As best as I can recall, Casey Stingel said, "it ain't over 'till it's over." Ejaculation is not, for me, the finish. The reason that God gave me lips, tongue, and fingers was to get a woman into an elevated state of excitement and to keep her there. If my wife and her man finish first, they can do as they wish. If the woman who is on top of me or who is underneath me becomes distracted by this, I will do my selfish best to draw her attention back to me.