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I have anklets that say Hotwife SLUT QOS Threesome Symbol My Husband watches me Fuck

So I've never done a swing club, but I was at a guy club one night called the triangle. I am bisexual and was meeting a woman I had been seeing, we were dancing and went to the corner booth too make out a little bit. As we were making out I realized some woman was watching us intently. I didn't care so we kept going, finally I realized she was moving closer, I was feeling cheeky so I looked at her and said "would you like to join us." Then I realized, much to my embarrassment, it was my boss. I had just propositioned my direct supervisor.. turns out she was married and in the closet and came to that club to blow off steam. To my surprise she said "I would but not if it causes issues for you at work." I was floored.

There are lots of urban legends about how to spot a swinger in the wild, and some swingers do indeed provide clues for those in-the-know. The black wedding rings, upside down pineapples in your shopping cart, gnomes and pink flamingos in the yard etc... For us, we have a growing pineapple collection including our welcome mat (positioned upside down to those who enter), and also a growing collection of anklets worn publicly by the Mrs (some very suggestive and some not). What clues do you provide for the world to see?

There has been plenty of discussions about whether couples allow kissing of other people while having sex (which we have no problem with), and about kissing your own spouse while he or she is having sex with other people (which we find loving and intimate). Recently toward the end of playing with two other regular couples, the situation developed where I was fucking my own wife missionary and she was sucking another guy, trying to get him up. It wasn't successful, so he started kissing her deeply and massaging her breasts. I've done the reverse with my wife many times, but this was a new thrill, watching them be intimate while I was just the workhorse trying to get her off. When she did come she pulled and hugged him hard. Anyone else try this?

So my first response is if you cum quick due to excitement the woman that gave you that intimate pleasure probably did not cum yet, and she deserves her own exciting orgasm, otherwise she will leave the experience saying that sucked, we are never fucking these two again. So get out of your head and take care of the woman, personally I love being fingered, I love having my clit sucked, I love making out, and I love grinding. So pick one or four and get to work, keep your attention honed in on the new woman that has agreed to be violated by you. And yes, I know that is a harsh word but you have never taken the time to look at sex from our side, it is a hard thing to give up sometimes. Agreeing to sex is not just giving up our personal space we are agreeing to let you be inside of us, and that is a vulnerable position for any woman. So she deserves your full attention, cause she is giving you all she has. If you are moping about what someone else is doing to your wife instead of being focused on this incredible woman that has agreed to spread her legs and let you be inside of her she will feel rejected and not sexy and thats not fair. If you wanna feel like the stud then you should make us feel like a sexy vibrant woman that you can't take your eyes off. And who knows you might even realize with all the sexy play and kissing that you got a round two in you. Then who cares if your wife is still going at it cause so are you. Good luck.

My husband and I have a couple friends that we are friends with but sex is a big component, but we make an effort to invite them to the vanilla stuff also, where there is no sex. We also do stuff with them outside of being a couple, like my best friends are Jenna and Julie and I've swung with both of them. And my husband is best friend with Adam, Julie's husband, and he goes to the bar for happy hour on most Thursdays with Jenna's Husband. And our relationship with Julie and Adam is very fluid, we are probably close to being in a quadruple honestly. So its totally possible but it needs to be about much more than sex.

I do not understand the web show thing, but I do not talk about my number with anyone, cause it is ridiculous. I was an early starter, raised in a broken home environment by a mom that taught me to seek male attention, I was a hot mess in my twenties working as an exotic dancer and now I'm a pretty active hot wife so my number is literally ridiculous. When I did talk numbers it just intimidated the guys. Now I just say a lot.

I wouldn't worry about it, I use men as sex toys all the time. I'm passionate in the sack but I'm there to get me off and get them off. I'm very clear about it, I've had a few younger guys try to follow me around like a lovesick puppy, but thats cause they haven't been with a woman that has perfected her slut game. I always make it clear this is a one time deal. It helps that I rarely play I'm my home town.

I think her high water mark is 12 different guys, including me, getting fucked 15 times (some guys more than once obviously, including me)

I've taken 5 in a night but it was too too much so now I draw the line at 3.

Id recomend being thankful for the view of her slutty life she allows you to have. I'm a slut also, and that doesn't mean we are gonna be comfortable with everything.

