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From a healthcare professional. Tell all. We can’t support and treat you without knowing the situation. If you think for a moment that your experiences and issues are somehow unique or reason that we will think you are different or unworthy of our confidence and care, think again. We have seen more than you know. We have heard more then can imagine. Tell us. It will not make you vulnerable. It will make you stronger and your healthcare professional more effective in supporting you.

I like to kiss Clair or Lora while a guy is in me, trying to make me cum. If a guy is in her too, all the better. Something about that, everything in its proper place.

How many guys like kissing while Fucking. Before, after, or while someone else is in her?

It's probably harder when you're the one putting a stop to it. It is also probably awkward to bring it up which is why you haven't heard from those people. But I'm sure it can be done. I had a buddy who used to fuck my GF and have MFM with us. Once he got married he put a stop to it. Of course before his wedding he really got it all out of his system. But now we hang out with him and his wife like normal friends do.

Angel here. Thanks. Children are hard work but we’re happy to have them. We’re already reveling in it. ?

Tricia, first it is so very good that you are completely open to your feelings when alone. Yes, doctors are people. They are also professionals. They are bound to the oaths of the profession. Here are the last lines of the Hippocratic Oath, to which physicians swear as the enter the profession. Highlighting added. ...Into whatsoever houses I enter, I will enter to help the sick, and I will abstain from all intentional wrong-doing and harm, especially from abusing the bodies of man or woman, bond or free. And whatsoever I shall see or hear in the course of my profession, as well as outside my profession in my intercourse with men, if it be what should not be published abroad, I will never divulge, holding such things to be holy secrets. Now if I carry out this oath, and break it not, may I gain for ever reputation among all men for my life and for my art; but if I break it and forswear myself, may the opposite befall me. The concerns about being "found out" often have less to do with the healthcare providers than of oneself. There is a pervasive human fear of being unworthy--and worse of being found out to be unworthy-- of being "not good enough". That experience is universal, and to some extent underpins why swinging is a somewhat secretive alternative lifestyle. Swinging is about consenting adults at play. Yet if our behaviors and out preferences were found out, we would not only be judged but shamed. This is the consequence of not conforming to social norms. The dependence on external validation in order (for example) to earn a living gets convolved with the covenantal relationships of the healing professions and creates its own tension: public lives and private lives are always complementary and essentially never congruent. Yet those in the healing professions have to understand both because so much of healing involves reaching some sort of personal reconciliation. That reconciliation requires embrace of something that makes most (all?) of us uncomfortable--it requires embrace of vulnerability. The sociologist Brene' Brown is widely recognized for her research into vulnerability. As a start, it's a fun 20 minutes listening to her widely praised TED talk here: The talk is a decade old, and still worth a re-listen. Good luck.

Congratulations! Now comes the work and the joy. Revel in it.

At my club in Orlando everyone gets introduced and has a chance to voice their desires before the clothes come off. There is almost always at least one lady who wants to fuck all the guys and gets to do quite a few over the next few hours.

My wife shares. I think it is better if you do.

We have. It really depends on the mental maturity of all four people.

You can tell him what to do.... if he is f*** you tell him “Deeper”, harder, etc.... or tell him how you feel at the moment. Tell him when you are orgasming

Update: Hello everyone. Pauline here, wife of August, lover of Phil and dear friend of Angel. The last few weeks having been filled with excitement and anticipation. The kids took every chance they could at rubbing Angel’s belly and talking to the unborn. I had a fun time teasing Angel and Phil about how Angel was carrying my husband’s child inside her, that she was spreading August’s genes instead of her own husband’s. We all get a good laugh from it. I have to say I enjoyed watching Angel get big with my husband’s baby. Angel’s third pregnancy finally came to an end four days ago when she gave birth to a little girl. The birth happened without a hitch thankfully. The baby is a little replica of her mother with clear bits from her father. Due to the virus, Angel could only be accompanied by one person in the hospital. We all agreed it would be August. Needless to say, we all love the new little one. We considered the advice given to us when it came to what name the baby would take. In the end we let Angel have the final decision and she decided for the baby to have August’s name. To everyone who reads this, I hope you stay healthy. Please keep safe.

"I love making out with my wife during sex. My fantasy would be to be romantically making out with her while someone else is actively penetrating her while his wife is is sucking me. " You need to get out there and make that fantasy a reality!

Love doing it, but doesn't happen often as we are usually doggie-style.

