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  1. 2 points
    Agree. The changes COVID-19 is having on our social fabric cannot be over-stated, and the changes we're experiencing in the lifestyle are profound--some good, some not-so. On the positive side, in terms of swinging, undoubtedly we are seeing a far greater emphasis on healthy choices. COVID-19 has created a much higher level of awareness of the existence of communicable diseases and the importance of vaccinations and taking "reasonable" precautions (I know, the definition of "reasonable" has changed quite a bit.) However, on the negative side, spontaneity is taking a big hit. The idea of going to a swingers club, hoping to hook up with a random individual or couple, is probably a thing of the past. Frankly, we gave up on that kind of thing long before COVID-19 was part of our daily conversation. IOHO, the potential payoff was not worth the risks--health and otherwise. Of course, we appreciate that others felt differently, and have always supported the rights of individuals to choose what is best for themselves. Going forward, there will be far more emphasis on virtual (electronic) means of introduction and communication. Most group events will be planned, invitation-only affairs with known quantities. Business models that cater to swingers are going to have some very high hurdles to overcome.
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    Due to restrictions on venue locations and popularity of swinging/ dating apps and websites the swinging clubs of old are probably a dying breed. Look for more hotel take overs or facilities rentals by "swinging groups" as the preferred location because all of the profits and fun without hassle of ownership and compliance to state laws. Essentially the rise of "pop-up" swinging clubs or "flash mob" type swinging events...
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    Favourite positions girls? Doggy and anal doggy for me.
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    I'm wondering how much of the thrill or excitement of swinging comes from the idea of fucking another person's SO? I would imagine that this would differ for everyone but I'm curious to hear people's thoughts. As a guy having had sex with other men's SOs I don't really think about it very much. I enjoy the idea of being with another woman but I couldn't care less if they were single or in a relationship. On the other hand, we have come across many (some are even my closest friends) who really get off on the idea of having sex with my GF because she is my GF. That's not to say they wouldn't fuck her if she wasn't my GF (they would) but it is a turn on for them. The idea of dominating her or fucking her harder than I do is clearly something that turns them on. It's very obvious from the way that they treat her and the things they say. Even when I'm not around my GF says that with some guys my name comes up during like "does he fuck you this hard" "what would he think if he saw you like this" and a lot more perverted stuff I won't get into. Sometimes they will say these things to me in a MFM session. For us, it doesn't bother us. Actually both of us like it. There was one guy who kept calling my GF my wife and we kept correcting him but we think he liked the idea or fantasy of fucking someone else's wife so he kept saying it. It's similar to roleplaying scenarios. My GF roleplayed with an older guy who pretended she was his daughter's friend the entire time. I'm wondering how much thrill or excitement you all get from this? I think we can mostly agree that we all get some sort of thrill and gratification from the idea of sharing our SOs with other people but how many get a thrill from the idea of fucking someone else's SO?
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    Sara and I had been seeing each other for over a year. I am a 50+ male, and she is a 30-year-old female, beautiful, small but very sensitive breasts, and extremely erotic and sensual. A dream too good to be true for an old war-horse like me. We had been talking about inviting a man in for a three-way. It has been a lifelong obsession of mine to see my lover with another man. Or, for that matter, another woman. She is fascinated with the idea of going down on a female. But, that is a story for another time. This night we started out in a gentleman's club. We have done this before, but little did we know how the evening would turn out. Sara likes it when I buy her lap dances and fantasy room dances. She tells me the feel of another woman's soft skin is like no other, and it really is a sight to see her face reflecting the dream state she gets in when one of the dancers rubs her breasts along the side of her face. This particular night the featured dancer was a very erotic blond, Tricia, who was very tall and very well proportioned. She was also an excellent dancer. And, she turned Sara and I both on. After several lap dances with various dancers, we settled on Tricia. Shortly, we ended up in the fantasy room. Tricia put on an extraordinary show, and Sara and I both were enjoying things immensely. At one point, Tricia even asked that I leave the room so she could put on a private dance for Sara. Of course, Sara was agreeable. So, I went out and had a drink while they stayed in the room. I get a lot of enjoyment out of knowing that Sara is enjoying herself. That night was no exception. After my drink, I went back to the room, and we talked with Tricia for awhile and invited her back to our table for