Completely depends on the other woman, I'm bi so if she is too, we usually break the ice with some fore play then pair off. If she isn't I generally initiate taking her to my husband, thus giving permission for intimacy to start. Once the first kiss takes place I then join her husband. For us we generally prefer separate rooms so we will then separate for the actual sex. Its not a jealousy issue its more of a I don't like an audience issue. Its too hard to get out of my head and have fun.

I am a very oral persona and I love kissing, frenching, making out , and sucking that D. So for me if I'm fucking a couple guys my mouth is gonna be busy, and I love love love a passionate make out session. So I seek this out, if someone is in me and I'm not actively sucking a nice yummy cock, then I'm pulling someone down to make out with, and from time to time that has included the guys wife. I like kissing it adds so much for me sexually.

Well I can tell you I always appreciate a man that he's been considerate to the woman that will be down there. I can say for sure that a nicely man's caped dick gets sucked more often and longer by a lot. I don't care for the errant public hairs that I am pulling out of my mouth. So when they are gone imma enjoy sucking that dick boo.

I have three couples my husband and I swing with regularly, and we have had our own little parties with all of us together, but never any formal swinger party. I've considered attending an club downtown but it looks kinda seedy so we haven't yet.

We went to a local shopping center and 90% of the vehicles parked were white, we thought we hit the jackpot. All these soccer moms all in one place.

Porn was definitely edgy and on the fringes back when he started, and for the right type of person, flaunting some of the rules can eventually lead to the belief that none of the rules apply to you. From there, breaking the law is just a short step away I guess.

There is a larger issue here. Every human of our ken has preferences. Food preferences, movie preferences, sports team preferences, political preferences and...yes...even sex preferences. Preferences are not values. Values such as honesty, trust, and so on. Values are not integrity--integrity derives from persons living and not compromising those values. Most of us gravitate to persons who have values and live those values and are thus considered to have integrity. Preferences invade relationships when those preferences become somehow threatening. Most commonly this arises from an expression of intolerance. For example, we recently received a post from someone who told us that if we failed to embrace Jesus as our personal savior, we had no right to call ourselves Americans. (one of us is Jewish). Sometimes it is an expression of ridicule, "you actually shop there?" The simplest way to avoid such things is to recognize that there is a difference in preference and substitute a genuine curiosity with the question "why"? It shows respect for preference as preference. Swinging is a preference. Sexual orientation is emphatically not a preference. It is how someone is 'wired' and all wirings are deserving of respect provided they do not impinge on others' safety or integrity. We have gay friends, lesbian friends, bi friends, and straight friends. Intermediate as well. Friends with whatever pronouns he/she/they choose. It is reasonable to inquire as a curiosity "why do you swing" in the context of a happy marriage? The question need not be answered, of course. It is never reasonable to question--much less judge--someone's sexual orientation. Neither sexual preference nor sexual orientation nor, for that matter, should sexual interest be a threat to anyone in the LS owing to the first rule "No means no".

It was over 5 years ago that we swapped the first time and I let another man finish in me. Reading through this old post brought back a memory that has changed how me and my husband play differently since that day. I am sure every woman has experienced the dripping out after having sex. We have all had that telltale wet spot we have left. We always had a box of Kleenex next to the bed to wipe away before going to clean up. If we had a second go at it, before the cleanup, it had always been with just snuggling and possibly me helping with the second erection. That very first time, my new partner, after making love to me, remained in me for some time. I remember how different and exciting it was and how nervous I was lying in bed with him in me knowing my life had changed that night. Then he did something my husband never did, as he was lifting himself out of me, instead of getting a tissue or towel he went right down and started cleaning me with his mouth. It’s funny, just last night I had to remind my husband after now doing that same thing to me, that he never used to do that and that it took me telling him how much I liked it that first time for him to do it. When we take our time it has now become very much part of our love making.

The women in our family keep our pubic areas constantly trimmed to varying degrees: me the least, Clair the most. The guys just sort of just weedwhack back theirs every so often. Elsewhere the guys do nothing. Among we women I am the anomaly - at the request of hubby and Lora I will let the hair elsewhere on my body grow sometimes, especially under my arms. My bush would grow pretty full if I let it, but not much grows elsewhere and it's soft. For whatever reason they like playing in it sometimes.

