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I've enjoyed having sex with someone's spouse for the thrill of breaking the social taboo. I grew up in a home that was both very traditional and religious. So, doing naughty things became even more thrilling.

100% agree!!! Condoms suck and we have always gone bareback with no issues

We have always gone bareback. The majority of our partners we met in lifestyle clubs, a few online. We may be a little risky but we have always just let the men fuck Jess bareback and finish in her if they wanted. Over a year of swinging, a few pregnancy scares but our most recent testing shows we are clean. Call us lucky but we prefer sex with no condoms even though 95% of our partners are strangers

It finally happened! My wife and I have been to a few swinger clubs, but she only allowed people to watch never touch, this went on for a few years. We were talking and I was explaining the way we should look at is that adding another guy is like me using her toys on her, use it, have fun then put it away. I asked her how about an erotic massage in a nice hotel by me and another guy? To my surprise and excitement, she said she thinks she could do that! My wife is a 42 yr old Colombian with large man-made C cups, thin waist and a med/lg ass. She only had 4 lovers in her past and all of them just did vanilla sex. Boy did I expand her world when we got married LOL! She is absolutely beautiful with a heart of gold, so I wanted to make sure this was amazing but most of all safe. I came up with limits so she would feel comfortable and safe. First, she would be on the massage table, when he came in and she would be blindfolded as she gets embarrassed easily. Second, the guy would not talk unless asked something by me or her. Third, no rough stuff, just gentle massage. I would allow oral and fingering on her by him but oral on him only if she initiated it. Fourth, I told her at the end after we make her cum, I would ask her Green light, Yellow light or Red light? Green would be to continue with sex from both of us, yellow is sex with me only but he can watch and touch, and Red was thank you but he leaves as I want only my husband now. Lastly, I would meet with the guy before the massage and if I felt the slightest hesitation, I would call it off. She liked the rules. I then started looking when “S” PM’d me. He said he was flying into San Antonio on business and was willing to help. We PM’d back and forth while giving me advice as he said he had helped others get introduced into the LS. He answered every question I had so we made plans to meet when he landed and give the massage to my wife later that evening (only time we both had before he returned home). When I met him a few hours prior to the massage he was so polite that my anxiety level went to zero. We again went over the wife’s limits I came up with and he had no problem with any of them. My wife was blindfolded and on the massage table with a towel over her ass when he arrived. He immediately went to the restroom and undressed and washed his hands. When he came out, massage music was playing, and I had those battery powered candles lighting the room. To make her comfortable with another man’s hands on her we started with her neck and back. After about 10 minutes we moved the towel covering her ass and we began to massage her lower half. We moved slow going from her ass back up to her back then down her legs. I bent her knee moving her lower leg inward at an angle and her pussy became exposed to him for the first time. The light from the candles made her already wet pussy glisten. As we rubbed her inner thighs we would graze her pussy lips…..she was SOOO wet. When we flipped her we began working on her breasts. I was getting so turned on watching another man touch my woman. “S” moved nice and slow over her nipples then down her arm as I did the same. Her nipples were becoming hard as we lightly massaged each breast. We went lower toward her landing strip pubic hair but being careful not to go too far in order to drive her wild. When we moved to her legs, we started with her feet then moved up. We bent both of her legs inward at an angle so the bottom of her feet were touching each other…..this opened her pussy wide. We again worked her inner thighs but this time moving our hands right over her pussy lips……this drove me wild seeing him touch her. I then went down on her and she was drenched in her juices, NOT just wet….drenched, and it tasted so good. At that point I looked up at “s” and offered my wife’s pussy to him. He began to eat her out and I saw her mouth open and could tell she was in pure ecstasy. He wrapped his lips around her clit and sunk his fingers deep inside her…..she let out an amazing moan. I got out the clit vibrator and started to tease her clit while “S” bent two of his fingers to massage her g-spot. I handed the vibrator to “S” while I started to massage her breasts and nipples. “S” kept up the fingering mixed with licking until she had the most intense orgasm, I have ever seen her have! She about rolled off the table it was so intense! She motioned for him to stop but continued to twitch for over a minute. After we let her calm down, I moved her to the edge of the table spreading her legs apart and started to fuck her. She was so soaking wet I slid right in. I looked over and she had “S” cock in her hand slowly playing with it…..I had to think of baseball in order not to cum right there LOL!! “S” then moved to the head of the table to hold her head as it was falling off the table…..what a gentleman! She grabbed his arms and had another orgasm while I came deep in her soaking pussy. “S” smiled at me and quietly left as my wife and I held each other. It was perfect. She told me she LOVED the experience and wants to do it again ?. We went home and fucked two more times. The next day “S” texted me to check on my wife to make sure she was doing good. I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate “S” in helping us take the next step……thanks man!!……D&J

we are bareback swingers. we have a steady male playmate who gets tested regularly as do we. if we take on any one new we refer them to stdtest.com and meet once they have paperwork in hand. if we went to a club (not happening these days) then it's condoms.

