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3 pointsNot disagreeing with you about circumcision. But that operation doesn't inhibit pleasure for the male like removing the clitoris from the woman - I think it's unproductive to compare the two operations.
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2 pointsDo you like to listen to music when you are swinging? Do you have a "swing playlist"? What is on it if you do? The first couple we ever played with had a DVD of Sade in concert, and they would play that from the very beginning. We did finish the entire DVD during one of our sessions
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2 pointshaving already done a lot in our 15 years of swinging, our current fantasy is really quite simple: The Pizza Dare. For those unfamiliar, you order a pizza and your wife answers the door naked (or in a towel that 'accidentally' slips off) and she pays and takes the pizza while completely naked in front of the pizza deliver man (we think this would work best with a delivery man).
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2 pointsTeamSoBe, We can totally relate to this. Our biggest fantasy is finding a like minded bi couple where everyone is attracted to each other and we can enjoy any single or mix between the four of us. The Mrs. and I have used this fantasy very often when we're in the moment, making each other hotter. she describes a scenario of going grocery shopping and coming home to find me pounding the neighbor's wife over our kitchen counter. or the husband of the neighbor coming over and while I'm watching TV, my wife is blowing him behind me. or the guys are watching a movie on the couch and start going at it, and the wives come over and watch.... lots of great scenarios can be built from this one
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1 pointI, as in Stephanie, had a very interesting weekend experience that caused me to learn so much about myself. Fox and I went on a date with a fun and sexy couple that we met on one of our websites. The date started out as usual, getting to know each other, a bit of verbal flirting and moved into us getting a hotel room. I won’t go into much detail other than it wasn't a terrible experience between me and the guy but it wasn't as much as I would have liked for it to have been. He was a great guy, just a bit to gentle for me. I kept looking over at Fox and the woman and I was experiencing a bit of jealousy, not because he was with her but because they were having such a good time and I wasn’t. The man wasn’t terrible by any means, he was just not providing what I was into. Looking back afterwards, I feel that I should have spoken up and said something, but I didn’t because I didn’t want to ruin Fox’ fun with the woman. But I did learn a few very important lessons with this experience. The most important revelation from this experience is I don’t want a man who tends to be submissive. I am submissive by nature and if you are not going to take control of the situation and fuck them then I don’t want to be part of the experience. I have Fox to make love to me, I just want to be hard core fucked when we are playing, but again, I did not express my desires so here I was in a situation that I wasn’t enjoying. Secondly, I feel as if I would have had a much better time if I would have had a connection with the couple before jumping in bed with them. I might have had a completely different experience with the couple and enjoyed his passive nature if I had known them longer than a hot minute. Armed with these new revelations I now have some things to ensure before I sleep with a couple; 1. Is the man going to be more dominate, take control over the situation and fuck me? Ensure that this expectation is established from the onset of our flirting, and 2. Do I have a connection with the couple that encourages me to be more open and forthcoming about my needs and desires. I am learning that when I am in these situations, I will automatically default to what is comfortable to me and that is go along with other’s want instead of expressing my needs. Fox is very observant and realized what was happening and provided an out for me which was greatly appreciated. It is my responsibility to be in control of my experience, but that is much easier said that done when I am in these situations and Fox is having such a great time. With that said, I am human, and I have emotions that I can’t control at times and I must feel comfortable with expressing those when I do feel them to Fox because he is my protector. I know that this lifestyle is not easy and I am personally navigating the obstacles that arise from it, and I legitimately try to practice what I preach to my clients, but when shit happens I am also honest and open so that others can learn from our journey as well. You are not in this alone, we all make mistakes.
