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I don’t think any straight guy can understand what a girl is going through the first time she is giving a blowjob. My girlfriend gave a boy a blow job before me and warned me about her first time and she let him out of her mouth and got a mess on her clothing. Her next time she swallowed and said it wasn’t bad. Me being a cool friend I offered her brother a blow job. He knew it was my first time so he just opened his pants and let me go slow. I kissed it and kissed it. He said I could take it in my mouth. He was teaching me. He had slowed me and told me to stop and I thought maybe he was finished and then he was sliding in and out. When he came I swallowed and then another gush and another. Felt like he was gushing a cup full and I swallowed as fast as I could. I later told my friend that it wasn’t bad, in fact I was afraid I was going to come off as not knowing what I was doing.

Met a couple who had met in a couples swap. They ended up swaping wives completely. I don't know all the story or truth there, but that was their story & they stuck to it.

We are not married but me and my GF was just fuck buddies prior to putting a title to it. We had a lot of threesomes back then but we weren't technically a couple and then it progressed into it over time.

I don't have any stories to tell; my wife and I fell in love long before we got into swinging, and of course remain so. But, on the topic in general; there's psychological underpinnings for the rationale that sex creates bonding. If two people have sex a number of times, there's a fair chance of them developing feelings for each other. I've read articles before about love being intentionally created. I think there was even a Big Bang Theory episode on this, where Penny and Sheldon experimented with the idea. As I call, while they didn't exactly fall in love, they were closer after the test than before. Anyway, there's a reason we call "making love" as we do. It does make love. Now, if that was the only facet of the relationship, then no not much depth to it :) But, it does create bonding. It's not surprising that some couples might be generated by non-monogamy.

Kissing is the way to start sexual play and the icing on the cake to finish the session.

We have been very active with friends and acquaintances - friends, coworkers, my GF's boss, etc. and we have had some bumps in the road but at the end of the day we both agree that the benefits have outweighed the drawbacks for us.

I don’t think he was looking to choke me, make me gag or vomit, I think he wasn’t thinking about anything but cumming. He wasn’t that type of guy. He had apologized for it after and the laugh might have been a way of laughing off his quickness. My gag reflex took over as it was a first for me. For men who use a mouth to facefu.. and you wondering what satisfaction she gets, sex is one of those things that is hard to explain what excites one person and not another. Is exciting your partner a fetish? Do you get excited giving oral to your GF? I can tell you I can get a little rough on a guy’s face when I’m excited. A good nose is a horrible thing to waste.

A lot of guys (especially younger) are into this gagging and vomiting stuff and my GF is more than happy to oblige. My best friend has an extremely strong fetish for this type of rough facefucking. I like it when my GF blows me and deep throats my dick but I'm not into the extremes of it like him and other guys. He knows the tricks on how to position her and make her puke like pumping with the head of it in her throat or stuffing his cock all the way down her throat and then popping it out. The first time she puked she ran off to the bathroom to do it but he wanted her to do it on his cock as the sensation turns him on. So now my GF will actually take a facefucking to where she vomits and keep going. What I don't understand is how she gets any enjoyment out of it. I know vomiting and irrumatio is a real fetish but I don't understand the sexual gratification you get from it (particularly the woman). I've asked her numerous times and she usually says something like "it's just fun to do." I think her submissive sexual nature and into being sexually dominated and humiliated plays into it on a psychological pleasure level but on a physical level I don't understand how there could be enjoyment. Although when I've asked her about that she has said that during sex the physical things feel different. Like if she was to have her hair pulled, slapped across the face, vomit, etc in a normal setting it would be painful or uncomfortable but in a sexual situation it is not. Personally I'm not into that kind of stuff as I don't find vomit sexy and I don't feel like placing towels down everywhere and cleaning up but I do have to admit it is extremely hot to watch her do it with other guys.

That first memory of being eye to eye with a penis. A kiss, then a lick and with urging taking it in my mouth. Not long after that hand on my head and a burst in my mouth. Gagging, choking and vomiting and him laughing. What a jerk. My initiation. They say practice makes perfect. I learned all the signs of an upcummimg surprise. At first it was just do it by hand making a mess or worse getting it on me or in my eye or hair. Then I would take it and run to spit. I remember my third guy I was doing this to and he warned me his was going to cum and I went deep and he gushed. I just swallowed. He said that his last gf never did that. I said I never did it either. From that time on I just swallowed. I know some men like to watch themselves cumming and pull out making it just messy. Read the article I just posted about the benefits of swallowing.

Is “butt” a pun?

i'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that about 40-50% of husbands in couples where the male is listed as straight will dabble in m2m fun behind closed doors. Also this tends to be truer of more mature couples with more years in the lifestyle. Lots of couples tend to list hubby as straight so as not to turn off other couples. Our experience with single males suggests that guys who list themselves as bi do in fact get quite a lot of interest and quite a lot of action,, and don't be surprised if a lot of interest does in fact come from couples where hubby is listed as straight.

Just started looking, sounds like the best kind of foursome. Everyone just having fun no matter who.

For us, its kindness and class. Attractiveness is relative, both of us have our "types". Its nice when we meet a couple where both match our types. But if one is and one isn't we look beyond, to see how they treat one another. Is he loving and respectful towards his wife even while wanting to get mine naked? Is she an equal partner in their swinging life? Could we, without embarrassment, introduce them to our bosses or vanilla friends while in a public place? Good looks and personality do figure in for us but classy, kind hearted people can cause us to overlook a few extra lbs or even a toupee (although god help the rug if my dog gets it!!)

no fucking without kissing...

That is true for my wife and I as well. For my wife, she is genuinely in love with one other guy and one other woman (not his wife). They exchange "I love you"s in the throes of passion, when parting, on the phone, in texts. They don't hide it and it doesn't bother me (or their spouses). I much prefer that another man have caring feelings for my wife than just consider her a cum dump to fuck and leave. My wife sometimes plays alone with him and when she comes home she is as loving and caring towards me as ever, better I would say than 99% of marriages. My case is a little different in that I go on dates with a woman who has common cultural interests as I do that bore our spouses silly. We have even gone on jaunts out of town to catch events. (Before a trip to New York, my wife read our emails, and was surprised (and maybe disappointed) that there was no discussion of sex, just plays, concerts, museums.) We too are "in love" in our way, have sex, and say those three little words to one another, but realize that our relationship is more one-dimensional than that with our spouses. At the end of the day, living life on the edge like this makes me feel all that more happy and secure in our marriage and home. I realized this after watching my wife the first time have (more than "have," "enjoy") a (condomless) DP with two other guys. This, I felt, was perhaps perhaps too far. Until we got home, the babysitter left and she, our daughter and I sat on the couch watching TV. I realized then that things were perfect.

Oral after intercourse is hotter, especially if it's another couple that just finished intercourse. Then kissing.

Mrs. Alura did. She once remarked, "I always expect to swallow. If I didn't, the guy's cock wouldn't be in my mouth."

We are soft swap and absolutely respect the rules of others but "no kissing" would mean "a pass" with us. Respect your right of choice though.