We only swing together. We can do separate rooms, we will split up at house parties, but we don’t generally play separately. We trust each other, but other people have different ideas. We don’t have relationships with other swingers. Sometimes we have friendships, but if we see possessiveness, puppy love, over infatuation, it’s game over. We swing for entertainment purposes. If people develop romantic attachments, we will move on. Some people are polyamorous and we certainly encourage and support their lifestyle, but it’s not our preference.

I was with about 10 couples as a single guy (in an open relationship and not swinging for now). About 60% of them wanted it bare. 40% wanted condoms. I've never had an sti, and I get tested every 6 months to a year, depending on if I'm going to hookup or not. I'm not a medical professional, but HPV is the biggest risk, in by opinion. I've known 3 people in the poly community to catch it (they were connected). I think the initial transmission was even through a condom though. Also, males can have it and not show any symptoms. I've also known people to have Herpes and be non-monogamous, but they tell people ahead of time. Years ago I had one really hot woman tell me that she has herpes, but hadn't had an outbreak in years, once we were naked in bed and making out. I decided to agree with her willingness to go bare, and I didn't catch it, but whew...... that was not a good situation to be making the decision in! Right now, my girlfriend is sleeping with one other guy on the regular. She went bare with him from the beginning. I have an interest in finding a couple to play with that gets tested regularly, but usually goes bare. If I find such a couple, they'll probably be my only swinging outlet for a couple of months or more, if we're a good match. For your situation, guys that were tested no further back than 3 months would reduce the risks to some extent. There's no such thing as 100% risk free sex though, for sti's. We all have different levels of risk tolerance.

I don’t even think of the other guy or even look to see if he is enjoying watching me. I don’t think of him if he is with my wife, I do think of her having a good time.

Definitely NOT a thing for me. As a matter of fact, IMO it's a real turn-off. The turn-on, is that we're here each a sexual athlete in our own right and playing at a high level - experiencing the team-sport of sexual exploration together. If I sensed jealousy by the man or an attempt-to-humiliate by the woman, it'd be a game killer. Not into that shit. The thrill is what made sex as a single person so much fun but condensed down to a few hours as opposed to several months. Seeing someone that you're attracted to, the meeting of the eyes, the reciprocation of attraction, heavy flirting, leading to the first touch, first kiss.... getting naked and having amazing sex. The night needs nothing else and for me, it's hard to imagine anything that is more thrilling or fun to do on a date night/night out.

I think both of you are on the same page and neither of you want to be the one to say what is on your mind. You are nude, talking sex, even had some touching, you aren’t teens wondering how to make the first move. The same conversations you are having, they are having. You already have so much in common, you already have a good friendship, you already have had sex talk, why not go to the next step? They are friends, what can happen? They could say they aren’t ready yet and you can make a joke or really be honest and say you understand and let them know the ball is in their court. Let them know there is no pressure and you will not bring it up again. If they agree to go to the next step let them set the ground rules, you can always add to the rules if you want. I wish our best friends gave us a signal as loud as your friends. Our friends are as vanilla as any couple, I think. I can only imagine how great it would be to add another dimension to our relationship. If only they gave us a clue or tiny interest in having fun, we would ask. Mr. S2P has said he would be willing to give a hint, I have asked him not to. They know we go to a nude beach and they never asked to join, maybe if they did we would give other hints.

I used to be the same way (my older sister told me that I was a freak of nature and would start going balls), but found that both men and women really like my clit that protrudes beyond my labia. They find it hard to resist licking and sucking on it. I'm now proud of it.

It appears to me that, perhaps, you hadn't expressed your needs and desires fully before you had the experience. I'm concerned that she isn't intimate with you after the deed. It would be very helpful to find out the reason. It's even possible she's as confused as you seem to be. You both need to sit down calmly, discuss the situation, find out what the other thinks. If you can be honest with each other, I suspect the emotions will sort out easily.