a drink. Try as we might, we could not talk Tricia into going back to the hotel with us. At closing time we left, both of us feeling very frustrated. As we were driving back to the hotel, we passed an adult bookstore and novelty shop. I swung the car around. Sara had expressed a desire to get some ben-wa balls, and I thought it was as good a time as any. After looking at the novelties, Sara picked out a set of the brass balls. I also purchased a handful of tokens so we could go back to a booth and watch a flick or two. Settling into the booth, Sara sat on a stool, and I stood behind her. By the way, I failed to mention that Sara was wearing knee-high black leather boots, a black leather vest, and a black leather skirt. She had on sheer black stockings, a black garter belt, and black panties underneath. No bra. She looked fabulous, and earlier many of the dancers had commented on how much they liked how she looked. I neglected to lock the door when we entered the booth, and sure enough, SURPRISE! Someone opened the door, saw us, and immediately shut the door and went into the booth next door. Almost immediately, I hatched a plot in my sexually frustrated brain. I slipped out and knocked on the booth into which the man had gone. The guy opened the door, and I could see he was a man in his thirties, clean-cut, and nice looking. I questioned him about whether he could 'behave' himself if I invited him next door. He answered that he would only do what he was allowed to do or prompted to do. I liked the answer, so I told him to come on. The first thing I did when we got back to our booth, besides locking the door, was to slide Sara's vest down to expose her breasts. We could hear her suck in a deep breath. Her nipples are always semi-hard. The coolness of the booth, and the fact that a strange man was standing next to her , made them stand out like strawberries on a sundae. I asked for his name, and he told me it was Bob. I asked him if he liked Sara's breasts, and he said indeed he did. I agreed and told him there were nice to touch, too, and that was his cue to go for it. As he massaged her breasts and lightly pinched and pulled on her nipples, I could see the bulge grow in his pants. I said something to Sara about him being excited. I also noticed she was breathing in rapid shallow breaths. He unzipped his pants and Sara reached over and put her hand in and started to massage his cock. I was feeding tokens in the coin slot, but none of us were paying any attention to what was on the screen. It got really intense, and Sara soon had an orgasm. She is probably not unique that way, but it seems as if there is a direct connection between her nipples and her clit. She often has an orgasm when I play with, and suck, on her nipples. Things settled down after a bit. It seemed like an hour but was probably no more than ten minutes. I asked him if he wanted to go back to the hotel with us. He said yes. I told him to wait five minutes, then come outside. If we decided it was a good idea, we would be waiting for him. If not, we would be gone. Sara and I went out to the parking lot and talked about the possibilities, dangers, and whether she was attracted to the guy. She stated her attraction wasn't real strong, but that he seemed OK. We had long talked about including another man, and this seemed like an excellent opportunity. Soon, Bob came out and got in his pickup. I got out of the car and went over and talked with him again. Still a little nervous about the whole thing, I questioned him some more about his ability to do only what he was asked to do and that he understood, NO MEANS NO! He agreed, and I told him to follow us to the hotel, park, give us a few minutes, and I would be out to get him. Sara and I entered our room. We decided the leather look was sexy and she would stay clothed for the time being. One thing Sara likes is to be blindfolded. She loves that because it allows her to concentrate on all the feelings she experiences from unknown hands caressing her body and allowing her body to bring her pleasure. I tied a black scarf around her eyes, kissed her, told her I loved her and then went to get Bob. Upon entering the room, we found Sara sitting on the bed. I took her by the hand, faced her towards Bob, and told her to say hello. Then I started to untie the front of her vest and let it fall open, revealing her breasts. The effect was way different than it was in the darkened booth. You could see the delight on Bob's face. Then I unzipped her leather skirt and let it fall to the floor, revealing her black garter belt, stockings, and panties. Still in her boots, she looked very sexy, and her shallow breathing indicated she was also getting excited. I told Bob to slip off her vest, and he kissed her breasts and sucked on her nipples as he did so. Sara suggested he get undressed and as he was doing so, she sat back on the bed. Not wanting to unhook her garter belt to remove her panties, I took my pocket knife and cut a large hole in the crotch of her panties. Basically, I presented Sara's most intimate parts to our new found friend for his enjoyment. By then, Bob was undressed. I handed him a condom, and he put it on, then laid down on the bed next to Sara and started kissing and nuzzling her neck and breasts again. Her nipples resumed their previous 'strawberries on a sundae' proportions. Bob reached down and began to rub Sara between the legs and found her pussy. He remarked about how wet she was, and I said she was always like that. Kissing his way down her belly, he