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1 pointI've been blessed with my fiance' in my life. He has opened me up, emotionally and sexually. About a year ago, he brought me to a local club. I was interested but scared! We talked about his fantasy of watching me with another man, and really, that's hot for me too! Except, I've always connected with men emotionally when we had sex. I figured if they were fucking me, then they loved me. So my man has been slowly teaching and guiding me into my own sexuality, he has made me feel beautiful and confident and desirable. And now I'm willing to dive into the lifestyle! I want to be free and open and confident. So, we met with a man to bring in for a threesome. He was attractive and chill and funny, and I was very interested. I set a weekend date in my head that I didn't have my kids (or my period) and we made a play date. I actually invited another man to come over for sex!! I'm kinda freaking out at this point. But I REALLY want to be a good slut for my man. I spent two weeks thinking about and talking about this new non-monogamy lifestyle. I was nervous but excited! The day came, and we got our guest room/play room ready with new sheets and music playing. I spent the day in a tiny tank top with no bra on. Most folks at Target and Lowe's were cool about it, but I guess the grocery store was a bit chilly, so I got many stares, which turned me on. I was feeling sexy and desired before my new sex toy showed up. When we got word that he was 10 minutes out, then I started to freak out. My man was being super cool, kept asking if I was ok and we could cancel...he was/is AMAZING. I said, "No, I'm fine. Nervous, but fine. I want this." So he pulls up. He walks in, and I open the door in my tank and a pair of cute underwear. We do some small talk. I'm being awkward, I know. He is cool, my man is cool. They just want me to be comfortable. So we sit and chat, his hand on my bare thigh. And soon I get enough balls to grab his hand and walk him into our playroom. We kiss a little and take our tops off...I move to the bed and take my underwear off to lay naked on the bed. I ask him to come on the bed with me and we kiss a bit. I play with his cock a little as we chat some more and I sense my man at the door, I turn and smile at him. He smiles and goes back to get the bbq ready. This is when I move between his legs and start to suck his cock. I am sucking a man's cock who is not my future husband!! I can hear some movement and know my man has come in and is watching me give this guy a blow job. I like it. I rub his chest and play with his balls a little, and soon I tell him that I want him inside me. I showed him the pot with the condoms in it as I got up and went to lick my man's hard-on and give him a big kiss. After I went back to the bed, I pulled him down to me, and he pushed himself in! That was it, I had another man inside me! I was such a slut. I flipped my hair out of my face and smiled at my man. He had his camera out and seemed to be in hog heaven! After a bit, he flipped me over to do doggy (my fave!), and he fucked me good. My man couldn't contain himself, so he came over and played with my tits and put his dick in my mouth! We played for a bit before everyone needed a break and we enjoyed bbq and a beer. As dinner wrapped up, my man came over behind me and played with my tits and said we should go for round 2. Round 2 started with my man fucking me while I played with new guy's cock. We eventually moved into the living room to watch porn on the big tv. I sat between two beautiful men and played with their dicks while the tv showed us a BBC threesome. I went down on my man for a while before switching to the other dick, then switching back. I got all hot and bothered, so I asked him to grab a condom, and I put it on before I slid his cock inside me and rode him until he came. My man was rock hard as he finished, so I pulled off the one and slid onto my man. I love riding a hard man, so I got to enjoy that until he told me to get off and suck the cum out of him. I kept looking up to our new friend, and he was quite content watching us fuck. The night came to an end, and I got a couple more creampies from my man. I'm shocked and amazed at how much fun I had and how much love I have my future husband. All because he wanted to watch me fuck another man.
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1 pointOk, so my husband and I, prior to being with each other, never had any interest in anal sex at all. After a short period of time in our relationship I, for reason still unknow to me, called him one day and said I know you have no interest in anal sex but, what would you say if I asked you to fuck me in my ass. To my shock he came right back with his response, Absolutely. He said he is not a fan of it but would be very happy to if that is what I wanted him to do. Soon after we had anal sex for the first time and to both our surprise we found that we both got extremely turned on and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was even more shocked at how incredibly wet my pussy got and could not beleive that I actually had an orgasm from having anal sex. I was so wet, the bed sheets below me were soaked. Since then we both have wanted to repeat that night however, I feel we are both overthinking it and are worried about the obvious unpleasantries that can come about from having anal sex. So my question is this, what, if anything, do those of you that enjoy anal sex do to prepare, if anything at all. Do you use an enema to evacuate the area back there first or maybe some other sort of prep that you do. Or do you just say the hell with it, and enjoy it without any prior prep regardless of what may happen. We both have always wondered how these women in porn movies are always doing anal and never seem to have any unpleasantries come up as a result. Sorry if this seem like a basic no brainer question but honestly neither he or I have ever had any experience with this issue prior to now. Thanks in advance for your tips and advice on this subject. I realize it can be a little bit of a shitty subject but I just had to ask.....LOL
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1 pointOn Saturday Fox and I went to a house party for St. Patrick's Day with people we had never met before, which was completely outside of my comfort zone, but hell we only live once, right! Considering we are quickly becoming more public on our journey I need to become more comfortable with partying with new friends. We dressed up and walked into that party as if we had been there many times before. Fox tends to own any room he walks into for several reasons; his stunning looks, his strong masculine presence and he was wearing a sexy kilt. I immediately went into what I call "Stephanie Mode". For anyone who knows me personally knows exactly what that is, but for others that is when I make everyone feel comfortable, relaxed and ensure that they are having fun by bringing out their shy, hidden elements of their personality. I didn’t know any of these new friends, but we were all going to have a great time. This was so much fun! We talked, got to know each other’s likes and dislikes, boundaries and absolute hard lines in a fun and playful manner. I could tell there were several friends, including myself, who just wanted to have fun with like-minded people but not necessarily play. Fox and I are natural party starters in many ways, and we ensured it was a great time for all. I even got stuck in a skirt that it took a pit crew to get me out of, but they prevailed. Yes, it was embarrassing but I rolled with it and laughed! While we didn’t play with other couples, other than some kissing and rubbing, it was one of the best nights that we have had together in a long time. We are fans of house parties and will be doing hosting a show soon on how to host a kick ass house party and we will be inviting several of our favorite party host on the show to tell use their secrets and pointers for hosting a great party!
