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We are Polyamorous with our friends-turned-lovers August and Pauline. August and I are in love and we can’t imagine our lives without each other now. We are exclusive to one another and are committed to no one else other than our spouses. We see each other as our significant other or lover or boyfriend/girlfriend. We never publicly address each other as husband and wife. Though sometimes we feel and act that we are and we recently have had a baby together. My husband had originally given me the OK to go and have sex with another man of choosing. At first I wasn’t interested as I didn’t want one night stands or casual sex. I wanted romance, I wanted to go on dates and fall in love. August and Pauline were short-lived swingers who didn’t feel secure in that lifestyle. I always had some minor attraction towards August. I have always felt guitly for that as I was married and so was August. But at one point, I felt the need to get it off my chest and told Phil and Pauline seperately at different times. Both took it well and appreciated my honesty. They trusted me not to do anything behind their backs. They were at our house one day when we ended up confiding our secrets of (potential) extramarital activities to each other. Pauline then suggested that I should date August instead. I remember blushing furiously at that. August and Phil agreed as it would be with someone they at least knew and trusted. At the time I was still unsure but after two weeks of encouragement and reassurances that as long as everyone was honest, it would be fine. It didn’t work out then it didn’t work out and we would all still be friends. But it did work out and now everything is for the better. My husband and Pauline however are more akin to fuck buddies/friends with benefits. They’re close but they don’t look to each other for romance. After two years as a couple, the four of us decided to live together in the same house. Four adults and five children. The kids are still small but know and understand to some extent what’s going on and how its different from the rest. We love Pauline and August’s two children and they are really fond of us, calling us aunt and uncle. The same can be said for our two children and Pauline and August. Sometimes I would sleep with August while Pauline sleeps with Phil. But I slept exclusively with August from the time I was trying to concieve his baby to one month after giving birth. We all thought it best that the expectant mother and father share the same bed. I never expected my life to end up this way. But now that it has, I don’t want it to change it. I love my husband, I love my significant other, I love my dear friend, I love all five of my children. Pauline and I intend to each have one more baby before we get too old. But that isn’t a sure thing. I wish to anyone and everyone reading this a good day.

Men have to deal with a stereotype that if they like sucking cock or fucking a guy it means they are not manly. Women are generally more in touch with their feelings in general, we don't repress as much. We are also more in tune with close contact and moments of intimatcy with other women than men are. We are constantly touching each others hair, or helping with makeup, or hugging or cuddling together. Two women can hold hands and its no big deal but two guys holding hands is called gay. Its a toxic masculinity issue.

My spouse and I have been into the LS for several years now and have really enjoyed ourselves immensely. We have been with couples, had threesomes, and have had sole experiences and everything has worked for both of us. In the past six months though, the early stages of menopause has had a big impact on any new experiences. My wife has not really been in the mood and I can understand it. She told me to feel free to keep on exploring myself with other females and couples. I have with an on-going female FWB who she knows of and is totally aware when we did get together. However, lately I have been been losing interest myself just feeling a bit awkward without my wife enjoying herself in the way she did prior to the onset of menopause. Anyone else gone through this and how did you feel about the situation? Thanks

A former swing buddy was a gorgeous Asian woman who enjoyed pegging guys. When we put a photo of her behind a guy getting ready to peg him as our profile photo, we were amazed at the number of "straight" guys who contacted us and begged for her to peg them. When we got together with them and she had pegged them, we asked some of them why they showed straight in their profile. All said that they thought other women would not be interested in them if the women felt that they were not 100% straight.

I've never been attracted to another guy with his clothes on but occasionally a naked erection will turn me on. With the ladies it's all in the eyes, clothes or naked.

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So I think we might be Polyamorous, my husband and I started swinging three years back with a couple of our, at the time Vanilla, friends. Julie and Adam had been our friends for a few years, and when they inquired about swinging with us we decided to give it a shot. We have continued to swing with them for three years now and we have all started to develop feelings for each other. Back in March they sold their home and were in between houses as theirs wasn't ready yet, so they moved in with us, then Covid hit and their place fell through and the real estate market was shut down in PA due to it not being categorized as essential. We have not minded having them around though, its actually been nice. And honestly at this point you cannot see where one couple starts and the other begins. We are all affectionate with each other and we all have sexual relationships with each other. This morning my husband left early, and Julie came in and climbed into bed and woke me up with kisses and some very much needed oral sex, which I happily reciprocated. I got up and got in the shower, Adam came in and I pulled him into the shower with me and we had sex. Last night my husband had sex with Julie and me. We have never discussed what we are but it feels like I am married to my husband, Adam, and Julie and I know it feels the same for Julie.

For me it’s very hard not to kiss when fucking. Kissing is intimate but so is fucking, if you want me to eat your pussy We should be kissing, if you suck my cock we should be kissing. Being with a kissitive woman is just wonderful.

taboo, old fashion taboo, ignorance......fear of unknown, fear of themselves......

My Slut wife and I will show anything just don't care

I also agree - when I was younger I thought that sucking cock was "gay"... even though I knew I was not as I always loved (and still do) being with women (more to the point couples - I have been doing threesomes for years). Anyway I first got with a couple where the husband was bi and he went down on me - I wasn't sure what to make of it. But later that evening the opportunity to suck his cock presented itself and I went for it. The feel and taste of his rock hard cock really got me turned on, so much that when he eventually came in my mouth it was really hot. However, afterward I did have some second thoughts about it and all the way home I kept wondering if I had done the right thing - a few weeks later while masturbating I found myself reliving the threesome and more and more the cock sucking. Been doing it for years now and love it more and more each time. I wish there were more couples into it - any out there please let me know!

I'm a minister (not a pastor). My wife and I are occasional swingers. We felt like it conflicted with our faith at first, but we had to be true to what we desired. After studying the Bible we found that most holy men of God had more than one wife. After all Abraham's wife, Sarah, gave him her handmaid as a wife, Moses had two wives, David had multiple wives and concubines, as did Solomon. Paul primarily admonished ministers to be the husbands of one wife because Rome had banned polygamy and it was an issue of Christian testimony not morality. We take adultery seriously and don't do anything that the other isn't aware of or wouldn't agree to. We only play when we feel the "itch" and we're very discrete. We view our sexuality as something private - something between ourselves and our God and we don't share information regarding our sexuality with fellow Christians that we know might not understand. Part of my personal theology is a belief in Universal Reconciliation. This teaching is essentially that God provided EVERY man's salvation through Christ. Yes, there is a Hell, but even Hell is an expression of a loving God who uses the fires to purify even the most vile of sinners. One day all will stand before God redeemed by the blood of Christ. Anyway, that's our story.