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Anyone old enough to remember The Newlywed Game? Answer: In the butt, Bob.

Better safe than sorry. Live to swing another day.

I had serious fun with a salesman in the dressing room while wearing the merchandise.

Although many others have done the same, I would say that the kinkiest place that I've had sex was in my bum hole. ?

Greetings. We are new here. I (Marla) have some experience swinging. But it was a long (long) time ago before I met Brian. We been together almost 30-years. Last year (I was a bit buzzed) I mentioned my past swinging to him. At first I thought he might get mad, but was pleased to see he was aroused. So I told him some of the details. I swapped a few times with my first husband but didn't really enjoy it. I knew marriage was on rocks and he talked me into it, I was thinking it might help smooth things out. Of course it didn't and we divorced. After my divorce I did have some fun 3 or 4 times a year with a group of friends that would meet up for a long weekend. I also use to travel a fair amount for work and was able to have fun on the road. But as I mentioned it was a long time ago. Anyways, since I brought it up to Brian we've talked about starting up (he has no experience). But since I've been out of it for such a long time I feel like a novice. So we joined this site to mainly get information about the lifestyles ins & outs (so to speak no pun intended) these days. So I think we will be reading a lot of the forms to get up to speed about the lifestyle. So thanks to all those who post here, it will help us in many ways as this journey moves on, if it does at all.

Almost the entire relationship... Nearly 10 years.

We men always think we know it all going into something like this. Then the moment is happening and it's the most erotic experience ever, and it won't get hard. It doesn't even make sense. But as you get more comfortable, it will start working. Give it time and most importantly, don't overthink it. It can snowball if you are all stressed out about it happening again, It probably will for the first couple times. As your experience grows, you will encounter men that will also experience this. Very important to let the wife know it has nothing to do with her.