ended up with his head between her legs and began kissing and sucking her. I could tell she was enjoying it by the look on her face, that dreamy, faraway look she gets when she is allowing her body to do what it will. I bent over her and kissed her lightly and asked her if everything was alright? She responded with a quick nodding of her head, YES! I got the camera and began taking pictures. We wanted to preserve the moment for later enjoyment and to share with friends. By then Bob had moved into position and took her legs and pushed them back over her and entered her, slowly at first, then all the way. He began a rhythmic stroking, and I could tell Sara was off in la-la land. Bob was not super endowed, but he was sufficient in length and thickness to give her the 'full' feeling she so enjoyed. The sight of his cock entering her pussy through the hole I had cut in her panties was very much a turn-on for me as well! Soon he was banging her hard with full force and Sara was responding and pleading to be fucked harder. She could stand it no longer, pushed him off, and got on her knees begging her to fuck her hard from behind. Soon his thighs were slapping against her ass with smacks almost loud enough to make one think she was being spanked. I like watching Sara in this position because it allows me to see her tits swinging back and forth in time with the fucking she is getting. Before, all I could do was watch in the mirror. This was a whole new perspective, and I wasted no time getting more pictures. Sara was cumming and cumming. Of course, she had been cumming ever since Bob first entered her. She is multiorgasmic and has told me she is not sure if it is one continuous orgasm or one building on another. Perhaps some of you ladies reading this can relate. It wasn't long before Bob stiffened and let out a low throaty growl. He pushed in as far as he could, and you could tell he was filling the condom with his white-hot sperm. Then Sara did the most surprising thing. She pulled away and turned on her hands and knees to face Bob. She pulled off the condom and quickly took it into her mouth, sucking some of his cum into her mouth. Then she grabbed his cock, stroked it a few times, and bent down and took him in her mouth. She voraciously sucked and ran her tongue around his semi-hard cock. Sara soon had Bob's cock at full hardness again, and she proceeded to suck him with a simulated fucking motion. He quickly caught on and grabbed her by the hair, another thing she likes, and began fucking her face almost as hard as he had just fucked her pussy. She reached out and grabbed both his ass cheeks with her hands and helped pull him into her harder and harder. Her talents soon had Bob reacting as he did before only with more voice. Growling and telling her to suck his cock. Soon he exploded for the second time, and I could see Sara was doing her best to keep up and swallow all she could get. But, as hard as she tried, she couldn't, and soon driblets of cum escaped the corners of her mouth. His balls having been emptied twice into Sara's greedy pussy and mouth, Bob's cock went totally limp. He stumbled back to the chair on weak legs and sat down. Then Sara did another thing I was wholly unprepared for. She left the bed and came over to me, stared deep into my eyes for a moment, and then grabbed the back of my neck pulling me to her, and kissed me very hard on the mouth. There was no mistaking her intent or the different taste. Here I was tasting the cum in my lover's mouth. Cum from another man's cock! Things then settled down, and we talked for a while. Bob got dressed, thanked us both profusely, and left a happy man. I was sort of glad he didn't overstay his welcome because I was anxious to talk to Sara to see what she thought about the experience. As we cuddled and kissed, I never felt more in love with her than I did at that moment. We went over the details of the evening, and we both got excited, and I tried to take care of Sara's needs. By the way, did I mention she was insatiable? We began to lay plans for our next adventure. As we fell asleep, I contemplated the thought of Sara having kissed me with her mouth bathed with another man's cum. The look in her eye when she did that was pure carnal desire from somewhere deep inside herself that she had never shared before. I drifted off to sleep, wondering what was next in store for us.
  6. 1 point
    A friend and I had finished a workout at the gym, and as I was leaving the locker room I saw her talking to one of the trainers, saying how I was dragging ass. He explained, "Petra had a hard one today." I said to both of them, "I don't discuss my sex life in public."
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    So the hubby and I have been reading these posts and this is something we have been wondering about (remember I'm asking this with having no experience) but in my mind the perfect thing for us is, with a couple we swap, everyone is finished at the same time. We get back with our spouse and go about our night. We have decided we are together on this through everything but what if one half the team finishes first?? What does the other half do? If we decide that after sex major affection with the other wife/ hubby is not what we feel comfortable with, at least not yet, what happens?? Am I putting too much thought into this? I just want this experience to be awesome for myself and my husband while not losing anything of our marriage.... I am loving this forum!!! Hopefully this is not a foolish question.
