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soapbox Ok, wait a minute. I've been reading through these forums, polls, etc. Im "learning" some interesting things. One thing that keeps jumping out at me is penis size. We all know men (generalization here) can be concerned about the size of their Mr. Wiggly, but does anyone comprehend the fact that women are concerned of their own size also? Im not talking about self conscious issues here....Im talking breast size mainly. I understand that a smaller woman with a 36C is going to look "larger" than a larger woman with a 36C...I just want some opinions! Feedback! Hit me with your best shot! This is coming from a 5'3" - 205 lbs - mother of three - larger framed gal. My chest size is 40DD...but after the kids, age, and not being as physically active as I once was, well - lets just say, my DD's (I had before kids) are a bit depressed now Now, I've said my peace on the breast size. I've also read some forums on plain ole physical size. Even a self confident woman, may have issues regarding the "first time" with any new partner. I've noticed especially in swinging situations. I understand that most swingers are normal, average, everyday johns and janes. But what do YOU think? What are your opinions? Are you turned off or on by a certain size? If so, does the opposite size that wets your appetite a total turn off? Or are we all really here to play, enjoy and have fun, regardless of size, stamina, self issues, etc? I look forward to hearing from you all!

A piece in today's NY Times illustrates a different approach to normalizing body image. It's remarkable that this approach is being tried. Unlikely to gain traction in the USA, where prudity and probity are asserted to be congruent, but there is an opportunity to learn whether the approach is effective. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/09/18/world/europe/denmark-children-nudity-sex-education.html

So 2 friends and myself decided it was a good day for a 3sum. MFM. Chick just randomly states she wants to 2 guys to fuck her like a nasty slut. Hmm bluntly states this to 2 guys that just happen to be the only ppl besides her here. Coincidence? I think not. Been wanting to get with this chick since I met her. Other guy says bro look at her ass. No way I'm passing on this opportunity. Cant fault the dudes logic.

Some guys know that I'm good with it, some don't know I'm good with it, and probably some don't know I exist at all. None of them really make much of a difference to me although the ones who don't know that I know can be pretty funny to tease around with a little bit. We have the no kissing rule as silly as that probably seems given all the other crazy acts she does with other guys.

Not that I'm immensely experienced, but... I don't care about my own jizz. I think NOT kissing a woman after she's blown me would be rather rude. Likewise, just because I finished doesn't mean that she may not want some more attention. It doesn't have to be oral, but if asked I try to oblige. I definitely don't do oral after another guy cums inside her. Just my limit. It isn't gross or anything. It just kills the mood for me. But putting my dick there is fine, and having her suck me after is fine, and me kissing her after that is fine... ...so yeah, there's no hard logic there. I know, intellectually, that at the end of a hot night, there has been transfer all over. But I just don't want to be aware of it, and one degree of separation is sufficient.

Wonderful responses! I happen to agree with the breast issue...any size is great! I also happen to agree with it being personal taste. I LOVE tall bald men (caucasion or african american). I can't even explain why tall but bald is easy...there are so many nerve endings on one's scalp, a little lick and nibble on a bald man's head with drive him wild (in my experience) and since I get off on pleasing others...his arousal and response to it just heightens mine! Thank you! Let's get some more opinions here!

Playing basketball or any one of the many other sports where skin-to-skin contact occurs - kissing/hugging people at gatherings - things like that carry about the same risk and no one ever thinks twice about it. I don't know anyone that ever caught a disease from swinging.