend for us to have a threesome with. We were all in our bedroom and my wife said "Let's have sex." Unfortunately there seemed to be a lot of non-lifestyle people in our house who kept barging into our bedroom and interrupting before we could get started. And then I woke up.

I think it will depend on the laws of your state or country. Since both of you are married, i think the default is your last name since your wife carries yours (i assume). Since you are accepting, if I'm in your shoes, I will let the baby use your name to avoid all the trouble your wife might experience because of this. There are some places I know that if a married woman uses a last name for her baby other than hers or her husband, they will automatically consider the father in the document and the mother as in common law relationship, and separated from the original husband. It could only be in paper but that is how the govt will treat you onwards (which will impact your taxes, properties, etc). If you want it to be simpler, try exploring Coupler's suggestion if it is legally possible in your place. In my case, it is easier. My SO, the partner who I lived with, and I are not married but my child's last name with him uses his. If ever I will have a child with my bf, I will put him as the father because that is his wish being single. Last name to be used is my bf's. There will be some paper work to be done afterwards to correct the status if I wish it or we can try a different arrangement while raising the baby. It is not that complicated than if you are married.

We'll likely be out by the pool which is fabric free. If she starts to fondle him on the pool recliner, he'll pop in about 4 strokes the first time with Mrs Doc naked and her boobs touching his thighs. She thinks maybe next weekend he'll get an invitation to come out for a drink.

His wife opted out of sex 6 years ago and that the last time the guy had sex. We figure an Audi convertible is a fair trade.