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If there no one to take sloppy seconds, then guy #1 is going down on me until I am satisfied. My feeling is that there are times I swallow his cum, so he can go down on the mess he made.

Yes, I have enjoyed being involved in quite a few. I no overly fond of DV, butt I really enjoy doing dp. Either hole is good for me, I actually like the feeling of the other guy through the wall, then feeling him swell before he shoots. my first wife would get on me reverse cowgirl anal, then lay back on my chest, then the other guy would mount her and be fucking her pussy.

This position worked pretty well for her to give us both oral - separate and together. Never occurred to us to invite her to climb on. We did DP the more traditional way - cowgirl / doggy- with spectacular results. I loved watching her face and eyes as he rocked in and out of her ass.

“Swinging” does not equal “lifestyle”… The terms “lifestyle” and “swinging” are often used interchangeably; but I think of them differently. To me, “lifestyle” is a broad term that includes many forms of erotic expression: voyeurism, exhibitionism, cross-dressing, kink, swinging, etc. In other words, swinging is a subset of the very broad, lifestyle. What is swinging then? Consensual, non-monogamy is at the heart of swinging. The consent is between the couple that have the societal expectation of being in a monogamous relationship. The couple could be m/m, f/f, m/f… So, by my definition (and this will rile some folks) – a single person cannot be a ‘swinger’. They can be in the lifestyle, they can play with swingers to be sure – but they are not swinging per se, because they are not consenting with another person in their committed relationship to play outside of their relationship. Society has no expectation that they be monogamous in the first place. So, is a hotwife a swinger? Absolutely! She is in a relationship that has the expectation of monogamy. She also has the consent of her husband to play outside of the relationship. His presence to the play is not key issue – his knowledge and consent is. Without his consent – she is simply cheating. If she is single, she is just a girl who knows how to have a good time.

Jessiaca wrote"What is the number of men that a woman could sleep with that would shock you or make you reconsider playing with her? " Their once was a Lady who intimidated me because of her 'score". Finally screwed up the courage to place myself in comparison to all the others. We have truly struck up a relationship which is a love relationship. One which is supported by both my wife and her husband. That is , by the way one of the things that I am very thankful for this Thanksgiving Day. Not saying I am the best. From what she tells me there are some who were spectacular. We just click.

I have my Catholic upbringing that still has its effect on me. One time as Clair and I decided to have sex with Red, she took off her clothes and spread her labia for Red, asking him, "Do you know what this is for?" It was a stupidly simple question with an obvious answer, but I thought "yeah, that's what it's for."

So I had someone ask how long I've been swinging? I've been a Hotwife for five years, but only been swapping for 3 years. So do I include my Hotwife years as swinging, or is that different from swinging? On this same note, I have been fairly promiscuous since I became sexually active, I always had multiple partners, even in the beginning. I like new sex, with new people. That attitude carried through my teens and twenties till I my husband proposed to me, so is a single very promiscuous person considered a form of swinging?

Good point. We can’t have that. It should be about her pleasure and enjoyment. Looks like the cowgirl position would be best.

A couple people commented that having hair is a sign of maturity. That is definitely a generational thing. The mere suggestion that those who prefer a shaved woman somehow is perverted, interested in children, etc is absurd. People have their preferences. Some men like blondes, others brunettes, some thinner women, some big breasts, etc. For us, a shaved woman looks better and gets more slippery. We both love the smoothness while licking. Grinding on a woman who is bare feels better as well. A "landing strip" is fine. The 1970's bush is unattractive to us.

I have sensitive skin also so 10 years back I got a Groupon deal for laser hair removal and did it everywhere I shaved. No more arm pit hair, no more Bush, no more shaving my legs. It was a god damn miracle. One of the best decisions I ever made. Just 6 treatments done 6 weeks apart and all the hair is gone FOREVER. No more razer bumps or rashes, no more half hour shaving my body, no more prickly and itchy sensations as it grows back in. I'm now always silky smooth.

Maybe it just looks better "on paper".

In addition, she is very physically attractive.

Oh hell yeah, not gonna lie babe that shit is fire! I love going down on a woman, the entire experience is so erotic, I love the way she moans, whimpers and squirms on my lips, is so delicious. And I fell in love with being penetrated in my teens so to add being fucked at the same time, oh its all so freaking yummy.

I’m average only 6”-7”

Umm those of us who are of "average"size...... would probably find it frustrating if not impossible. ?? Just saying.....