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    The post virus make up swinging will be epic.
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    Sad news but not at all surprising. The past six months have been very hard for most small businesses, particularly those that serve the public in person — whether the general public or specific segments — such as restaurants, gyms and (for our community) swing clubs. The next six to twelve months, until a safe and effective vaccine has been tested, manufactured and broadly deployed, will be tougher on these businesses still. Large corporate restaurant and fitness chains may have the financial resources to survive, but most of the mom & pop restaurants, fitness centers and (are there any other kind) swingers clubs that haven’t already closed permanently will do so in the next few months. That’s the bad news. The good news is that the barriers to entry for these businesses are all relatively low and there is generally a more than adequate supply of entrepreneurial candidates to address the market’s demand. And once fear of Covid-19 subsides most of us will be eager to resume recreational sex with old friends and for opportunities to make new ones. Swingers clubs, whether those that have been in hibernation or new ones, will bloom.
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    Mary got a little wild at a house party one night, it wasn't a gang bang per se. Normally, the most she would do in one night was three - one man in a foursome with me, perhaps a single guy, and of course me. One night, she did four in an orgy-type situation. That night at the house party, after a foursome a single guy desired her, she agreed and didn't complain when he took her into the common room. And then the chain started. We're sure she had at least eight, the total may have been a dozen or more. On the ride home, it didn't seem much different than any other night, except she was very tired and we didn't have reclaim sex. The next day, I couldn't tell any difference as we got up and went to church. When we finally got around to talking about it later that day, she was exuberant about the experience, and when we hit the mattress in the afternoon she seemed as excited as usual.
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    I was tired and sore as hell. I had nine men. They came back for seconds and thirds. Loved it. Hubby was proud of me and I felt great pride too. Ten years ago I did 23 over three days at an adult nudist resort we are members of. I love sex.
  12. 1 point
    At least once a month. Usually three or four times a month.
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    Reading your discussion here, I must tell you this. In 1974, my wife and I bought our first home on a dead end street with two homes on it ours and a nice forty year old single black man. My job required me to be gone a lot. We moved to another home on the other side of town in 1979. In 1981, my wife confessed to me she and he were having sex and slept together for those five years when I was gone. On weekends he had sports day. All his friends came over to his house and drank, had bbqs, ect. All black. She had gangbangs with them. In 1981 he told her he missed her and wanted to renew their fling and she admitted she had missed him too. I had told her I would like to see her with other men and so she asked if It would be ok. I said yes and now we are swingers. Since she has had sex with so many black men then and still having sex with them, and all race of men since we began swinging, I asked her if it was true black men have larger cocks. She said they are no different than white men or any other men on this earth. The only thing amazing to her about black is watching their black cocks any size, sliding in her white pussy and knowing that black cock is rubbing against her white insides. She loves seeing and feeling their black bodies against her white one. She said all men are the same in cock size and personality. They must know how to please her with that damn thing first no matter what size.
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    I think you may be talking about the Czech glory holes videos by the description. I would LOVE to be one of the women in the waist down hole with my legs strapped up. Just keep getting one after another with all the creampies. I think it would be amazing, but I value my health too much to ever actually do something like that. Sadly it will have to remain a fantasy for me.
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    I've been to some really large house parties where I lost count.
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    Driving back home from a great evening with a great couple, I really began feeling sorry for some friends of mine that are vanilla. I mean I listen to the issues they have, going to marriage counseling. No sex in the relationship for years at a time. I just began to feel really sorry for them. My wife and I enjoy an incredible closeness. We have an amazing sex life. We go out and do amazing things both in and out of the bedroom. Rasie a bunch of kids. Sometimes I wonder how we do it all? I listen to people that have been with their S.O. since High School and it just sounds like death to me. Can't go out to parties, no sex, no exciting vacations, can't get baby sitters for the kids, somebodies taking 'Ambien' or other psychoactive drug to cope. I mean it get's pretty uptight and petty. To me it just sounds like death warmed over. I was just wondering if there are other people in our same zone? Having a great life with their best friend and lover?
