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I realize it’s not real incest, but I find that topic a turn off, not a turn on.

Hi everyone - I am very new to this lifestyle. Up until a few weeks ago I had only one experience, with a couple. But recently I participated in a gang bang, and while certain parts of it were great, I came away feeling very uncomfortable about how the woman was treated. It started out fine and quite erotic, and the couple hosting seemed like an everyday couple - but by the time we got to "round 2" the way the woman was treated by her partner/husband/significant other had changed. He wrote "wh" and "re" on her two butt cheeks, and started degrading her verbally. We were told to call her "bitch" or "fucktoy". I get it that some people enjoy being degraded, but if I had known this was going to be what the night was about, I would not have joined in. I have an issue treating anyone like that, especially a woman. (I'm currently going through a separation and while there are tense moments, I couldn't even imagine talking about my ex that way!) I'm curious if this is common in these situations - gangbangs. Is it common in the lifestyle? Is there a way to know before going in? It's been close to 2 weeks, and I still feel badly about it. I feel for her, but mostly I'm disgusted at myself for participating and not speaking up. It's scary how fast and strong the libido, combined with group-mentality will take over.

I was just thinking the same thing. I was searching erotic stories for a little fun and found ALOT of them included incest. I know there must be a market, but not my thing. Just too unreal to even get into the fantasy. Each to their own, but lets not stop producing the 'good' normal porn!

I'm no spring chicken so I've been around a little. I find it amazing how often condoms "break" or "slip off" in this lifestyle vs in the non-lifestyle world. It seems condoms somehow suddenly stop functioning properly when the sex is in a swinger environment. While I've seen this happen, we haven't experienced condoms mysteriously acting up with the Mrs. We're very clear up front that condoms are a requirement. I'm very aware as to what is happening when we're involved with others. I tend to be more interested in watching than playing, not that I mind playing, so I pay close attention to what is going on. It wouldn't be a good situation if I observed a guy manipulating his condom.

If there wasn't a market for it, it wouldn't exist. It is a Taboo topic, which makes it interesting to some.

Obviously, although you and I aren't interested in the topic, there's a market out there for it.

I'm in a similar boat. My gf was much younger than me and had an incredible sex drive. I became disinterested in her romantically and I knew something had to be done. So I began encouraging her to find someone else to hang out with in hopes that I would get a little jealous and want her again. So she found someone that agreed to have a sex only relationship with him. The first time she fucked him she really liked it and shared the details with me on her way home home. So there was a little jealousy on my part but I was overwhelmed by the idea of her getting so much pleasure from it. We had the best sex ever when she got home. I never imagined that I'd get so aroused when girlfriend fucked another guy. It was her sexuality that excited me. She's a gorgeous 23 year old blonde that does not fit the mold of sex machine. We talked about swinging but she was not secure with the thought of me being with another female. She was concerned that I might leave her because she was fucking someone else. Anyway she agreed to go to Hedo in Jamaica but made it clear she was not interested in swinging. She loved being naked though. I was afraid to strip down and needed her encouragement. Anyway she enjoyed meeting nice couples. The females tried to help her understand and I think she enjoyed the conversations as she became comfortable that they weren't trying to take me away from her. Eventually she let a girl we met play with my dick. Then one night at the pool where things get wild we did some ecstasy with a couple we befriended. She really opened up then. I was so high that I was all over the girl. In retrospect I would have kept my cool and not have been so aggressive but I was high and horny and sucking her big tits. I did glance over and watch my gf playing with the guys dick and kissing. Kinda wish I had played it cool and let her mess around first. She was kinda mad at me but I blamed the ecstasy. The next night I played it better. I told her to have fun and enjoy herself. So I spoke to the couple about letting her be the focus that night. Told the girl to focus on her more instead of me. So it worked great as he became a little more aggressive after his gf encouraged my gf to play with him. So instead of giving his gf attention I stood behind her and rubbed her ass as he rubbed her pussy. After I kept kissing the back of her neck and and rubbing her ass which made her more comfortable with his advances. So she began playing with his dick and making out with him. The cool thing was that the guy was very cool about me attacking his gf the previous night, smiling the whole time. So were in the pool at the time when his gf whispered in his ear. He then sat up on the edge of the pool with a giant erection about even with my gf's neck. So now were all anxious to see if she's gonna take him in her mouth. So I've got a throbbing erection at the mere thought of it. So I want watch her suck his dick so bad that I start licking her (which makes her super horny) I whispered in her ear and asked her if she liked his dick. She kinda turned red and turned around to face me. She asked if I was mad at her. I reminded her much we both enjoyed the excitement every time she came home from being with the other guy. So I repeated the question and she said yes. So she turned back around and began stroking him again. He then put his hand behind her head and rubbed her head while applying a little forward pressure. So now that she had my blessing she leaned forward and opened her mouth wide as he moved her mouth over his dick. I moved over next to his gf as to not crowd them. So this was the first time I watched her perform oral sex on someone else and it was more exciting than I could have imagined. The fact of the matter is that she loves dick and I had a choice to break up with her or give her the freedom to enjoy it. I made the right choice in my opinion. I still have hope that she will come around to swinging because I would appreciate her accepting it as I have with her. But shes 20 plus years younger than me and shes crazy about me. So as of now we love each other like crazy and I can't keep my hands off of her. She never stops giving me affection, its constant. She is less concerned with me leaving her or seeing someone else behind her back now. The key is giving her consistent positive feedback when she asks me if she can go fuck. I always kiss her when she asks that and show her my hard dick. And when she leaves she loves that I call to give her encouragement to enjoy the experience to the fullest. Ill tell her how horny I get knowing she cant wait to have another dick in her mouth. So I've enjoyed this more than I imagined I would. It is almost the same attraction guys have to porn stars I guess. Just wondering if there's something wrong with me? Lol

Some of it is so obviously Faux incest and tongue in cheek that it is kind of fun. Too serious and use of underage appearing performers not so cool.

