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Last night went to a bar and meet some friends after a while we went back to their place to hang out. One thing lead to another next thing I know my buddy's wife was sucking on my cock. I looked over to find my wife doing the same to my buddy. Long story short I was pumping her leg on my shoulders and I saw she still had her heels on. Don’t know what it was but was a huge turn on so much so I blasted cum so deep in her she started to squirt. Was the best night of our lives and this morning they texted if we could go at it again sometime

I don't think going to another party would help things. Rather the opposite. The two of you really need to talk, without any expectations that there will be more play. It's important for the relationship. There's a lot of processing going on, for her and for you. Both of you would benefit from talking through your emotions, and discussing your relationship. I wouldn't advise doing anything swinging related for the time being. I doubt she's ready for that again, and she may never be. That's ok. As luv2was mentioned, you're fortunate that she was willing to go to a club with you. Relax, take your time, relish the memories of that night, and talk with her. Be completely open with her.

Same for me - having sex with other people is intense, but nowhere near as intense as the knowledge and/or sight of my husband being with another woman. Even now, after all of these years and it being the same two other women in our family.

No pressure. No promises. No judgement. Words to live by in this lifestyle! Steve, congratulations on you and Liv taking the plunge! It sounds like a GREAT start but we understand that emotions can mess with new people, so we think it's important at this point for you to communicate with Liv. Let her know how much she turned you on that night, how exciting it was for you to see her with those other men. Let her know how much you love and admire her for taking this bold step together. If she is feeling weird about the events of that night then give her love and encouragement. With love and encouragement, we find that as the events play back in your heads they will fuel your desire for each other and for more lifestyle adventures!

I think it's an age/generation thing too - my mother would much prefer me in $5 dollar khakis as opposed to $180 custom jeans. I disagree. To me, the guy in the khakis looks like he just came from the loading dock. One of these guys is getting laid, the other is not.