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i'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that about 40-50% of husbands in couples where the male is listed as straight will dabble in m2m fun behind closed doors. Also this tends to be truer of more mature couples with more years in the lifestyle. Lots of couples tend to list hubby as straight so as not to turn off other couples. Our experience with single males suggests that guys who list themselves as bi do in fact get quite a lot of interest and quite a lot of action,, and don't be surprised if a lot of interest does in fact come from couples where hubby is listed as straight.

So are you suggesting that bi people are not normal?

Male bisexuality is a difficult thing to define. Our guys will do things like DP, sloppy seconds, go down on us after the other guy has ejaculated inside, one kiss a woman while the other fucks her, etc. There are perhaps homosexual aspects to it, but they never do full-on oral or anal gay acts, the exact things that they do with women. They really believe that it isn't gay if there is a woman involved. Or it's more that guys want to get off in a woman and will tolerate just about anything that gets them there. That seems to be the real dividing line.

Sounds like a similar story to Ms. Golds experience: Her (then) husband convinced her to try swinging with some friends (which is why we don't support swinging with friends) in an effort to 'improve' their marriage... it didn't and it cost them some friends. The marriage was already in trouble and it also ended that. Several years later when we met, we were telling each other about our romantic experiences and she told me about how they experimented with swinging. Much to my surprise, she said that she could possibly be interested in trying swinging again, it just needed to be with the right person and circumstances. We started doing research (we are both data junkies) and found this forum (as well as other information from the web) and here we are! Swinging will never save a bad relationship, but it can add the sprinkles to the great ice cream sundae of life. Let us know if you have any questions or just want to talk more.

lol doesn't feel like there are many christian swingers out there. be nice to play with people that have the same views as we do