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Kudos to you for bringing it up with him in the first place and even better that both of you ended up loving it! Personally was hesitant to do anal with my partner thinking it can too "dirty" for me but after experiencing it, I can say that it can be a wonderful experience for couples. If there's one tip I can give is to definitely have safety in mind first by cleaning your asshole with an anal douche. Asides from the peace of mind of not contacting any diseases (even if he/she is already your partner) it just makes it an even better experience overall. Enjoy!

I don't think a woman (or "wife") will "bond with her bull and leave her husband"! It is like saying a woman will bond with her dildo (the "bull") and leave her husband. A woman bonds with a nice, caring, and loving person (can be a man) and might leave her husband for that. We have to distinguish a cuckold arrangement where there is a bull whose purpose is to dominate the "wife" and humiliate the husband, and an open relationship, where a wife or woman voluntarily meets a man (not a "bull" and with honest communication with husband), in which case, it is possible to bond with him and leave her husband. I think Couplers' experience is more of an open relationship among the parties involved that led to her poly family. Imho.

I watched it upon your recommendation and found that it confirmed what I already believed and understood about the use of addicting algorithms. What I didn't realize was how many people fall under the thrall of social media and believe what is posted there. Perhaps my strict Catholic upbringing has made me a skeptic and sensitive that many people are out to manipulate me for their own ends. I have a Facebook account to keep up with friends and relatives, but check it only every several days and don't use any other feature, like News.

The reason it took me a couple of years before I was comfortable with hubby playing was just that - I was afraid that he would like someone better and leave me, and even if he didn't it made me jealous. In reality it increased his appreciation of and love for me and built my confidence. And brought out my Lesbian side.

there is no one set answer, some hotwifing things are about humiliation of the cucked man so she would probably deny him access to her. while other women do not do the humiliation things and let their husbands watch or even play along and other women have regular men that they see but their husbands don't come along. there are many, many different situations. as for divorce, that is always a possibility but it is lessened by have conversations, boundaries and a strong relationship but there is always the chance that a wife will bond with her bull and leave her husband. the first step into hot wifing is to discuss things and be certain that both parties are willing, if she is forced into doing this, if she feels that she is only doing it to please her husband then things can go bad. it's all about communication

No music or TV for me when having sex, I find it distracting.

I agree, so long as the couple goes into it with both agreeing that it is what they want to do and one isn't dragging a reluctant partner into it. In our poly family there is plenty of opportunity for conflict that has nothing to do with sex. (Actually, the sex is a thing that helps smooth out the disagreements, and not that the two fighting suddenly become lovey dovey and make love. It's that we have others to turn to that give us solace, love, a dose of reason, and an orgasm to better the mood. Then all is forgotten.) We are fortunate that we all have the right temperament to deal with it and love one another enough to compromise, and therefore, have thrived as a family and individually. When it all started and it was just my husband, my boyfriend and me, I was concerned that there would be times when I wouldn't give hubby enough intimate attention, so I was always sensitive to whenever he wanted to pull my pants down. Now it's the opposite: with three women and two men in the family, the guys can't keep up so we women share a boyfriend. We are all sensitive to the others sexual needs.

My wife sees other men perhaps three to six times a month. Plenty of time for the two of us. The things that cause divorce when the woman are a hotwife is the exact same things that cause a divorce when the woman is monogamous and chaste: One (or both) of the partners is dishonest or behaves maliciously. Poor communications. Substance abuse. Domestic violence. etc. If the couple has good communications and are honest and kind to each other, divorce usually doesn't happen. It makes no difference if the couple is monogamous or not.

It's up to the couple. You make the rules and as long as you are both communicating with each other and not violating those rules, you can have whatever limits you are both comfortable with. What causes divorce? Usually a breakdown of communication and trust.

When I was young, copulation started and ended in less time than one side of a 45 rpm record. Now I play the 1812 Overture with the hope that both the music and I end with a big bang.

My ex-wife refused to allow me to screw her ass and because of my persistence she decided to teach me a lesson and screw mine instead with a strap on. I find out what it’s like to take it in the ass and she liked it so much she adopted strap on sex as part of our sexual repertoire. She never gave me the chance to reciprocate and I was always on the receiving end of her dildo.

Anal is amazing and I think if people got over the stigma of it and really just relaxed, they would find that its' quite enjoyable. My advice... go slow and use LOTS of lube. try to warm up with toys of increasing size and lubricate the inside of the bum, not just the thing going in. As subtle and small as fingernails are, they can hurt.

It really varies for me. When we go to the beach, I actually really like the way younger guys look with smaller cocks. I kind of think long flaccid cocks look gross. I like it if his balls are nice and tight and the tip falls just below his scrotum. When it comes to sex, it's really more of a mental thing for me. I can cum.easily from an attractive guy with a small penis. There are times that I really want the sensation created by as long thick cock as well.

Betty Childs, Pi-Delta-Pi: [gasps] Ahhh! You're that NERD! Lewis: Yeah. Betty Childs, Pi-Delta-Pi: [blissfully] Oh, you were wonderful. [gasps in ecstacy] Betty Childs, Pi-Delta-Pi: Are all nerds as good as you? Lewis: Yes. Betty Childs, Pi-Delta-Pi: How come? Lewis: 'Cause all Jocks ever think about is sports, all we ever think about is sex. From the movie 'Revenge of the Nerds'