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I Make love when we meet I Love what he does when we are together I Love what we do together I Love the anticipation of meeting I Love pleasing and being pleased I Love the snuggling, kissing and playing. BUT I ONLY LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!!

In our nudist life over the past 30 years we usually leave the curtains open when we fuck as long as there are no children in the area. When we used to stay at Paradise Lakes and Desert Shadows we got it off a few times outdoors as well and on cruise ship patios. Before all the Wu would get naked in the car so I could masturbate her on the freeway, drove slow but sometimes we couldn't stop until right up to the front door. Wonderful memories!

My swinging started with a friend, though not an everyday friend. She was a college friend in town for a football game. There was no talk, no asking, it just happened while sharing a hotel room after the game. We have two very close friends that we are very sexually involved with. My husband’s best friend who my husband approached to join us and a very good friend of mine who I didn’t want to include but eventually welcomed into our play. Neither of them have caused any problem for us. My husband’s friend has become the person who I have had more play with than anyone else other than my husband. An outsider might question our relationship even though there are no romantic attachment. I was hesitant at first and included him at my husbands urging and none of us have regrets.

I can't believe I haven't added to this conversation! For me the answer is: It Depends. There is no 'usual' or 'average'; the encounters are too diverse. If Mary and I pick up someone at the club and it's just a one-night stand, it is almost always at least thirty minutes long, almost never more than an hour. If Mary and I have another couple that we really like over to our house (or at theirs,) we usually have our first session (which is never hurried,) then into a hiatus where we all sit around and enjoy ourselves, then usually a second round, and even, perhaps a third round. Rarely less than an hour and a half, four hours isn't out of the question. Mary's MFMs follow the above patterns fairly closely. And, if we're with one of the couples and they sleep over, me with the wife, Mary with the husband, there's always the chance for morning sex. So, does that eight or ten hours count?

Hi everyone - I recently had an experience on the beach where a woman was, in my opinion, a clear exhibitionist. She was lying sideways in a bikini, and her breast kept slipping out of her top. She clearly knew what was going on, and it happened repeatedly. At one point she looked at me and gave me a small smile. As a guy and complete lover of the entire female form, I not only loved watching it, but was quite turned on by it. My question is this - For those of you who are exhibitionists, why do you do it? Is it just for the thrill? Or does it turn you on? If it turns you on, does it turn you on during the act, or later, when you talk about it with your spouse or SO? How does it make you feel, and are you scared of getting caught? Also, is it appropriate if I were to approach you and chat with you? Or is that creepy and not part of it all? Thanks!!

Like many of you, we've grown completely fed up with quarantining and decided it was time to step out of our voluntary social isolation. We've been breaking quarantine by visiting naturist (nude) beaches. We reason they provide the ideal opportunities to break quarantine without any meaningful possibility of exposing ourselves (or anyone else) to COVID-19, yet still provide a sensual, relaxing, and welcoming environment to socialize with like-minded couples and individuals. With a part-time residence in SW Florida, we are fortunate to have access to a handful of legal naturist beaches available to us within comparatively short drive times. Currently, our favorite location is Blind Creek Beach on Hutchinson Island, a barrier island located immediately south of Ft Pierce, Florida, on the east coast. Although Blind Creek Beach was an "unofficial" nude beach for many years, just recently it was "officially" sanctioned as a clothing-optional recreational area by local authorities. Unlike so many of Florida's other beaches, Blind Creek Beach is very under-utilized during most days, especially during the week. Note this is not a commercialized area. There are no showers, lifeguards, or concessions. There are a couple of portable toilets at the entrance to pathway to the beach. If you happen to live nearby or plan on visiting the area, please let us know. We're interested in making new friends with nice couples and singles. Unfortunately, we are not ready to immediately resume playing at this time, but we'll be "first in line" for the upcoming COVID-19 vaccine and plan on returning to our normal activities as soon as practicable. Stay healthy and safe, Andrew and Ann

The whole feelings thing pops up in numerous topics. Perhaps I will start another one shortly, but for right now I have a question. Why do so many think that love is a finite commodity? Yes there are different loves, mine for my wife is unique. There are others though that fall close to it. We have some friends who have gotten very close to us. The others wife and I... well let us just say that I am very glad that my wife is not the jealous type. In many cases the feelings involved might justify it. The one thing that makes it work for us is that the four of us are all very protective of the others marriages. This is not , by my definition, polyamory. It is just that something has really clicked with my lover and I, coupled with everyone having their priorities in line. The fact that both of our spouses are comfortable and supportive with us is remarkable. This is probably because there is no doubt on anyone's part where first loyalties lie.

We don't personally know any couples who met through swinging, but I have read accounts here and on other sites of people saying that is how they got together, so I'm sure it happens. I think the interesting part to me there is the sex part already has its box checked, where in the more usual scenario sex is happening simultaneously with attraction growing toward love. Although that's the way it usually happens, I think some breakups are caused by that too since the good sex may drowned out some quiet voices in someone's head whether this person is "the one" for them. Then over time, the sexual excitement initial peak starts to fade back to baseline, and those voices are still there, they can just be heard now, and things go downhill from there. I would agree with this, it's almost inevitable really since the more feeling connection, the more sex, and the more sex, the more connection. After that though, it turns into a "what feelings?" and "what is love?" sort of question. That's where I think swingers differ from married non swingers. They see sex at sort of a binary thing - sex just for sex sake, so like cheating spouse having one night stands, and then in love sex, like married couple. Swingers see a lot more room between those two, and it's more of a continuum.

