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Yes, Eta is a threat. However, it appears the likeliest areas to be affected are on the gulf side of the state, extending from the Keys up to around the Ft Myers area. Your home in BB is probably not going to see much storm impact on a comparative basis. Check the National Hurricane Center's website for the latest warnings. Next update will appear at 1000 EST DST. As you know, these storms have a habit of changing both course and intensity with little warning... and it is still 2020 after all! LOL!!!

I don’t think it is a good idea to address the anxiety about a threesome with weed or alcohol. That’s ignoring the concerns and sets someone up to perhaps question their involvement. Once you are fully on board I have no problem with either in moderation to help relax in the moment.

I am attracted to other women and my bf would love a 3some but my anxiety goes haywire and I have all kinds of worries and emotions about it. I am willing but feel handicapped at the same time. So frustrated right now.

Fetlife is free. Any kink you want is there. Lots of groups to join within the site

Doggy and anal

Doggy

A friend and I had finished a workout at the gym, and as I was leaving the locker room I saw her talking to one of the trainers, saying how I was dragging ass. He explained, "Petra had a hard one today." I said to both of them, "I don't discuss my sex life in public."

Doggy

According to the NYC Health Safer Sex and COVID-19 guideline (https://www1.nyc.gov/assets/doh/downloads/pdf/imm/covid-sex-guidance.pdf) Glory Holes are a safer alternative to actual sex: So visit gloryholelist.com and plan a road trip!

This group appears to be a scam. Glad we didn’t waste our time and money.

Thought I would circle back around to this one. Through a trusted, but indirect source, someone that endorses this event publicly refers to George as an "asshole." And, claims that the filtering is largely done based on income/wealth. $600/couple for dinner only $1200 dinner and a room $1900 dinner and a suite.

I don't know why, but it never occurred to me that there would be a website and list of Gloryholes across the world. 50 years ago they sent the first communication over the 'internet', I wonder if they ever thought, hey we could list gloryholes as a public service as well.

Another list https://gloryholelist.com/ A lot in PA. I would check ahead to make sure they are "couple friendly". Some don't allow couples in the booths.

I found this list when looking for GHs near me. Apparently this "Dr. Lizaro" is a pretty big name in the adult cinema world. There are quite a few in PA. List has locations, addresses and details about the facility...booths, cinema, couple friendly, etc... Hope this helps! https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1L4OQq7YaBNvDZaeIZiVQm63H4newPDATIlKtJWyKB1Q/htmlview

Swinging, under the best circumstances, is a challenge. If a single female is selective and grounded, she'll want a premium experience with swinging rather than the run of the mill pick up at the bar boink. That she can do evert Friday night. For the OP, you're going to have to weed through hundreds of single male profiles to find a good one or several good ones. There are some out there but you'll need a highly refined selection process and even with that, you'll still kiss a frog or two. It WILL be fun though so don't give up. Unicorns are unique and valued in this hobby.

For some reason I am reminded of the Fyre Festival. It is so exclusive no one has written about their experience here.