Twice I have had four guys in me, my pussy, in an afternoon/evening. Which is odd considering that only had sex with five men in my life. (I pick them and use them hard. ? )

Like Sandra, my wife Mary tends to get a little wild at house parties and not elsewhere. When we're having friends over to our house for a threesome or foursome, we're limited by the number of people, obviously. At the club, there's too many things to do, and Mary is not attracted to the public room. Our normal scene is that we will play in a foursome, then do other things for awhile. Such as the jacuzzi and dancing. By the time we're ready again, we'll find a single guy for her or possibly another foursome. Then at 2:00 they're kicking us out, so we're done. But at house parties, there's no other things to do after the first round other than conversing in the kitchen with other people, and they are all dressed (or undressed) sexily, which leads us into more trouble. Plus, unlike the other scenarios, Mary and I trust a number of people there who are our friends, and we tend to split up rather than stay together. Without that consideration, Mary tends to become more accepting of invitations, so her body count goes up.

yes, I think home parties like this would be very fun, thank you, Madam

Four. We have been with up to three other couples at once. Each of the other husbands had his dick in my wife's pussy, but I didn't know if they all came in her (I did after we got back home), because we men were in the other wives as well.

Me and my wife went to a swingers party we ended up with 3 black guys, so she took a total of 4 that night. Very awesome

My wife has had more than three on many a night. Other things cause a limit: If one guy is very rough, if more than enough alcohol is consumed, etc,

This question is asked over and over again on here by men who want to be assured that they are normal. I like the answer some have given that only men worry and that women can’t tell the difference during sex unless the man is huge. I don’t have the the biggest resumé of partners so this is my opinion right now. My opinion can change. During physical sex I can’t tell the difference, no man has hurt me or made it painful. During foreplay is when I think a larger penis makes a difference. It could be psychological or not I enjoy a larger penis. I want to say when soft it doesn’t mean anything. I laughed when it was mentioned showers and growers and now I know it’s true. When going to a nude beach I notice showers. How can’t you notice?

It’s the endless thread - and I get it. I know that I certainly compare myself to the women my husband fucks. It can be exhausting so we constantly come back to the fact that we are in this purely for fun and sex. We want to be with other people - we want to experience new things. Last night watched my husband with a beautiful 30 year old with an immaculate body and a magic pussy that accepted three separate loads from him. At the same time, her very average husband drove me wild and carried me through several completely satisfying orgasms with his mouth and his beautifully shaped small penis. Earlier in the evening a regular partner spit roasted me with my husband and satisfied me with his 8” beast of a cock. Each was perfect, satisfying and gave me just what I needed - a horny guy who wanted to fuck me and make sure I was left tingling. Every woman I know that swings is content with a partner that is attractive, clean, well groomed and committed to her satisfaction.

I totally agree. What turns me on most is the variety - it’s why I love the nude beach. I love seeing so many naked men of all shapes and sizes. Visually I have stated before that I really like the way a smaller penis looks. During sex I do like seeing a large erect cock and I like the way they feel in my hands or inside me. Most of my partners know how to really give our pleasure regardless of their size so it’s all good.

It's the never ending question isn't it? Based on a recent experience I will say that a well hung guy who really knows how to use it it tough to beat. Unfortunately, not.many do. This guy teased me endlessly. He used the head to play with my pussy and kept laying it on top of me and asking me look how long it was and how far inside he would be able to go. We played for about 30 minutes before he finally put it in me. By then I was soaked and ready for him to go balls deep. Being fully stimulated and then penetrated by a big cock is amazing.

The man of a couple we swapped with claimed 9.5 inches. My wife measured it with her hands. In college she and her roommate had measured their hands across the knuckles. It was four inches. She wrapped both hands around it and "still had about an inch and a half in my mouth." His claim was accurate, she decided. His wife and I watched one of the most amazing sights I've ever witnessed! Laura, on her back, her legs spread wide, used both hands to guide that monster where she wanted it, saying, "Look Darling, I'm gonna get fucked by the biggest cock I've even seen!" Once she had it started, she reached for his ass and pulled him into her as smoothly as she'd ever done with me. She pointed her toes at the ceiling and moaned and gurgled deep in her throat. The sight of that thing sliding in and out of my beloved wife's pussy was as amazing as her appreciative sounds. Unfortunately, his wife decided Laura had enjoyed her husband far too much and refused to let it happen again. A few days later he stopped by to explain and asked if he could fuck Laura from time to time without telling his wife. Laura showed him to the door and we never saw him (or a cock that big) again.