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1 pointYep. bi-bi here.
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1 pointA few years ago he was on top of me and fucking me agonizingly slow. He looked into my eyes as I felt him slide all the way inside me. I felt him tighten up and squeeze as he released in me. At that moment he looked at me and said “I want to cum inside you like this every day for the rest of my life...I love you baby.”
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1 pointRonnie and I had been eating our own wives, Linda and Laura. Laura came and shouted "I need a cock! Somebody fuck me!" I went to Linda and Ronnie slid into Laura.
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1 pointIt was during our first foursome...my wife said playfully "I don't care who's, but I need somebody's dick inside of of me now!" Yes ma'am!!
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1 pointI'm a sucker for any hint of her slutty side slipping out. A favorite was still her revelation that given the choice, she'd rather be bent over and fucked by a completely strange man than have him in her mouth. We haven't tried that one, but the thought is still a turn-on.
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1 pointThe most I’ve ever done was 23 men over a 7 hour session but that was with condoms for vaginal sex.
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1 pointI/we don't really have any fantasies left to do. A fantasy I'd love to do is a bareback gangbang with 30-50 men where they all cum inside my vagina, all athletic bodies and handsome looking. That will never happen!
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1 pointWe sort of do this - a lot. We are only three women, however, (and no chairs, and not quite so organized) but we take on our two guys and occasionally our third, switching guys who go pussy to mouth. I love taking a dick in my mouth after it's been in Lora or Clair. Another difference is we all prefer that the cum goes into our pussies. Then sucking the sloppy dicks.
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1 pointHere’s what works for us - the guy with the longer penis ltd in his back. I lie on him facing up. He penetrates first and works on me for a while until i’m ready for guy #2. Guy #1 keeps his cock in me all the way while guy #2 faces me, speeds my legs and then does all of the thrusting. Guy #1 doesn’t need to move because the second cock will provide a ton of stimulation. I usually cum very quickly from this and so do the guys.
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1 pointIf a guy wants to put his dick in my bum, I'll let him and it feels good, but I can't orgasm from it. He has to have taken care of me first fucking or licking before he can go in there. If that's the plan, I can speed up me getting there. DP on the other hand can be really good. The dick in my vagina makes me orgasm and the one in my bum enhances it. Having both guys ejaculating inside me is exciting too.
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1 pointPersonally, I get no physical pleasure from it, but being somewhat of a sexual submissive, I enjoy it from a mental standpoint. I ONLY engage in it when I have time to prepare for it, i.e., enemas till "clear" and more than enough lubrication. I find it naughty, somewhat degrading and lewd... especially when other(s) are watching and making lewd comments. Over the years, my partners and I have worked out a sort of "role playing" and how far they can take their comments and demands. It has a preclusion and, sometimes, after the "deed," that someone uses their fingers in me to achieve orgasm.
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1 pointHappy New Year. Just got home from a great weekend. I read so much about anal sex in here and I wonder who writes the answers. Let me start by saying I don’t have orgasm in my butt. When I first started having sex if any guy went near my butt I would smack them. I couldn’t understand why they would want that. I know I was young and just learning. I think I was always afraid of cleanliness. Something I still worry about. I actually made it that if I knew I was going on a date I wouldn’t poop after I showered. The first time I let someone touch my butt was during oral play. A finger but not in my butt. It felt sort of good. I was petrified that his finger would be brown. Maybe it was because it never went more than that. It made me even more obsessed with being clean there. Another boyfriend took it further. Again during oral he licked me there. It was a very strange feeling. I sort of liked it but it didn’t drive me wild. It was every time we were in bed it was his ritual. He had tried to get me to do it to him. I couldn’t. As time went on he got a finger in there. It didn’t feel great but I know he liked doing it. All of our other sex was good. He kept saying he wanted to put his dick in. I finally gave in. It hurt too much and I made him stop. The next time he came prepared with lube of some sort. We were having sex and he started to try again and I told him to stop. I then felt something cold and he started to push a little. It didn’t feel like the first time. He slowly pushed in. I know he didn’t want to hurt me. He kept checking with me. I think he was in about 10 seconds and he finished in me. I can’t say I enjoyed. Over the years I have had others and I can’t say I enjoy it. I have learned how to relax though I have never orgasmed from that.