Schadenfreude, perhaps, in the saddest sense of that word. It would be ideal if the couple came clean, stated that their private lives should not have crossed over into their public presence, and went on their way. Best to forgive and move on. I agree with PeterJ, what's most galling is the (Mrs. FL's words) "Holier-than-thou" positions that will be taken. (see also John 8:7 ). Those who preach strictest adherence to social norms in public seem to be the greatest violators in private. And since those in the most visible roles are under greatest scrutiny, there is some inevitability that the truth will emerge. Let's agree that the vulnerable need and deserve protection from predators. Kids. The disabled. Those who cannot understand and therefore cannot consent. Those who withdraw consent. Otherwise, among consenting adults whose participation is truly voluntary and not coerced, what happens should be their choice. We'll see what messages are conveyed through words and through actions.

"Sorry, not tonight, I have a headache."

I second the established group/club route. The ones I went to had theme nights: gangbang/orgy was very popular, and they always had a spot for me as a single guy. It's the one time that they want a few more men than women.

Best thought is to find a swingers club and ask them about arranging something. It might just be showing up on a busy Saturday night or they might want to set something special up but make sure that you ask them first. DO NOT USE FRIENDS (and/or exs). Nothing good will come from that.

We will talk about who we would have sex with.

Mrs. cplnuswing isn't a big talker during sex, and one of the sexiest things she ever said to me came not during sex. It was before we were married. She had come down for the weekend to visit me at my college and of course wasn't completely through the apartment door yet before the clothes were flying off We finished taking that initial edge off, and then hit the bars. We were sitting at a table with a pitcher of beer in front of us and a few of my friends there, and she nonchalantly leans over and says in my ear "I can feel your cum in my pussy." That was one of those up until dawn nights that we fucked ourselves raw, literally. Ahhh...the days of youthful vigor

Normally, it doesn't happen because the guys are wearing a condom when we swing and I dont let them cum in my mouth. But it happened in the past when SO and I were swinging with a longtime common friend on a regular basis. Boundaries were more relaxed then. The guys would kiss me after eating me or they let me lick them after ejaculating in me or they explode in my mouth. That gave me the license to kiss them afterwards. But I make sure to swallow first before kissing them. So it happened, they had no choice! ?

I very often kiss my wife after our friend cums in her mouth and go down on her after he cums in her vagina. It's great fun and my wife loves it.

My wife and I are trying to plan a fun, sexy, adventurous trip for our anniversary next year. We both were thinking about going to Hedonism in Jamaica. We wanted to go somewhere we can enjoy a sexy free type of atmosphere and have the option of doing things only with each other or letting loose and getting wild enough to include others if the opportunity should present itself. We have heard conflicting stories about Hedo so we are hoping to get advice from others that may have recently visited Hedo themselves. First, we hear there is a Hedo 1 and a Hedo 2. We have heard stories of one of them being a bit run down (mainly Hedo1) and the other being an absolute blast. We have heard the time of year you plan to go can have a huge impact on your time there as well depending on what events or groups will be there at that time. We want to be able to openly and sexually interact with each other wherever and whenever the urge strikes, plus have the potential to watch others as well as be watched by others and of course the opportunity to involve others with us or maybe get invited to join others that are also there. Basically we are looking for a place that is a Lifestyle type of resort where we can be as mild or as wild as we want. So, please, any and all advice from those of you that have been and can speak about your experience while there would greatly appreciated. Or, if anyone knows of another place suitable to what we are looking for, please don’t hesitate to mention it and what your experience was like while visiting there yourself. :?::?: Thanks so much everyone……...

We really enjoyed Hedo - lots of public sex and invitations for groups and threesomes. I loved watching others and watching other females that were very open to playing with my husband in front of me. On our first day, we got to the pool late in the afternoon. We were standing at the swim up bar and I was blown away when a couple came up to us and she said she saw us come in and she really wanted to see my husbands cock hard and asked if she could play. She asked him to sit on the edge and proceeded to suck his cock until he was fully erect in front of everyone. I thought I was on a different planet - turned out to be an incredible six days.

There is no HEDO 1. There used to be a HEDO 3 but closed. So there is only HEDO II. We like it there. We have been 16 times. We are not too choosy about the rooms as you only usually sleep there. You have to go at least once. If you are friendly and not a complainer you will have fun When to go is a hard choice. We go during Thanksgiving week. Don't have to use up two vacation days. People are generally older, like we are. The weather is good, and the rates are a little lower.

You are who you are. Faking it is most likely just going to come off sounding like you are faking it (making noise that is). I would much rather have a woman be genuine and quiet that hear her faking anything. At the same time, if he's doing something that you like, say something (oh, I really like that).

I know women who shout out their desires and I know women who simply close their eyes and moan a little. I am a guy who has no special need for to woman to be singing, "fuck me, fuck me now, fuck me harder." But I do enjoy the girls who croon compliments into my ear -- "yes, just like that", "ooh", "that's good", "don't stop." But I'm not every guy. I recommend you should not try too hard to create affectations. There is a hazard of sounding insincere.

I once tried eating my gf's pussy after I came, but she didn't like the idea. Oh, well.