Thicker is definitely where its at. Even if he doesn't know what he's doing then just let me get on top of him for 5 minutes that's all the time I need lol,

Some women have large vagina's too. When I was 24 I went to a sexual health clinic as I thought I probably caught chlamydia (which I hadn't) and they wanted to test for something else, I've always remembered when the nurse was looking for my cervix she just casually mentioned to me "you have an unusually long vagina". At first I felt bad about it as I'd often had men say how tight my vagina is. Then I realised why I usually orgasm easier/faster with big cocks. So yes I like them big lol, sweet spot I think is 8-9" and thick. I've had a 10" he was nice, we just about got it fully in, and I'm sure it got bigger right before he came in me it was so painful but I was real close to an orgasm so I didn't know what to say to him to either stop or go faster lol. I find it next to impossible to orgasm if they're smaller than 4". I've had a guy in his 60's with a 2.5" or 3" and it did nothing for me, though he did have an amazing tongue! My husband is 5.5" and kind of thick it works very well for me He has seen me with lots of men but the biggest I think he saw me take was easily a 8 or 9", he wasn't jealous exactly he was more amazed/entertained as he'd never seen one that big before and the comparison difference of when I had both my hands around his cock while I was giving him a blowjob as compared to one of my hands on my husbands cock.

So true - one of my favorite partners is a fit younger guy. His cock is about 4” rock hard with tight little balls. It is perfectly shaped and he looks amazing. He is super attentive and always finds just the right spot to make me cum every time.

Although I really like the look of a smaller cock with nice balls and a nice trimmed bush, occasionally I do crave a well hung guy. My husband is a bit below average so I sometimes want the increased friction and pressure of a nice big cock to experience a different type of orgasm.

My wife einjoys her regular lover's 8 inch cock, she lets him go bareback. I have a good 6 inches, but the extra length seems to do a lot for her. She also made love with my friend who has 9 inches, but did not express the same degree if enthusiasm that she has for the 8 inch cock. My conclusion is that its not just the length, but how the partner uses it.

I noticed that some men's cum is very watery. Others are very thick. I saw once where the first two guys who entered my wife were very watery. They leaked out pretty quickly. The next three were pretty thick and being older men didn't have as much semen as the first two so their semen didn't leak out. After that, all the other men were different ages and their semen were different thicknesses and volumes so she leaked like Niagara Falls. The bed was really messy as well as her pussy and when she had to go to the bathroom to pee, she felt lumps of semen on its way out and she cupped her pussy with her hand to catch the lumps to keep it from falling to the floor. I still remember it as if it happened yesterday. She didn't close the door to the restroom. All of us men could see her sitting on the toilet and hear her peeing. She looked at the lump of cum in her hand. Smelt it. Then spread her legs open and tried to dump it into the toilet. It wouldn't come off her hands. So she licked it off her hands, wiped, slushed the toilet and came back for more fun.

With my wife it depends on the position on her back 3 or 4 loads, doggy 5 or 6 loads and some time more. Then it flows out when she stands up.

We are bareback only. Semen is welcome internally at all times. Exchanging body fluids gets two thumbs up from us! We chose our partners carefully in our mind. We understand what we are doing. On a side note: We would never consider a condom a reason to play with someone we had not screened or if he/she made an off hand remark about their sexual health. In other words, if you use a condom "just in case" or "just to be sure"; then you are having risky sex. If you always use a condom but decline to screen because you think the condom is good enough, you are having risky sex. Both sides of this question are open to criticism! On a lighter note, regardless how you play, don't stop!

Well, it's unfortunate, but for J and me, sex with condoms is like a movie with ear muffs. Let it fly...just not in the eye! We are infrequent flyers though, maybe 5 times a year max. But even new lovers are allowed to cum where they want. But new lovers are recruited only every few years. We are selective and very lucky.

I'm on bc so it's not like every time we do something we have a scare. The only scares have come from late periods or something similar

Good for you. And why not? Nearly everything in life has a risk. You could be run over by a bus just crossing the street.

Reached our overflow point with guy #4. Indeed very hot to watch. Especially making her clean it up afterwards

I feel like I get off more through anal sex. However everyone is different.

I couldn't have said it better myself. That's exactly it. We can't control who others have sex with, and just like I have bareback sex with some but not others, we look for those who seem to have good judgment and are trustworthy.

We are new to swinging. The first time we swapped spouses with a couple we met on a cruise. It was a moment where we decided to do it. We had unprotected sex and my husband did as well. I knew I couldn't become pregnant but of course didn't take other problems that could cause into account. Lucky for all of us, nothing was transmitted. Our new friends were new to this as well, they said. My new partner did cum in me. He was going to withdraw but I said it was fine. We both continued and both of us had great sex.

Our first MMF happened with husband watching me. It made me want it more as I saw the look on his face....I just let go. He wasn't jealous he says he loves seeing me just enjoy sex. I wasn't leaving him..our relationship is very strong. It allows me to fully enjoy every moment. MMF MMMF off the bucket list and both time with black men so another item off the bucket list.