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1 pointAs an Anal devotee, I have to say that the most important way to enjoy anal sex, whether it be rimming, toys or DP, is to clear your mind. So much of sex is between the ears, not the legs, that you have to let go of any inhibitions or societal norms. That's what keeps my hubby and I together, we enjoy the EXPERIENCE more letting go of our thoughts. I do like to peg him also.
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1 pointWe were out for my birthday....mrs was looking exceptionally hot is a tight sexy minidress and 6" platform heels. We were obviously on the prowl that night and she whispered in my ear, "I want to be your dirty whore this evening, so we can do whatever you want"! That was an instant hard on. We did find a single guy in the bar and went to his room shortly after that.....
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1 point'That was a lot of fun, when can we do it again?'
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1 pointWhen he tells me he loves me.
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1 pointWhen she said, "I want you NOW."
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1 pointMake me tingle each time I think of the inflection of voice my wife used to say these same words.
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1 pointWOW that was pure genius to read....what a fantastic recount of that experience you had...a fantasy in its own right! Maybe that will get added to our Swingers Bucket List...thank you for sharing! :-)
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1 pointI am assuming Tiny White Cock? And I agree with Julie...there doesn't seem to be a public use of BWC...but people do still state size preferences in their profiles at times...but even though my preference is at least Jeff's size or larger, I won't put that in our profile b/c it would probably eliminate 90% of potential playmates.
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1 pointWe have enjoyed this as well, not as some cuckold experience, but between two couples. Early on we met a couple that was about our same age. They new to the swinging thing so we were eager to play with them. It was the first time either guy had the chance to guide another man's cock and it was a huge turn-on for each of the guys and the girls. A very wild time.
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1 pointI'm a woman who has guided my husband's cock into another girl. It was HOT HOT HOT to me. I know you were asking men, but thought I'd share anyway.
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1 pointI've never douched, ever, and have never had one complaint about the way I taste or smell. We were with a couple once and it was clear that the woman had recently douched, and not with vinegar and water, because she tasted like a flower. Not good...not good at all.
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1 pointDitto. I especially love to kiss my husband with the taste of pussy still on his face. I love the smells and tastes of sex, too. As long as everybody's clean going into it, it's all good.
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1 pointYeah, it's actually the totally sexually uninhibited atmosphere that makes the four-bi-people work so well for me, not any specific activity. In most of the situations that we've been in so far you're always keeping track in your head, "Okay, this guy wants to nail my girl, I'm after his girl, the girls like each other, but this guy and I are supposed to not want each other". Sometimes my wife will seduce a girlfriend and my job is to usually be supportive and not too pushy, "Okay, I can do whatever I want with my wife, this girl and my wife are into each other, but I need to stay away from her." We play with a single guy and it's all pointed at her. I just fantasize about a night where all of that is irrelevant, everybody is happy and horny and open, and nobody worries about person X being off-limits to person Y. Nothing to do with butt sex, really. I do have to say that I agree with you on one thing though, the double vaginal penetration thing gets my heart beating automatically. I have no idea why, but that just works for me. As many experiences as my wife and I have had with nothing but guys, we have never done that. We have always just taken turns, or she would suck one and take one. My wife isn't into anal so any DP for us involves pretty close contact between guys, and you know how most guys feel about that. I'm on a personal mission to make that happen soon though. I'm lucky enough to have some male friends that are aware that I'm half queer but don't really seem to care. The next time that something gets started with one of them we're going to try to get them to try it. Since I'm the mental type it probably won't matter very much to me how it actually feels, just seeing my wife shaved and doubly-impaled is what I'm in it for. I wouldn't even mind sitting out just to get a better view, really. My wife is still a bit skeptical about how comfortable that would be since she's not into pain at all, but she gets much more aggressive and open-minded when she's actually having sex.
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1 pointThis is our male half. Our girl half's wildest fantasy is to be alone with a Playboy-model-looking girl for a few hours, no guys or audience around, no inhibitions. She has been around women a lot, but always with guys to get in the way and that bugs her. She always wants a guy by the end of it though. My own fantasies are fired more by neurons than testosterone. My ultimate fantasy is for us to find a couple that we're both attracted to who are also both bisexual and comfortable with it. There are lots of straight men around, or curious men that just can't deal with it, and the 'ew, don't touch me!' thing always feels like a party killer to me no matter what fun stuff is going on. A situation where four people are all mutually attracted, that is sexy to me. Everybody has three different people to play with, nobody is hung up over who touches who, that's sexy.
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