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People have told us we don’t look like swingers. Pencil thin mustache, smoking jacket, cigarette holder?

Nope. There's no 'type' identifiers for swingers. All shapes, sizes, ages, backgrounds, histories, etc. Some years back, a close friend of the family began exploring consensual non-monogamy. He told us about it, so we told him about us being swingers. He was absolutely floored, did not expect it at all; "YOU?!?!? NO WAY!" :) You never know. Even if you think you know, you don't.

I was driving down the road and had a random thought...can you tell if a person might be a swinger by the type of car that they drive?

When Cialis became ineffective for me I asked my Urologist for a trial of Trimix which I had seen used by a fellow at our club. The penis injection has worked well for me so far with a reasonably firm erection lasting 3+ hours. Price was under $100 in a Portland, Oregon compounding pharmacy for enough to last 6 months or more at 2-3 events a week. However Trimix needs to be refrigerated which is an issue traveling. My insurance covers very expensive Edex injectable which comes in pre packaged syringes and does not need refrigeration. Spontaneity is not an issue at the club scene and prolonged erection is convenient. At home, maybe less so, and I'll never really enjoy sticking myself.

Well I guess my highschool Greek teacher was wrong. I finally would find a practical use for studying it. This is something he said would never happen and we should just learn it for the joy of it. (It was fun.) mono = one or once gameo = to wed Monogamy in our view has every thing to do with marriage and nothing to to with who puts what where in terms of genitals. My wife has first place, my love, my loyalty and my trust, and a shared life, and I hers in each area. We are married to each other, bound in a fashion that is for most of us all there is. I say most of us because I know of poly families in which the marriage extends to more than one other person. Playmates are something we have gifted each other. Lord knows there may even be love between some of us and a playmate, but there is not marriage. Everyone is perfectly clear about that. People get confused when they equate sexual exclusivity as an essential component of all marriages. There are times when it is practical, for instance while building a family. Even then it is not absolutely essential.

No.

I read this at my jobsite and busted out laughing. Every one of the guys around me stopped and looked at me with a WTF look on their face! Sometimes it really sucks that we cant talk about this stuff! ???

When scissoring with Clair or Lora, we like when I try getting my clit into their vagina. It's more the thought than actually accomplishing it.

If you and a partner enjoy it ?. I know a LOT of people that would think we were perverted if they knew we were swingers.

We are hesitant to play on cam. Do not want to wind up on Pornhub in the old and inept section.

I just discussed this Mrs Idaho and we are both kinda uncomfortable with playing on cam TBH we have only zoom'ed with family and only since the earth stopped turning. I guess we are not of the digital generation. We would video chat with couples we knew and even flirt. But like watch or be watched.....not really comfortable with that. Which is unbelievably stupid because we LIKE doing that in person ?.

Like all interventions, there are benefits and risks. Yes, bimix and trimix are effective. Yes, there are meaningful risks. The general approach is to start with the PDE5 inhibitors and see how they work.

Happens to us all the time. There is a three-second hesitation while my mind tries to make it out that the "play date" somebody just mentioned is about her young daughter being transported over to the home of another young girl to have a pretend tea party.

Well... After the play began between my wife and several of the men, she began her 'singing' ("Ah ah ah ah ah")... now picture that like a singer practices 'Scales' going up in note with each "Ah"... now picture her doing five to six notes very audibly, then start at the bottom of the 'scale' again, rinse and repeat. This is how i know that her 'spot' is being hit. You can see why the nick name came about.

There are not too many things we have reserved for just us. Maybe all night snuggling after sex. I don't think we would swap for the after sex snuggle and fall asleep time. Anal is reserved people we have played with for a while. Sex with out condoms is also reserved for people we know very well.