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We've played with our neighbor as a single woman for most of a year now. Her (now) ex-husband was a chronic cheater and eventually people sat her down and showed her the receipts. Before the pandemic, she was on all the dating sites and having a great time. We were careful to avoid her being seen coming and going at sketchy hours to avoid gossip, but there was no hiding what was going on at her house. One day, the nosy widow caddy-corner to her stops me while mowing her lawn and says, scandalously, "you know, there is a different car at her house every weekend". I did not point out that I knew she'd banged the ex-husband herself. Seems to me people who gossip a lot are often trying to preemptively damage others for fear they, themselves, will eventually be revealed.

Agreed, and what we find interesting and exciting is the alone MF play. It happens regularly among our closed group of married couples. Some of it is just fun sex, some pairings involve romantic emotions. One of the MF pairings involves D/S stuff no one else, especially their spouses are into. The strange one is another wife and me whose interests in theater, museums, and classical music line up with each other and no one else. We have gone out of town together to catch events. (My wife read our email exchange before a trip and was disappointed in the lack of sexual content.) There is delightful sex between us, but much more too. That's exactly what we have done, but with several more couples. No playing outside the group but no rules inside the group. Works perfectly for us.

My wife and I were active in the swinging lifestyle in the 2000's. We stopped for a variety of reasons; chiefly savvy teenagers (we had 4 at the time), a company-related move, and ... too many people just wanting a notch on the bedpost. Seriously, many couldn't even complete a sentence. For these couples, "taking one for the team" was their mantra. We have recently re-entered the lifestyle again now that we are empty nesters. We are/were not looking for a polyamorous situation, but we wanted a level of trust before putting our faces between someone else's legs. To us, swinging is/was a way to meet people with similar views regarding sex. However, we also wanted to be able to be seen in public with these people. Couples who cannot carry on a conversation, do not care about their appearance - no so much weight as personal hygiene, clothing, etc., or have manners or etiquette are a huge turn-off. We do NOT jump into the sack with anyone on the first meet-up. We make/made that very clear in our bio on the various websites. In a Lifestyle club, we will flirt, converse, watch and be watched. In a "normal" situation or location, we treat any potential couple as the newly introduced people they are. 90% of the vanilla dates people go on, are because of a mutual interest - concert, comedy, kids, whatever. Meeting up with a lifestyle couple is exactly the same. Said another way, a mutual interest will get you a date, after that, YOU have to keep the interest going.

Amazing! This is the first story I've ever heard where someone did not have a problem with a contractor. ?

The common wisdom is that men want sex a lot more than women. The reality is that women have both a greater capacity for sex and (especially as we collectively entered our thirties) a greater desire for sex. I found the more I get, the more I want. Opening up to my Lesbian side made that even more true.

I'm certain that people talk about me behind my back, or more likely used to talk about me. The novelty of a woman living (and presumably being intimate) with several other people has worn off. Plus now there are openly the gay guys, the butch Lesbians, the bisexuals, the girls who braggingly tell tales that grown men only used to say in hushed voices. In my own mind I sometimes wonder if I'm the prude; I have plenty of sex, but it's with the same three men and two women. I've only had full intercourse with five men in my life. Lots of teenagers, including girls, have had many more partners than that. At this point in my life I am proud of who I am, so there is nothing for me to endure.

We have not got together with anyone else since this covid thing hit and we will not be anytime soon! The lifestyle has always just been something we can do when the right opportunity pops up. It has never been something we can’t live without. We both are very happy to just fuck each other and don’t feel like we are missing out on something when that is all we are doing. When and if things get back to normal in life we will probably step back in when the right opportunity presents itself. We have actually been quite surprised by how many people have messaged us interested in meeting while this is going on. I guess if you don’t have any family members or loved ones to be worried about giving a potentially deadly virus too, because you just got to get some strange then no big deal. We do have family that would be at risk if they got this virus. Easy choice for us.

I too didn’t think of my first threesome as swinging. I didn’t think of my playing with my bf and my girlfriends as swinging. I didn’t even think of me going to a party as swinging. I say that even though I googled having a threesome and it brought to the swingersboard. Not sure how I found this site before I realized I was swinging.

My guy has guided many dicks into my pussy and asshole, just to show that he is ok with it and ... I got a kick out of it as well

Yes I have done it, more than once, I have put on condom on my husband's cock and then I have guided myself his cock to another pussy

I'm a woman who has guided my husband's cock into another girl. It was HOT HOT HOT to me. I know you were asking men, but thought I'd share anyway.