Leaderboard
Popular Content
Showing content with the highest reputation on 10/18/2020 in all areas
-
6 pointsMain stream swinging is an oxymoron. Swinging is not main stream. Within swinging there are diverse interests. Bisexuality by both genders, BDSM, hot wifing, vixen/stag, dom/sub. Many of these sub interests are currently of no interest to me, but if I am open minded enough to participate in the lifestyle, I owe it to participants in these subgroups to be tolerant and supportive of their interests and not denigrate them.
-
3 pointsI think it’s expansive to accept there are many sexual preferences, many of which are not appealing to us, that are valid and should not be scorned or criticized. Down the road, some of them could become of interest. Or not. We had a nice discussion with a couple on a cruise who were into BDSM. We’re not really interested in it, but they told us what a night out is like for them, we told them what a night out is like for us and we all learned new things. Open mindedness to new ideas is a good thing. You don’t have to do it, like it or watch it, but it’s nice to be supportive of other people’s interests and not make them feel weird or aberrant. I don’t think you’re a hypocrite. You are entitled to your preferences. Not a problem at all.
-
1 pointWe know plenty of couples who are into it. The women love it. m/m play in the context of mfmf and mfm play is more common than you might think. And, it would not happen if the ladies weren't enthusiastically in favor - because as we all know - they are in charge.
-
1 pointI personally have no desire to see that. We were playing at parties and have never seen it occur within the guys in our group. It also has not come up in any conversations. I try to keep an open mind to what others do and would not disparage guys who are into it. So here I am, a participant of same sex play saying two females is fun but not wanting to watch two males. Does that make me a hypocrite?
-
1 pointIMO, main-stream swinging is a female-centric activity/culture, where women are desired, worshiped and rule. As much as a few persistent guys want it to be so, man-on-man sex is just not desirable in this setting. To me personally, it's fucking gross. Us ugly, disgusting male beings ought to consider ourselves lucky that women will let us be with them sexually in the first place, let's not ruin that by turning them off even more with guys sucking each others dicks. I think most woman are not interested in seeing gay male sex and some are downright against it. There are surely niche groups and settings out there that cater to bi-male group sex but standard swingers culture is not one of them. ?
-
1 pointI would be turned off. The few times we have played with couples it has never happened. If you meet a couple make sure the man is okay before.
-
1 pointI Make love when we meet I Love what he does when we are together I Love what we do together I Love the anticipation of meeting I Love pleasing and being pleased I Love the snuggling, kissing and playing. BUT I ONLY LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!!
-
1 pointI’m both a bit of a voyeur and an exhibitionist. I may have mentioned this incident on another thread on this board, but perhaps not. A few years ago at an orgy kind of party in a hotel suite all the beds were completely filled so I was fucking a woman missionary position on the floor of the living room. A few feet away from us the male half of the hosting couple and another couple were engaged in a conversation about sports (the NFL if I recall?) paying us no attention. A while later, while my partner and I continued to thrust against each other, I looked up to see the conversation had ceased and the couple were slowly masturbating while they watched us intently. I was already pretty aroused — I mean this was in the middle of a fuck — but the knowledge that this couple was turned on by watching us, and sufficiently appreciative of what they were seeing to physically stimulate themselves (and not just start playing with each other) was both gratifying and a further turn-on for me. Within a minute or two I was unable to further delay my orgasm.
-
1 pointI have posted my beginning of being in the lifestyle. I don’t pretend to know the whole conversation my wife and her friend had. My wife’s best friend from childhood got divorced and then remarried. My wife was with her through the highs and lows. Most likely my wife knew some deep reasons of her friends life. I’m just the husband and only heard what my wife shared. During her rebound she dated a few men. I always wondered how many she was with. Fast forward she marries a guy that I approve of. I felt almost like a brother-in-law and wanted the best for her. That is the background that must have led to the women talking about swinging. The new husband was a swinger in his prior marriage. I had no idea. I don’t know how the topic came up or what was said or how my wife first reacted. It must have excited my wife enough for her and our friend connived a way to get me to agree to us playing with them. I read so many posts about the downside of going forward. I figured they were experienced and who better to initiate us than friends we liked. In our start I was the one who had to be convinced not the wife. My exact memory of my fears have faded. My memory of jealousy has faded. My memory of our friend and me is still vivid. There might be a downside of playing with friends, for me I couldn’t think of anyone better.
-
1 pointAmy and I agreed to hall passes. The other day she said she wanted to use a pass and encouraged me to do the same. We set it up for last night. Her lover would come over to our place and I would go over to Melissa's for a few hours. It was my fourth time in about one month, having sex with Melissa. Amy and Ken have been enjoying themselves for over 2 years. I got over to Melissa's and we talked for a while. She said that she wanted me to kiss her pussy for the longest time and make her cum lots of times. She took off her panties and I kissed and sucked her clit, put my tongue inside her pussy lips and lightly blew air inside her vagina. Each time she had an orgasm we stopped for a while. She held my cock giving an occasional stroke. My stimulation was psychological rather than physical. After about half an hour she said she wanted to fuck me. She said you’re just going to lay back and she would do all the work. She rode me cowgirl style, I couldn’t resist fondling her breasts. She went through a whole series of moves. Long deep, short fast, slow strokes on her g spot. Best of all, with my cock completely hurried inside her she gripped it tightly with her pussy muscles and shook her body. This was mind blowing, I encourage everyone to try it. She told me try not to cum yet, and she took long breaks, with my cock inside her. It must have been an hour before she said you can cum inside me when you're ready. OMG I had been ready for ages and shot my warm sperm into her. She responded with an orgasm, her 4th I believe. We laid for a while, both agreeing that it had been terrific. When I got home Amy and Ken were still making love. I stayed downstairs, listening to Amy’s load moans, ten times louder than normal. We talked after Ken left. This was the first time we had simultaneous hall passes. Obviously all highly satisfied participants. I’m sure it will be happening again soon.