They have to sell. So much free porn. They have to up the game

When we were new, I wasn't that excited. Now after a few times I am. Probably common.

Congrats! I'm happy it is working out well for you all. I'm also a little anxious as certainly my relationship is going in that direction too.

Yes, one of my favorites. When the woman is in cowboy and she leans down for a kiss, it makes my dick go pitter-pat.

Much like us, it was at the wives' urging that we guys sucked each other's dicks. Did either of you ejaculate in the other's mouth? That was the toughest part for me, but we both swallowed. Same with us doing anal, but different couple. The women said that if we're going to continue expecting to push it into their butts, they wanted to see us do it to each other. We both did it both ways. Now that we got that out of the way, we're back to putting into the women.

My husband was watching while i was reverse cowgirl in a special friend. I was getting off watching him stroking his hard cock while I was getting hit in the perfect spot by my partner so I invited him to eat my pussyfooted to take me over the edge. My husband started on me and to my surprise also worked on my partner’s shaft while he was sliding in and out. I pulled my partner out and held his hard penis and asked my husband to suck him. He took him in his mouth and started to give him an amazing bj while I held his head. Watching him made me climax. My partner said he was going to cum so I put him back inside me while my husband worked on his balls and cleaned the cum as he ran out of me. It was my first bi male experience and we have had many similar since.

My wife and i were in our hot tub, drinking, nekked with friends; a MF married couple, from church. (we had previously partied nekked in their hot tub once before but didn't swap partners). This night, in our hot tub, the girls were making out, touching each other provocatively, sucking tits and showing off for us. This got us two guys very aroused. My buddy announces; "lets see you two gals eat each other, on the side of the hot tub". They said "ok, but if we do, you guys will have to BJ each other!" "Do you still want us to go down?" He and i looked at each other and said ok, what the hell. Never thinking that they would go through with it. Well the girls took turns going down on one another and it was so hot and steamy. None of us could believe it. hawt hawt hawt! When they stopped they said "ok; your turn!... a deal, is a deal. Who's going to go first?" I decided to go first, but i called in a favor and asked my bride, to do it with me. After she began to blow him, she moved his dick over toward my mouth and we shared it together. After some sucks, she moved away and i was on my own. I was shocked that: 1) it was nothing like i thought it would be ; it was like velvet 2) i didn't feel guilty 3) it was damned good and turned me on 4) most importantly, the girls got hotter than hell and continued to play. My buddy took his turn and it was fairly un-eventful. His wife was proud of him and turned on. It felt good to me and again i didn't feel bad about it.

Mine was during a mmf I was eating her pussy while he was fucking her and his dick slipped out as he was thrusting and I figured while It was there I’d give it a try and sucked his cock. Then I slid it back inside her. He had discussed previously that he wouldn’t be opposed to son male male action and that he’d experimented before. He also stroked my cock and fingered her while I was inside her then pushed both our cocks together and we double penetrated her pussy. I came almost immediately feeling our cocks rub together inside her. It was pretty hot.

Is it common to launch a verbal insults during a gang bang? My answer for you is, not usual but not completely unusual. Some women actually groove on this kind of verbal abuse. Because they make you uncomfortable, you should not go again the an event arranged by this particular couple. But you should not feel discouraged to try a gang band by some other couple. Now, I'm going to lend some advise for which you did not ask. Before your separation and divorce are final, you might be giving your spouse a weapon for "taking you to the cleaners" should she decide to bring up your swing activity with an attorney. Wishing you good fortune.

You mentioned that it is "uncommon." NOT SO!! If you read posts on this site, you will find that this happens a lot, it happened to me, and it happens without warning and the unexpected characteristic makes it even more of a head game. Thankfully, you have a supportive girl friend. Keep working on being a participant with your girlfriend, remember that you have a tongue and fingers as backup. Saying, "don't worry or be nervous" is almost a command for me to be nervous and worried. Just keep trying. Good luck, and it isn't permanent.

I'm horny for an all married male bi party where I suck & fuck a group of married, bi, masculine men

Did it once w/a gay couple and it was very fun. Both were non-jealous, respectful and a truly committed couple looking for extra spice. My favorite position while we played was bottoming for one while performing oral on the other. After he finished topping me, I took the 2nd one and then one of them finished me off orally. I've always wanted an all male orgy and have yet to experience that dream. I want to be the center of attention and take turns with about 8-10 that are in a circle.

You have to read my post from last summer. We were at a private party and ran into each other. We didn't think too much about it but she had fits about it. Caused lots of problems between us. Not us whom was upset about her or what she does. She won't discuss the issue SHE is having with us knowing.