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    I get what Desireswingers is saying. I was in a long marriage where my ex stopped trying. She had gotten married and had a child, which was what was 'expected' by those she knew, but that didn't make her happy...and that was my fault (for not making her happy). She then just quit trying to contribute to the relationship and just gave up (the things that society imposed on others that should make them happy didn't make her happy). Swingers, on the other hand, have to have a relationship that is SO GREAT they can trust and talk honestly and openly about their wants and desires...and then be able to take action on them as a couple without fear of losing their partner. To be successful with swinging, you need to have a great relationship to start with. Not saying that there are vanilla couples that don't have great relationships...there are, but there aren't very many swinging couples that have bad relationships and are successful with swinging.
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    I enjoy just about any position, but spend most of my time on my back, naked, with my legs spread and up in the air. Seems most natural/comfortable for both parties in an MF situation.
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    I took it in the spirit it was intended, but I can see how others would read it that way. We've had a couple of vanilla parties we've hosted ruined by vanilla drama, and one was fresh in my mind, so I figured that was the kind of situation you meant: people who just aren't having fun together and think it's normal to resent each other for their overall unhappiness.
  21. 1 point
    We cannot help but recall “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”― Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina Domestic happiness does not require swinging, nor are all LS couples happy. The closeness that you feel to/for/with your spouse reflects a deep respect and commitment that escapes many couples. The lifestyle can be a reflection of that trust and intimacy. The lifestyle can be an adaptation to the quest for variety within the trust of marriage. The lifestyle can be more. Perhaps the key point is that your lifestyle is built on the foundation of your marriage, rather than defining your marriage.
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    The half that finishes first will just relax where they are at, go get a drink, or just sit and watch. Sometimes, by the time they've had enough of a breather that that other two have had time to finish, then the first two might want to get frisky again and the tables are turned. Or maybe everybody is ready for a break and then you go back to having sex with your own partners side by side, or just whatever the mood strikes you and feels right to all involved. Just go with the flow and do what feels right, and all will be well.
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    Real simple. If it's good enough to put in her mouth, it's sure as hell good enough to put in mine
  25. 1 point
    Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are the easiest. If doing cowgirl, make sure you do the vaginal insertion first. If doing reverse cowgirl, it is much easier to do anal insertion first. I don't know whether size will matter, but for me anal is more a matter of girth than length. Guys who are really wide just aren't going in my butt. Although you didn't mention it, any anal play requires a good deal of preparation so that messy situations can be avoided. The best is to do an enema with an enema bag. At least two pints to a quart of water, just to be safe. Some people will do a quart-and-a-half to two quarts. The water should be approximately body temperature. Cool or cold water will cause cramping. Hold it in for 3 minutes in the "ass high, face down" position. After evacuation, make sure to wash thoroughly with a washcloth, soap and water or wet wipes. It's usually a good idea to loosen up with a buttplug too. I usually keep a buttplug in for about 15 minutes before anal sex.
  26. 0 points
    This is a shame, our first taste of the Lifestyle was at Menages in Nashville in this cool old building they had, lots of fun memories made there...but no longer. The people are what make or break a club, way more than the building, but still a shame... It was a well run club, Just hope they are able to come back in some form or fashion, eventually find a good permanent venue, and then start building on that back to what it was. STILL NOT ALLOWED TO OPEN Nashville continues its lock down with recent modifications. For us that means no dance floor, no standing at the bar, limited attendance, social distancing, closed by 10.30 pm and so on. Hence Menages remains closed. There is no clear indication of when we will be able to open in the future and operate normally. CLUB BUILDING SOLD The club building has been sold to our neighbor the Room In The Inn. They provide an array of services to Nashville's homeless community. They offered us an early termination of our lease agreement with some great incentives for us to leave . We decided to accept their offer. For the last six months we have been liable for rent, insurances, services and so on. We do not know how long this shut down will continue for. We are very appreciative of the offer the board of Room In The Inn made to us. We wish them the best of success in moving forward with what they do. NEW VENUE We are actively looking for a new venue. There are city, county and state requirements that have to meet for us to be able to operate legally. This includes the venue being in an industrial zone and 1,000 ft away from any religious institution, school, park or residence. We also want to stay in Davidson county. These are limiting factors under which we have to find possible venues. If you or anybody you know has any suggestion of possible venues, within the above parameters, please let me know gm@menagesclub.com. We do not know how long this search will take. Hopefully not too long. UP COMING EVENTS In the meantime until our new venue is ready to go, we will be holding select events at different locations in and around middle Tennessee. These venues may include event centers, private lodges, mansions or select hotels. HALLOWEEN We will be doing a Halloween event on Saturday the 31st of October. Details will be announced very soon.
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