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We got invited to an after hours party at a nudist colony in Tampa. We didn't know any of the six or seven couples, but cozied up with a couple who were literally screwing on the kitchen counter. Fun times!

Hmmm, I was quite a Heinlein fan starting in Grade School up in the adult section of the County Library. I eventually found Fanny Hill up there too, perhaps explains my, "...major perversion...".

We have a question about Viagra, Cialis, other Help get it up medications and/or supplements. There is no issue going for one round, but he is interested in going more than one round. If a person who does not have ED takes one of these types of medications/supplements, what effect does it have? Will it make them even harder, last longer, be able to go even though they have already came? Our favorite line in the commercials is "if you have an erection lasting longer than four hours, call a doctor" Doctor? Heck with that, have her call all her friends!

“Concerning sex, our primary cultural assumption is that monogamy is the only acceptable pattern. A writer is permitted to write endlessly about rape, incest, adultery, and major perversion … provided he suggests that all of these things are always sinful or at least a social mistake — and must be paid for, either publicly or in remorse. (The thing the censors had against Lady Chatterley and her lover were not their rather tedious monosyllables, but the fact that they liked adultery and got away with it – and lived happily ever after.)” This quote is from Robert A. Heinlein in 1960 in a letter to his agent as he was authoring Stranger In A Strange Land. It should be noted that 'major perversion' probably included non-monogamy as Heinlein and his wife were almost certainly swingers. Although we have progressed some in the last sixty years, I think his comments continue to be somewhat valid. Your comments?

We have all of the above.... actually we have 2 satysfier's and 2 me-vibes one has just a remote and one has a remote and also works via the phone. And of course the required dildo collection. And for"special" occasions a collection of our BDSM toys. ?. Yeah we really are that kinky ?.

The Satisfyer and Womanizer sound similar. Sucking and vibrating the clit.

You... ... can. Just highlight the segment and choose the "Quote Selection" that pops up.

Been there done that and will do it again we it's safe to play in groups again.

OMG I had a friend that had that I think. It has a hole that both uses air and vibrates. I have always been self conscious about the size of my clitoris, I don’t know why I never liked what I look like down there. I know it’s just my self doubting. I have gotten over it. I was with a friend, pre-Covid days, who took out what I thought was a vibrator. Expecting just that I was surprised that after using her mouth she put this on my clitoris and it sucked me in with a rhythm and then it added the vibrating. I will agree it was amazing. I forgot all about it until reading your post. I miss my football party weekends, still too cautious to travel to a party like those. I already googled this toy and plan to order it.

We have had account with Adam & Eve forever. With Covid lockdowns we have been trying all new things weekly. Not sure how discreet their packaging. Our last purchase was the Satisfyer. This is not a cheap toy and works differently from a vibe. This works on the clitoris with a sucking and blowing sensation with air. Part of the fun is learning how to make it work for you. You need to have your clitoris sucked into an opening causing it to be sucked in. You control the intensity. Or you can vary the pressure. I love oral sex and this is oral sex on steroids. Alone or with Michael controlling the intensity, or supplementing the oral with his own mouth. Michael said that he enjoyed being in me while I had this working. No reason for any couple having only one type of toy when a new experience can be delivered in a few days.

Cheating means that you're hiding it, an acknowledgement that you know it's wrong. Swinging is admission all around that it's ok.

Wu is a vibrator girl, has had a cordless AccuVibe forever since back when the Hitachi's were only corded. We like the Eroscillator for travel, light and focused powerful although corded, including a Euro plug. Actually speaking of focused there is one of it's attachments that I like Wu to lend to my urethral meatus when her clit and g-spot need breathers. Got to love traveling, can hardly wait for 2021, we hope!

My first toy was not life like, it was a vibrating plastic tube. I would insert it even if it was the vibration that was the real relief. My mom had in her drawer penis shaped vibes. Shhh don’t tell her I knew lol. When I built up my nerve to go to an adult store on 8th Ave in NYC I couldn’t believe all the different toys or the looks I was getting. Also couldn’t believe the prices. I thought the huge penises were gag gifts. I picked a red jelly like penis put my head down and went to pay. Just wanted to get out of the store. The clerk most likely saw my nervousness and played me. Called out to another Asian guy Hey how much is the eight inch jell vibe. I know everyone was looking at me. My answer to the original question is my favorite alone toy is a Hitachi Wand. A present from a girlfriend. It is very fast and efficient, maybe too intense. It isn’t for a long relaxing play so I mix in my fingers. TMI.