The common wisdom is that men want sex a lot more than women. The reality is that women have both a greater capacity for sex and (especially as we collectively entered our thirties) a greater desire for sex. I found the more I get, the more I want. Opening up to my Lesbian side made that even more true.

Mr here...I think my standard view is 'whatever'. In a group session, it's all good. One on one? That could be strange. From my personal vantage point, there isn't much to be interested in. My family was raised in a pretty conservative world. I remember my father had a friend whose wife always seemed to dress a little provocatively. She had a pretty sexy body and always seemed to be dropping innuendo. My father's friend seemed very outgoing and very flirty with my mom. About 10 years ago my mom mentioned that couple asked if she and my father were interested in a "naked cruise". I'm convinced they were swingers. When my mom mentioned it she seemed repulsed by the thought. My father is even more conservative than my mom is. So anything within the family would require a lot of alcohol to break down the solid steel boundaries my parents put up. With that said I've always imagined Mrs and her sister messing around. Mrs wasn't repulsed by the thought but it would never happen. There are plenty of fish in the sea to where fishing in the backyard isn't necessary.

I'd have to agree. Everything with swinging comes with some risk, so as always it comes down to risk assessment and what your tolerance level of that is. Nowhere near an expert an anything related to this, but I can't think of a much better way to transmit or catch a respiratory disease than sex. Take away the kissing (which would be a dealkiller for us right there), then think about the typical sexual encounter - enclosed space, man on top of woman, missionary, face to face, he's panting and breathing hard, she's panting and breathing hard, and this goes on for a while. Seems to me you almost couldn't come up with a better way of transmission if you tried. There's a huge IF there though, that only matters if one of them has it...which leads us right back to level of risk. I guess you could dream up ways you hoped would reduce to some degree the risk, like no oral, doggie style or reverse cowgirl only, both be masked, etc. But for us it would be like the no kissing thing, when you start taking pieces away, pretty soon the whole thing falls apart and it's just not worth the trouble anymore.

Mrs Doc doesn't like to floss while giving a BJ so initially, I trimmed close because I absolutely LOVE her blowjobs. After our first toe dipping experiences into swinging 15 years ago, we noticed that most couples we saw were at least trimmed. I shave cock, balls and pubic area clean twice a week. Mrs Doc shaves but leaves a landing strip. We prefer our partners that way as well and we've found that it does tend to eliminate any lingering mustiness.

Mrs here - I'm noticed it more with women than men in our interactions. We are was too judgmental of ourselves and others. As the Mr tells me all the time, it really isn't about looks, though everyone has a certain type (s) they're attracted to, rather it is about fun. Does the couple we're talking with sound like a fun time? A few extra pound on him or her doesn't change a great time. On the flip side, we've met some super hot couples, model types, who were an absolute bore. We bring others into our encounters to enhance them. It is about a great time, not what the scale says.

Many of the guys in our group are completely shaved, chest, back and below the waist. I’m trying to think if legs and arms are shaved too. Then there are those who manscape by trimming but are not bare. In our group very few guys are bushy bushy. I can’t answer how they feel going to a checkup or gym shower. Guys I had been with before had been both shaved and not. I had a boyfriend in HS who thought he looked bigger when he shaved bare. We had some laughs about that. Below the waist trimming might be a generational thing. Now I usually fully shave when going to a party and I normally will fully shave if I am going for a physical. My current doctor is female and she doesn’t mention anything about my grooming. I think most women my age have grown up womenscaping one way or another.

My wife has had three guys several times -- all were house parties that lasted many hours.

Hubby surprised my on my birthday last year with an MFMM! He procured 3 BBC for me to enjoy. It was amazing.

As pointed out above are we counting orgy play with lots a partner swapping the same as focused play when the playmates are just working on each other the same way? A lot of this depends on the skill and stamina of the man/men. One guy if he can keep her going for an hour or more. But if its a parade of ten minute guys she can take on a crowd, provided there is enough lube.

At a party hosted by our best friends almost two years ago I had sex with 4 guys penetration/oral (including my husband) and oral only with another guy. Also We had a 5 girls orgy at the beginning of the night.

From a woman's perspective, following her lead is what's important. It used to be that the two guys in our family could satisfy the three of us women with a second and even third round. But as we all have gotten into our thirties, the guys are able to achieve two erections and that's it. So now by mutual consent we women share a boyfriend on the side; among them (and between us girls) that's enough.

