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Like many of you, we've grown completely fed up with quarantining and decided it was time to step out of our voluntary social isolation. We've been breaking quarantine by visiting naturist (nude) beaches. We reason they provide the ideal opportunities to break quarantine without any meaningful possibility of exposing ourselves (or anyone else) to COVID-19, yet still provide a sensual, relaxing, and welcoming environment to socialize with like-minded couples and individuals. With a part-time residence in SW Florida, we are fortunate to have access to a handful of legal naturist beaches available to us within comparatively short drive times. Currently, our favorite location is Blind Creek Beach on Hutchinson Island, a barrier island located immediately south of Ft Pierce, Florida, on the east coast. Although Blind Creek Beach was an "unofficial" nude beach for many years, just recently it was "officially" sanctioned as a clothing-optional recreational area by local authorities. Unlike so many of Florida's other beaches, Blind Creek Beach is very under-utilized during most days, especially during the week. Note this is not a commercialized area. There are no showers, lifeguards, or concessions. There are a couple of portable toilets at the entrance to pathway to the beach. If you happen to live nearby or plan on visiting the area, please let us know. We're interested in making new friends with nice couples and singles. Unfortunately, we are not ready to immediately resume playing at this time, but we'll be "first in line" for the upcoming COVID-19 vaccine and plan on returning to our normal activities as soon as practicable. Stay healthy and safe, Andrew and Ann

Everything GoldCoCouple said. Spot on. I wanted to emphasize what GoldCoCouple said here quoted above. I mentioned previously in this thread that I approached an old girlfriend (with my wife's permission), and that it did not go well. She and I are very close, and remain very close. We broke up 10 years before I met my wife, but it was a very amicable break up. I never really thought about propositioning her with idea of us having sex again, but as my wife and I became more comfortable with emotions developing it seemed like a potentially natural evolution for my wife and I. After quite some time and a fair bit of thought, we decided to try it. I spent two years on and off flirting with my ex girlfriend. As I said, we're very close. All three of us referred to her as a sister wife, and all of us were comfortable with that. That is, until I propositioned her that it could be something of a reality. I thought there was a very high chance she was going to be accepting of it, and found out she was exactly the opposite. No matter how well you think you know your friends, you never really know just how they will react.

Hi everyone - I recently had an experience on the beach where a woman was, in my opinion, a clear exhibitionist. She was lying sideways in a bikini, and her breast kept slipping out of her top. She clearly knew what was going on, and it happened repeatedly. At one point she looked at me and gave me a small smile. As a guy and complete lover of the entire female form, I not only loved watching it, but was quite turned on by it. My question is this - For those of you who are exhibitionists, why do you do it? Is it just for the thrill? Or does it turn you on? If it turns you on, does it turn you on during the act, or later, when you talk about it with your spouse or SO? How does it make you feel, and are you scared of getting caught? Also, is it appropriate if I were to approach you and chat with you? Or is that creepy and not part of it all? Thanks!!

I can't believe I haven't added to this conversation! For me the answer is: It Depends. There is no 'usual' or 'average'; the encounters are too diverse. If Mary and I pick up someone at the club and it's just a one-night stand, it is almost always at least thirty minutes long, almost never more than an hour. If Mary and I have another couple that we really like over to our house (or at theirs,) we usually have our first session (which is never hurried,) then into a hiatus where we all sit around and enjoy ourselves, then usually a second round, and even, perhaps a third round. Rarely less than an hour and a half, four hours isn't out of the question. Mary's MFMs follow the above patterns fairly closely. And, if we're with one of the couples and they sleep over, me with the wife, Mary with the husband, there's always the chance for morning sex. So, does that eight or ten hours count?

I guess 30-60 minutes. I will say my wife and I get bored by marathon sessions. If I am on Vitamin V, I can reload remarkably quickly, so if a partner wants to go for round 2, I am impressed that I can do it.

I have posted my beginning of being in the lifestyle. I don’t pretend to know the whole conversation my wife and her friend had. My wife’s best friend from childhood got divorced and then remarried. My wife was with her through the highs and lows. Most likely my wife knew some deep reasons of her friends life. I’m just the husband and only heard what my wife shared. During her rebound she dated a few men. I always wondered how many she was with. Fast forward she marries a guy that I approve of. I felt almost like a brother-in-law and wanted the best for her. That is the background that must have led to the women talking about swinging. The new husband was a swinger in his prior marriage. I had no idea. I don’t know how the topic came up or what was said or how my wife first reacted. It must have excited my wife enough for her and our friend connived a way to get me to agree to us playing with them. I read so many posts about the downside of going forward. I figured they were experienced and who better to initiate us than friends we liked. In our start I was the one who had to be convinced not the wife. My exact memory of my fears have faded. My memory of jealousy has faded. My memory of our friend and me is still vivid. There might be a downside of playing with friends, for me I couldn’t think of anyone better.

I'm not actually sure I "want" to see men give my wife a facial - she's hot a fuck and talented as hell, she decides how the episode is going to end. I trust her judgment implicitly and she trusts mine. And we're always together, no separate room stuff for us, this is a experience we take as a couple It's never set-out as a goal but sure, in the heat of passion, she has definitely done facials. I sometimes have mixed feelings but maybe that adds to it because in the end, the show is super HOT. She has even taken multiples on a few occasions - mine and another at the same time -- and at least once, she did a double facial cumshot and neither cock was mine. But of course, as that was happening, I was simultaneously cumming on 2 pretty faces. God, group sex is so awesome.