This is the reason my wife doesn't like to go to clubs. She's half asleep by midnight and by 12:30 she's catatonic. By the time the action gets going, she's ready to sleep. :/

My wife has some exhibitionistic impulses but these days generally represses them. She’s good with nude beaches, particularly over the past couple of years, after getting into better physical condition, losing some weight and coming to grips with becoming elderly. But she’s now uncomfortable with even the idea of having others watch us have sex. Thirty years ago, when we had only recently begun dating, she was more exhibitionistic in her behavior. Her favorite erotic video was the orgy scene in “Behind the Green Door” where the Marilyn Chambers character is ravished before a large audience. In those days she would masturbate at our nearby nude beach (Gunnison at Sandy Hook) if we were far enough away from other beach goers that her actions were not too obvious. And she was cool with fucking sitting in my lap one evening in our car parked in the Vince Lombardi rest area on the New Jersey Turnpike while a man stood by that side of our car, looking in at us.

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I have posted my beginning of being in the lifestyle. I don’t pretend to know the whole conversation my wife and her friend had. My wife’s best friend from childhood got divorced and then remarried. My wife was with her through the highs and lows. Most likely my wife knew some deep reasons of her friends life. I’m just the husband and only heard what my wife shared. During her rebound she dated a few men. I always wondered how many she was with. Fast forward she marries a guy that I approve of. I felt almost like a brother-in-law and wanted the best for her. That is the background that must have led to the women talking about swinging. The new husband was a swinger in his prior marriage. I had no idea. I don’t know how the topic came up or what was said or how my wife first reacted. It must have excited my wife enough for her and our friend connived a way to get me to agree to us playing with them. I read so many posts about the downside of going forward. I figured they were experienced and who better to initiate us than friends we liked. In our start I was the one who had to be convinced not the wife. My exact memory of my fears have faded. My memory of jealousy has faded. My memory of our friend and me is still vivid. There might be a downside of playing with friends, for me I couldn’t think of anyone better.

I'm not actually sure I "want" to see men give my wife a facial - she's hot a fuck and talented as hell, she decides how the episode is going to end. I trust her judgment implicitly and she trusts mine. And we're always together, no separate room stuff for us, this is a experience we take as a couple It's never set-out as a goal but sure, in the heat of passion, she has definitely done facials. I sometimes have mixed feelings but maybe that adds to it because in the end, the show is super HOT. She has even taken multiples on a few occasions - mine and another at the same time -- and at least once, she did a double facial cumshot and neither cock was mine. But of course, as that was happening, I was simultaneously cumming on 2 pretty faces. God, group sex is so awesome.

Your first time you made him cum and swallowed the entire load without any problem. Give yourself some credit.

Don’t think it’s impressive, I didn’t know what to do I am sure. He most likely could have done it alone without me. If I remember after all these years it didn’t take long. Maybe I had a talent as I think at that age it was normal for most. It was not deep throat fucking I am certain. Maybe some guys cannot cum from blowjobs, I don’t think I ever met a guy who didn’t cum if I wanted him to.

I don’t think any straight guy can understand what a girl is going through the first time she is giving a blowjob. My girlfriend gave a boy a blow job before me and warned me about her first time and she let him out of her mouth and got a mess on her clothing. Her next time she swallowed and said it wasn’t bad. Me being a cool friend I offered her brother a blow job. He knew it was my first time so he just opened his pants and let me go slow. I kissed it and kissed it. He said I could take it in my mouth. He was teaching me. He had slowed me and told me to stop and I thought maybe he was finished and then he was sliding in and out. When he came I swallowed and then another gush and another. Felt like he was gushing a cup full and I swallowed as fast as I could. I later told my friend that it wasn’t bad, in fact I was afraid I was going to come off as not knowing what I was doing.

We would have them over for dinner or drinks. Mention our trips to HEDO II. If there seems to be some interest, my wife would take the other women to the bedroom and try on some of her sexy dresses for her, if there is still more interest wife and maybe the other woman would come out and model for us guys. We take it from there.

We're a younger couple and have no kids so maybe it's just easier for us to ask. Our feeling is if they are really our friends they won't be judgemental about it and most people haven't been.

For us, its kindness and class. Attractiveness is relative, both of us have our "types". Its nice when we meet a couple where both match our types. But if one is and one isn't we look beyond, to see how they treat one another. Is he loving and respectful towards his wife even while wanting to get mine naked? Is she an equal partner in their swinging life? Could we, without embarrassment, introduce them to our bosses or vanilla friends while in a public place? Good looks and personality do figure in for us but classy, kind hearted people can cause us to overlook a few extra lbs or even a toupee (although god help the rug if my dog gets it!!)

Ms. Gold: Yes, for the thrill, it turns me on, it turns you on, it turns us on later when we talk about it, and the excitement of getting caught.

I agree with Lauriern. Sometimes there's just that chemical reaction that plays us all... I have never been as attracted to the Brad Pitts sexually (or otherwise) as I have been to the Clint Eastwood types (sexually and otherwise). However, I voted for a killer personality which I believe covers it all. It's hard to have a killer personality unless you have a self-confident nature and that usually stems from having that total package. A great smile is a also definite plus.

It's really hard to put a name on the quality that I find exciting. There are women who are drop-dead georgous, really pretty, strikingly beautiful, cute as a button, and all the things in between, but some women that I've met that would probably be classified as rather plain in the looks department, were just sexy as hell. It was something in their look or attitude that seemed to indicate that they were ready, willing and very able to take you places you've never been before, and that they would enjoy the ride just as much as you. Nice, silky hair and a soft, smooth complexion are definate turn-ons to me. But then again, so is a really nice butt or a perky, up-turned, rosy-nippled pair of young breasts! Sportync