Sounds hot. Never tried it but looks like a bucket list item. Sounds like rhythm is the key.

I love kissing & licking & rimming beautiful puckered buttholes, before I get wet & slide into it. love, love anal.

OK, just a taste.

That's for the baby!

For me, it's one of my better features. ?

As a pregnancy goes on it's less missionary and more doggy.

Because men hope we part-time Lesbians will bring more pussy their way. Whenever there is a question as to why men want or do something, the answer is almost always that they are hoping that it will result in being able to put their dick in a female. The good part for us women is that they'll put up with just about anything (e.g. sloppy seconds) to get there. I love my two guys and they genuinely love me, but that's the truth.

For me, there is nothing like the real bi experience - licking pussy while having a man inside me.

If women are promiscuous, they are called a slut. Men are called studs. I praise women who celebrate their sexuality. They are fully embracing life. No shame about it. Go for it!

Amen, sister. I just ended up having more sex after I engaged in my Lesbian side.

And it proves the point - you are a perfectly fine person, wife. The word has not only lost its sting, it has lost its meaning.

I guess as swingers....living the lifestyle....the question is mute. Sex play is desired, anticipated......and happens regularly. Attitude....personality is probably more key. If someone has issue cause that person fucks too much.....they’re in the wrong lifestyle.

First of all, I love the photo album, all great especially the, "Hot Wife." I wouldn't call anyone a slut regardless unless it was a part of our mutual foreplay. I play with Ladies I like and I'm sure that I am not their only admirer.

Wouldn't bother me or my husband, I still fucked around while I was pregnant. Some guys are really into it. Although they will probably not give you the rough stuff if that is your thing.

People who ask for numbers are just seeking out ways to label a woman. If a woman has a small number she is chaste, but if she has more than ten she is a slut, whore or a hooker. Its BS. I've slept with a lot, definitely triple digits so I do not discuss it.

So I've had the pleasure of being DPV a couple times and its fantastic once you get everyone in. Never felt more stretched ever and orgasmed so easily which is not my norm. Big dick on the bottom, woman takes him cowgirl then lays on him, 2nd guy enters from behind and fucks her doggystyle. It feels best if you alternate thrusts, so you are pulling outwards as he is pushing in, and you are pushing in deeper while he is pulling outwards. Do not actually pull out till everyone has cum.

"You have a right to live your way." . . . As long as you don't hurt anyone

nothing feels better than rubbing up against another hard cock inside my baby - just sayin

We have done it whereas we two start things off then the third comes in a little later when she is all hot and ready. Being in that state all barriers are usually down. When the third enters her and the moments before it is a bit odd but then in seconds she is totally totally focused on the other person and enjoying herself.

My late wife once said to me, "If I allow a man to put his cock in me, Darling, I expect him to come inside me. If I didn't want him to, I wouldn't be fucking him." Another time she said, "When I have cum inside me, I feel so sexy! When we swap and I have two men's cum inside, it's even sexier! Did you know that 60% of women have cum in their pussies at any given time?" "I didn't know that, Sweetheart, but I have heard that 60% of statistics are made up on the spot," I replied. "Sloppy seconds" weren't a treat for us, it was a normal part of swinging.

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms. My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all. Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.

We are pleased that your first full swap went so well. Our first full swap with another couple was also in separate rooms and it too went well. They were first timers too and we agreed that going to different bedrooms to play would help us get over the nervousness we all felt. Afterwards we were all very comfortable with what we had done and agreed to do it again very soon. However the next time we met them we all played together in the same room. This was even better because not only were we able to enjoy exchanging partners for oral sex and intercourse but we were able to have the added pleasure and excitement of watching and listening to each other playing with another man or woman. Good luck with your swinging - it is truly an exciting and liberating lifestyle and if you are anything like us you will wonder why you did not try it earlier in your lives.

I always regarded myself as straight with no interest in having a sexual encounter with another woman until, many years ago, the female half of the couple Brian and I were swinging with went down on me. The pleasure she gave me was exquisite and I felt that I had to reciprocate. I found that I enjoyed pleasing her and ever since that time I have played both bi- and hetero-style. We have had many FMF threesomes and bi-play is a normal part of the scene when we are playing within our group of regular swinging couples. I guess I had hidden my bisexual tendencies for many years because I now regard myself as fully bisexual and enjoy both giving and receiving very much. Jo

Have you tried the King of Clubs position? Both guys on their back with their legs scissored and cocks next to each other. The woman straddles both cocks from above.