The problem with having sex with friends (or making friends into swingers) is that if things go bad (and because the other couple probably doesn't have the foundation and the time to talk about swinging, swinging limits, etc and they haven't really considered swinging before this, the odds are pretty good that things can go bad) then EVERYONE is most likely going to know about it...neighbors, friends, family, co-workers. Is it worth taking the chance. Even just ASKING your friends, no matter how much you THINK they are interested, may shock and disgust them. You really don't know until it happens. Ms. Gold with her former husband tried this. They started going with friends nude in the hot tub...then fooling around, then changing partners and fooling around. In the end, Ms. Gold and her former husband shouldn't have been swinging at all (they were thinking that swinging would save a bad marriage) and the other couple...well the husband fell in 'love' with Ms. Gold and was willing to leave his wife for her (she wasn't interested, but everyone knew that he wanted her over his wife). Friendship was destroyed, private lives became public knowledge, marriages ended, and everyone knew why. While it may SOUND easier to do, it really just isn't worth the risk. You are just better off finding another couple(s) that have already decided to try swinging and make them friends.

We have been very active with friends and acquaintances - friends, coworkers, my GF's boss, etc. and we have had some bumps in the road but at the end of the day we both agree that the benefits have outweighed the drawbacks for us.

We have been pondering for some time and if this pandemic ever abates, our first time may be with close friends. We've been friends for almost 2 decades and live long-distance, but in the last few years have flirted a lot and at the beginning of the year we tested out the waters with some playful teasing and wandering hands at their house, just couldn't take it much farther since our kids and their kid were there. The plan was to take it further next time (without the kids around), but then the world caught on fire.. oy... but we still hope and tease.

We probably have 3 different modes of play depending upon the venue: 1. At a club: its often fairly quick and intense. This is especially true if we're in a group setting where we can have several partners in a short time, 20 minutes to an hour. Although there have been a few occasions at Trapeze when we've gone to the back at about 11:00 and next thing we knew it was 1:00 am. Mrs Doc calls that "bacon time". Those of you unfamiliar with Trapeze, they serve an excellent late (or early) breakfast and we know that if we make it to bacon time it's been a VERY good night. 2. At a house party: There is more of a build-up, sexy clothing, chatting and feeling up friends, ice breaker games, etc. We play at parties with people we know or friends of people we know so we often have multiple partners or end up in a big puppy pile taking generally around 2 to 2.5 hrs on average. 3. At home(ours or another couples): These occasions are more protracted. There is always a lot of foreplay, sometimes together, sometimes separate rooms. Our goal is for the four of us to cum as many times as possible, admittedly way easier for the two women than for most guys who are on the upper edge of the age curve. Sometimes with hydration or snack breaks, or a dip in the pool or spa before round 2, generally 2-3 hours. Of course, much of the above is directed related to Mrs Doc. She's multi-orgasmic but when she's done, she's DONE and therefore so am I. The attached picture is from a pre Wuhan party. Mrs Doc is on the right. There were 4 other wives that weren't in the picture. THAT was a 3 hour play party!!

My first experience with his bisexuality was very unexpected. We were playing with a male friend after some pretty tame hot tubbing. They both were focused on me so I started to work in their already hard cocks. We moved indoors and it was pretty clear that the other guy was waiting for the green light from my husband to take things further. My husband got on his back and asked me to get into a 69 position. I gave them both some oral and my husband invited the other guy to fuck me if it was okay with me. The guy took me from behind while my husband gave me oral. After a few minutes I could tell he was working on the guys cock while he was fucking me - I was shocked. He actually would put the guys cock in his mouth for a few seconds at a time. It was so incredibly hot I couldn’t hold back. Turns out it was my husbands first experience and was totally spontaneous.

I wish that I had side boobs.

Not trying to put words in midlife's mouth, but maybe what we are getting at here is the shamelessness and/or sense of freedom that goes along with what he experienced, on both sides? I would take much more pleasure in experiencing what he did than I would for a group of five women's bikini tops to get completely ripped off by a wave right in front of me and they are all embarrassed and squirming around trying to do the cover up the boob with the hands thing while running for a towel. What he experienced, the woman meant to share, or at a minimum, didn't care if she shared. My other example, they obviously do care, and so that just makes it something you see, not something you experience, so not the same thing at all really.

Ms. Gold: Yes, for the thrill, it turns me on, it turns you on, it turns us on later when we talk about it, and the excitement of getting caught.

any pressure for 1:1 private time or "dating"

Finding it hard to believe that french kissing came in third.

vaginal intercourse without a condom and absolutely NO anal penetration... no fingers either, too easy to introduce saliva into the anus... okay so I'm phobic about it... The "L" word has never come up... but would definitely make me uncomfortable... except in a joke setting or group setting applicable to both members of a couple ... as in "I love you guys" but I really don't think it ever has come up????

Yeah... saying "I love you" to a playmate would be... bad.

Using the "L" word.

Proves my point.