My two cents on sildenafil (Viagra) is that it doesn't make you bigger but it eliminates the issue many men face in the lifestyle. When there are multiple people in a room, some men get in their own heads and cause performance anxiety. When a guy starts thinking 'oh no, it isn't getting hard', it exacerbates the problem. Then, spiraling out of control into a terrible situation...your partner is having a blast, the other husband is having a blast, the other wife is frustrated, you become temperamental and the night could go off the rails. Taking a small dose of Viagra provides the safety net for some guys. I've watched guys in their 20's drop a 100mg Viagra. That seems nuts to me. For the most part, a 25mg dose is enough to provide assurance that you'll perform. This also keeps side effects down. I don't recommend anyone take prescription drugs if they don't need them. However, if you're looking to take it, always go with a small dose to see how your body reacts. Most guys I've talked to take 25 - 50mg (get the prescription for 100mg and cut them down, since the cost is the same for 25mg and 100mg).

In our nudist life over the past 30 years we usually leave the curtains open when we fuck as long as there are no children in the area. When we used to stay at Paradise Lakes and Desert Shadows we got it off a few times outdoors as well and on cruise ship patios. Before all the Wu would get naked in the car so I could masturbate her on the freeway, drove slow but sometimes we couldn't stop until right up to the front door. Wonderful memories!

This is a tripping point for my wife and I as well. We don't mind being exhibitionists; it can be a lot of fun. But, we don't do it when there are unwitting 'victims', most especially kids. If it's consenting adults, absolutely. Adults that have no idea...depends.

I’m both a bit of a voyeur and an exhibitionist. I may have mentioned this incident on another thread on this board, but perhaps not. A few years ago at an orgy kind of party in a hotel suite all the beds were completely filled so I was fucking a woman missionary position on the floor of the living room. A few feet away from us the male half of the hosting couple and another couple were engaged in a conversation about sports (the NFL if I recall?) paying us no attention. A while later, while my partner and I continued to thrust against each other, I looked up to see the conversation had ceased and the couple were slowly masturbating while they watched us intently. I was already pretty aroused — I mean this was in the middle of a fuck — but the knowledge that this couple was turned on by watching us, and sufficiently appreciative of what they were seeing to physically stimulate themselves (and not just start playing with each other) was both gratifying and a further turn-on for me. Within a minute or two I was unable to further delay my orgasm.

We attend parties with many people. This doesn’t mean everyone plays with everyone. With no agenda I never know who I’ll be with.

So are you complaining? If a woman wants to show her boob, I say let her and just appreciate the gesture.

Those kind of things I try not to over think, just enjoy it for what it is.

I've used Cialis, even in vanilla sex. It really takes the "if" out of the equation. Without it, maybe we wouldn't have sex in the morning because we know we might want to after lunch... and don't want to push our luck with going again that evening. Without it, maybe we would have sex in the morning and then lay around until we have a second session before we get out of bed... but probably not. With it, I know I can do those things "on-demand" - and a few times when it wasn't requested - although I might have a hard time finishing on the third or fourth round that day. If I do use it these days, I only take 5mg. I took 10mg one special weekend early on with the Mrs. and came eight or nine times between dinner on Friday and lunch on Sunday. The Mrs. was a real trooper about it and I'm not complaining either, but I had to apply some moisturizer that Sunday night and needed most of the week to recover. 5mg also really knocked out any confidence issues I might have had when we did swap, since I certainly had no problem in front of others. It's my only recreational drug. Either way, I found the experience, where it's a mild-moderate effect for a few days, much more natural than Viagra, which is basically a one-time deal. Like you said, the first time isn't the issue, so Viagra might not be the answer you want. As far as supplements go, I know B6 and E are supposed to be good vitamins for controlling prolactin levels, which I understand spike after orgasm and signal a man's body that he's done until they drop again. Stress and cortisol levels may also end up driving this, so if a man is experiencing any kind of slowed libido that is likely stress-related, some people think those may help. I know B supplements are good for me in general when I'm under a lot of stress - in bed and out - and seem to do nothing at other times in my life, but it's not like I ran labs or anything, so I can't really say for sure.