Ms Vaitape has had more than a dozen in one evening on several occasions. All in good fun, all with a good mindset. She always finishes with Mr Vaitape.

My gal loves for MMFMs, having two guys join us. We start off with a guy sucking each nipple and the third sucking her clit. Since she takes a long time to orgasm, we usually rotate between positions at least once. After she has an orgasm, she lets us know what she wants next, and next, etc. She usually wears out all three of us (guys) before she is sated.

I had more partners when I was single as serial monogamist than when I started swinging as a couple or now in a V.

They were probably European royalty. Nothing unusual for them.

Again the kissing question. I’m sorry I just don’t understand the fascination with kissing. I kiss everybody. If I am going to put my mouth in much more intimate places, I am going to kiss you too. My pet peeve is those who won’t kiss after oral sex. Are you kidding me?

We wouldn't fuck or do oral on a person who we wouldn't kiss.

I've seen several posting from single women on SLS, that seem questionable. I'm sure there are 20 year olds looking for people in their 60's..but not totally convinced. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

One other perspective I will add to this discussion. Women have four options for what to wear on their legs. 1. They can wear pants or jeans which generally speaking are not as sexy or hot as visible legs. 2. They can wear pantyhose which while great for vanilla type activities where the clothes aren't going to come off, in a swinging environment where there is a good chance of getting naked, pantyhose just provides an obstacle to the fun. Also, it is another piece of clothing to try to keep up with and locate in the dark after the fun is over. Also the pantyhose, if they are control top type can help to hold the tummy in if that is an issue. 3. They can go with bare legs and while some ladies have very attractive legs, for many women who might be self-conscious of their legs due to lack of a tan or what have you this is not the best option. 4. Finally they can wear stockings. They have the good appearance of the "tanned legs" plus there is no obstacles to get in the way of the "play." Sure can't speak for all women, but I am pretty sure that most women will keep the stockings on. Again, less clothing items to keep up with. As a man I am certainly no expert on the clothing habits of women, but based upon observations and my experience of 26 years of marriage I believe this might be a fairly accurate assessment of the choice of stockings.

Yep, pretty common site. Stockings/holdups are seen as sexy by most men, myself included. I can't attest to women's opinions, as I am not a woman. However, I do know there was a study done some years back which showed that women who wore sexy underwear were more confident, self assured, and assertive in business settings. I.e., their underwear wasn't showing, but still made a distinct difference in their outlook. Maybe that tracks with the swinging world too.

Two members of our shul; we were surprised to see them but they were not surprised to see us having spotted us already at a swingers' Web site.

So I did a threesome with a couple that fancied themselves Vampires. They were attractive and we had a normal night, in hind sight they talked about the Ann Rice books to an obsessive level, but I like Harry Potter books so I couldnt talk. Anyways, everything was pretty normal till we hit the bedroom and started getting naked, as soon as my panties hit the floor, it was then that they started biting me, Hard, really hard, it hurt a lot and I jumped and jokingly said no no. But then they started hissing and pushed me down and started biting me even harder. I have had people nibble and nip my nipples and stuff before, I'm not a fan but can handle it, and I understand the allure. Its not for me though I'm not a pleasure from pain type of gal. This was something completely different, these guys were actually biting me with the intent of breaking my skin and sucking my blood. It freaked me out. They bit my neck, shoulders, boobs, stomach, and thighs. I kicked him back and he fell off the bed,, I jumped up, I ran out grabbed my coat and keys and ran straight out the front door, I was completely naked under the coat and had left all my clothes. They tried to stop me when they heard the front door open but they were naked too. I was in my car and pulling away when he finally ran outside wearing just his pants. He actually jumped in his car and tried to chase me down but I pulled in a police dept parking lot and xalled for a cop in the parking lot, he kept driving by. I showed the cop the bite marks and they took me in to take a statement.. It scared me because I don't know where they would have stopped, would they have tried to drink me dry, or did they just like biting and pretending? I had deep purple and black bruises all over my body, my thighs and neck. It was an awkward couple of weeks waiting for them to go away, and pretty traumatic, today if anyone even tries to put their teeth on me a little I flip.