I found a toy that is kind of a pyramid shape. I forget what it is called. It is excellent for stretching and relaxing the pussy (or ass) to the point of being able to comfortably accept something large.

I had nothing to do with picking him, my wife said she was on a site one night when a box popped up. It was some site to meet people in your area and talk about things in the community, places to eat, shop and go out at night. That's where she met him. My wife is 34 years old, 5'2" and weighs a hundred pounds; he is at least 6'2" thin build in very good shape for 54 years old. I'm not trying to be funny but when I saw him naked the first thing that I thought was his dick looked like an alien. The next thing was he was between my wife's legs, he was rubbing it on her and then pushed it up on her belly. That's when I got worried that he was going to hurt her. I was shocked to see how held her and talked to her then pushed forward. It was amazing to see how effortless it really was, the only noise she made was moaning. As far as I'm concerned anyone that says they didn't have jealous feelings or other feelings seeing their wife with another person in a sexual act isn't in a good marriage. I did enjoy that evening and so did my wife. It was a life changing experience for both of us and one we are going to continue to explore.

It wasn't me, it's my wife that keeps agreeing with William to keep meeting. I honestly don't know how she can keep doing this without taking a break.

I've thought about the size factor. Do you guys seek out a larger endowed man or is it a lottery? I have been thinking about whether I would have feelings of inadequacy compared to a larger male, but I dont think I would because I get off to the extreme at the thought of my wife receiving maximum pleasure. I guess I'm also fairly confident in how I use what I got. But I can see where watching another man ravaging your spouse, especially when he's well endowed, could cause some mixed emotions. I don't know, maybe it is my serious voyeur tendencies and confidence in my wifes true love for only me that keeps me from getting to anxious at the thought. But I guess I will find out soon enough

Oh, so we can expect another update. Don't be in too much of a rush (it's called new relationship energy or NRE). Take your time and enjoy the experiences.

We have always swung with people we already knew. She has always gone bareback. It is usually MMF. One time we did a swap and she was not happy. She couldn't bear to see me enjoying having sex with another woman. It's O.k. with me. I'm not interested in reciprocation. I just love seeing her happy. She did three (me and two other guys) twice. Our first threesome his roommate barged in the door we forgot to lock and once at a party by a passerby on the way from the bathroom who poked his head into the room from the door we forgot to lock. Again. Her first experience with another man from the day we married turned into sex with two men. What a way to get started! We have never been to a swing club but I have thought about it but she is totally turned off by it. We are both happy having sex with the people we know. The people we know are from high school or ex co workers or people we have come to know in a bar. We have had some rare experiences, bareback, while on vacation that we worried about afterward for weeks. She can't get pregnant. It is more like an STD thing. Our current experiences are about two or three times a year. Her current playmate is someone I went to school with. He lives across state due to his job. He has a Harley and he'll ride to see us on nice summer days. I have been sharing her with him every New Years Eve for years. Its like a tradition

We swing three or four times a month. It is Jo's decision as to where her partners cum but she prefers them to cum inside her because that is the natural way for a couple to finish sexual intercourse. We will go bareback with partners we trust which includes the couples we swing with on a regular basis. Jo will allow all her partners to cum inside her using condoms with new playmates.

My wife has claimed for years that size doesn't matter, but I learned that she's been fibbing. Last summer, with my blessing, she has been actively searching the online dating sites for much younger men to both date and to have sex with. The first thing she looks for in their profile is "long and thick". She finally admitted that she loves the feeling of being filled, and that since she is only seeking part time playmates, not someone to share her life with, she is going to find the ones that give her physical pleasure. So far, so good.

Typically, that's very correct. However, I am one of those gals who truly enjoys a "larger than average" guy. You can always tell him (or show him ) what/how you like things done. Mr. H. is not overly long, but he's very thick. I like the "fullness" that I feel when he's inside of me. We have a local couple that we regularly play with, and the guy in that pair is also thick, and is a couple of inches longer than my DH. Honestly, the length can be a hindrance at times. I like the feel of the guy's crotch pressed against mine, and if the length is so long that it "hits bottom" it can be painful as well as stop the contact that I like to have. The drawbacks to size, at least for me, is that it limits other things. BJs are much harder to do "correctly" if your mouth is stretched to the limit, and anal is usually out of the question. But big ones are ALWAYS fun to handle and look at though.

I'm sorry that the encounter didn't go as you had hoped. If your wife does decide she wants to try again, I'd suggest (as a woman) that you and the other man spend more time on foreplay and give her an orgasm, perhaps through oral sex. That will relax the vaginal walls and make it easier for her to enjoy herself. Also, don't forget that lube is a wonderful, wonderful thing!