I still have not been to one of these events (and likely never will), but my curiosity has continued, and I recently heard an episode on the podcast "We Gotta Thing" (by: Mr & Mrs Jones): BONUS Episode 61: Do You Know George? In this episode the Joneses interview "George" himself, and present him as a very down-to-earth kind of guy, which after hearing this episode, I would be inclined to agree with. (The entire episode is dedicated to DYKG.) This episode is a big "tell" about these events in general. They seem to be doing a good job catering to a fairly wide age spectrum, and adapting to the times and current trends. That being said... The odds of getting an invitation to one of these soirees seems to range in the "very unlikely" category, unless you are very fashionable, and very well heeled. A high degree of intellectual (education & business) caliber seems necessary as well. While the Jones's imply that these events can be available to just about anyone (i.e. not just the filthy rich), I am guessing the cost to attend even a "Just for Dinner" event is more easily measured in the thousands of dollars (especially by the time you get the right attire, transportation, etc.). "Beware of all enterprises that require new clothes, and not rather a new wearer of clothes." - Henry David Thoreau As for details on the cost, I can find none, anywhere... which leads me to believe that an old adage applies here: "If you have to ask, then you probably cannot afford it anyway." ... The closest I can come to (per couple?) is that "Just For Dinner" is near $10K, and weekends are $50K+. So if anyone can confirm or deny this, curious minds want to know. At no point did Mr & Mrs Jones confirm (or deny) that they had been "comped" or gotten a discount for any part of the event fee. My understanding for now is that the criteria for getting into one of these events is more "Social & Intellectual & Professional" than Financial & Age. (It is definitely NOT a "take your pants off" kind of thing.) However, I get the distinct impression that if you are not a "pretty" person, you likely will not be issued an invitation, which does indeed sound quite elitist. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. Let 'em have it.) I also suspect that as these events become more popular (the DYKG webs are pretty elaborate, and very "brand" focused), the prices and exclusivity will only get higher. (And it seems that these events sell-out quickly.) These events are more about "Quality, not Quantity", which I agree with wholeheartedly. ... What do you value more? Time?... or Money? "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member." -- Groucho Marx He literally describes the "standard" used for invitations with the term "Best of breed" ... "professionals with undergraduate degrees (at least), that are well read, well spoken, well traveled, philanthropic...." ... These events are "never open to the public", which has its plus points, for sure. The goal is to have everyone in the room be "interesting", not just a hit-or-miss type process. I totally get that, and say "bully for them". It must take a significant amount of time to "separate the wheat from the chaff" for the invitation list, and you PAY for that effort. Also... FYI... the "Just For Dinner" events are effectively an extended part of the vetting process, to qualify for an invitation to an extended (weekend type) event. (So in most cases you will probably need to attend a "dinner" first, before you get invited to a weekend event.) One thing that is mentioned more than once is that these events are NOT for those looking for "anonymous sex in a dark room with strangers". If you list on a profile that you have 20 years lifestyle experience with numerous visits to clubs and cruises, there is a strong possibility (though not "a lock") that you will not be accepted... so they tend to cater more to somewhat new (less hardcore?) LS folks. (Listening to E-61 will provide more clarity on this.) One comment from an organizer (in E-9) about the vetting process is that: "We've done this for a long time, and we just know." ... Personality gets you in more than just cash. Again... With ALL That being said... If you do get in, you will likely have the experience of a lifetime. ... ? A YouTube link below ("about") has a fairly good brief (text) introduction to the event style. The YouTube channel has a bunch of videos to watch (mostly around 2 minutes each). Other podcasts at We Gotta Thing where these events are mentioned include: Episode 9 - Their experience attending a DYKG "Just For Dinner" event. (About 24 minutes, in the opening bit.) Plus a side reference during the "snapshots" at the end (at about 59 minutes). Episode 51 - They mention DYKG from (roughly) timestamp 18 to 28 minutes. Episode 19 - They "recap" their experience attending a DYKG weekend event. (Starts around timestamp 38 minutes, for the "entire (middle) segment", through 1:20+.) Various Links... https://justfordinner.com/ http://the-group.co/ https://www.facebook.com/DoYouKnowGeorge/ ... "Hosting upscale lifestyle events for select couples and single women." https://www.youtube.com/user/doyouknowgeo/about https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC94mtlYedy0W1_85SdWhBKA - (Channel) Including: (Most of the others appear to be visual promotions, which illustrates the locations, otherwise not a lot of information.) ... https://www.google.com/search?q=Do+You+Know+George

A curious update. We responded to the invitation and made a reservation. Gave our credit card and received the confirmation. We wrote the hosts inquiring about the dress code. A day later we received the following note: “Thank you for your note and continued interest. Although I wrote to you at the beginning of the month that the dinner was full, I see now that you were able to remit payment, due to a software issue we are now working to correct. I have refunded your payment, and sent you a confirmation email.” Now of course we check our email regularly. There was no sign of any note that the dinner was full and there had been a “software glitch”. An email follows two minutes later indicating that they are refunding the payment. No credit has yet appeared on the credit card account. Regarding the refund, we will be a little patient. These things can take a day or two to show up. Regarding the “we wrote you earlier in the month” and “there was a software glitch”, there is no record of such a response anywhere. Not in spam. Not in trash. Nowhere. Draw your own conclusions.

Perhaps they changed their name due to a bad rep. If you are over 50 years old or over 200 lbs., you are not getting invited. It is the Dinner with George group.

They have rebranded as "Just For Dinner". No experience.

This is a valid point. They did not disclose any compensation received, but have disclosed when they received discounts on LS cruises they talk about. On the other hand, and to your point, If I were running such a business and knew I had a customer that could potentially tell thousands of potential new customers about my business - I would certainly give them extra special treatment.

I find beauty in many faces and bodies. I love women of all shapes and sizes and colors. A woman who is horny and wants it is hard for me to ignore.

In my short swinging life the people we have been with are a cross section or just people we know. When I was friends with them in school I would say some were more attractive than others. I thought of some as good looking. I am thin, wider hips and small bust. I have a pointy nose and pointy chin. I have a flat butt. I know it’s strange but naked I don’t like myself. Since playing with other girls I don’t like my down there. I don’t like sloppy people. I don’t seek out partners. I am usually pulled into playing. If a guy I don’t find attractive approaches me I can’t say I have ever said no, I just don’t get enthusiastic.

I think this probably happens to everyone who likes to sleep around a lot, lol. I've been to some parties and have never even seen the guys faces/bodies, for various scenarios!

Call me boring all you like lol but good old missionary is my no.1 Next is cowgirl and doggy.

While we have been active swingers where we both have played with other couples together or in separate rooms, there have been situations where my husband has just watched me with the other man. In fact, recently we have been moving to more of a hotwifing or cuckolding lifestyle. My husband seems to get more pleasure watching me with other men than having sex with other women himself.

Cowgirl with me grinding my pelvis back and forth across my partner's cock. The only disadvantage is that sometimes I come too quickly. Missionary is my next favorite.