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Like Numex, we found it easier to arrange solo dates than together dates. As we progressed and embraced the idea of having long term play partners, we recognized that going on play dates together was going to become harder to do with long term partners. We discussed that long term partners would sometimes have sexual needs that wouldn't want to wait days to respond to. It would need to be more spontaneous, like "Hey can you come over?" A response of "Sure, but it'll be a couple of days while we sort out a baby sitter". Kinda kills the mood With the two long term boyfriends my wife has had, she had far more solo dates with them than both of us going. I always enjoyed her telling me the whole story when she got home, and having sex while she told me all about her date. Now, solo dates with someone the first time....that's a different story.

Personally I just couldn't sit there and watch...... for any length of time anyway ?

Fellas, how many of you enjoy rimming your woman's ass? Ladies, do you enjoy it as well and would you or do you like to rim your man's ass? Myself personally I love to lick my wife's ass. It's a big turn on for me!!! I also love it in return. I know a lot of guys can't get passed the "if she play with my ass, and I like it" then does that make me have gay tendencies? Well, when you fuck your woman in the ass, do you think about gay tendencies? I don't think so!!!

Yeah.....COVID boredom. So something for fun. Ladies what is your accommodating capability? How low can you go? Do you challenge yourself orally? Depth of penetration? Men what can you offer? All by color ......

when that happens with us whoever is done first usually we go and help our playmates finish..... it's a joy to help and share the rewards!

I don’t think he was looking to choke me, make me gag or vomit, I think he wasn’t thinking about anything but cumming. He wasn’t that type of guy. He had apologized for it after and the laugh might have been a way of laughing off his quickness. My gag reflex took over as it was a first for me. For men who use a mouth to facefu.. and you wondering what satisfaction she gets, sex is one of those things that is hard to explain what excites one person and not another. Is exciting your partner a fetish? Do you get excited giving oral to your GF? I can tell you I can get a little rough on a guy’s face when I’m excited. A good nose is a horrible thing to waste.

A lot of guys (especially younger) are into this gagging and vomiting stuff and my GF is more than happy to oblige. My best friend has an extremely strong fetish for this type of rough facefucking. I like it when my GF blows me and deep throats my dick but I'm not into the extremes of it like him and other guys. He knows the tricks on how to position her and make her puke like pumping with the head of it in her throat or stuffing his cock all the way down her throat and then popping it out. The first time she puked she ran off to the bathroom to do it but he wanted her to do it on his cock as the sensation turns him on. So now my GF will actually take a facefucking to where she vomits and keep going. What I don't understand is how she gets any enjoyment out of it. I know vomiting and irrumatio is a real fetish but I don't understand the sexual gratification you get from it (particularly the woman). I've asked her numerous times and she usually says something like "it's just fun to do." I think her submissive sexual nature and into being sexually dominated and humiliated plays into it on a psychological pleasure level but on a physical level I don't understand how there could be enjoyment. Although when I've asked her about that she has said that during sex the physical things feel different. Like if she was to have her hair pulled, slapped across the face, vomit, etc in a normal setting it would be painful or uncomfortable but in a sexual situation it is not. Personally I'm not into that kind of stuff as I don't find vomit sexy and I don't feel like placing towels down everywhere and cleaning up but I do have to admit it is extremely hot to watch her do it with other guys.

Thank you the advice and I too think I should be the other guy.

My wife and I definitely enjoy playing together, but we also enjoy playing separately, even alone one on one. The biggest reason that we do it is simply because it's easier to arrange. There have been many times where it is one couple and one of another couple having a threesome because one of us has to watch our collective kids.

Amazing! This is the first story I've ever heard where someone did not have a problem with a contractor. ?

The common wisdom is that men want sex a lot more than women. The reality is that women have both a greater capacity for sex and (especially as we collectively entered our thirties) a greater desire for sex. I found the more I get, the more I want. Opening up to my Lesbian side made that even more true.

Exactly. If you are the kind of husband who wants his wife to have sexual freedom and fulfilment then you are probably not the jealous controlling asshole type. Why would she choose one man over another when nobody is making her choose and she can have both? Even if feelings develop (and they may) a woman's heart has room for more love. All you need to do is give her love and encouragement and it can be a beautiful experience... a win/win/win!

I don't think a woman (or "wife") will "bond with her bull and leave her husband"! It is like saying a woman will bond with her dildo (the "bull") and leave her husband. A woman bonds with a nice, caring, and loving person (can be a man) and might leave her husband for that. We have to distinguish a cuckold arrangement where there is a bull whose purpose is to dominate the "wife" and humiliate the husband, and an open relationship, where a wife or woman voluntarily meets a man (not a "bull" and with honest communication with husband), in which case, it is possible to bond with him and leave her husband. I think Couplers' experience is more of an open relationship among the parties involved that led to her poly family. Imho.

This is an example of a social-media Web site phenomenon. Somebody asks, "who likes to . . ." and people line up to take a number for their turn to say, "not me". Anyway, I am not here to say whether or not I do but I want to share something relevant. There must be guys who like this because my wife tells me that more the half of the men she meets "go straight for my butt", to use her words, and on their very first meeting. A additional number, she reports, wait for the second or third meeting.