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3 pointsI actually like my wife to finish guys orally. She likes seeing their pleasure, and I like watching. For those who responded, does “completion” mean swallowing, or pulling it out at the last second?
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2 pointsWith him not on board this will likely blow up in your face. You’re comfortable being with another man but not so okay with another woman. It’s a common double standard that works when couples have clearly communicated what will work for their dynamic. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. My advice is to find some way to spice up your sex life with the two of you. The big C in swinging is communication. Also very helpful in everyday life. How would you feel if he tried to plan a threesome with another woman, especially as some kind of surprise?
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2 pointsIt's also a really meaningless way to interpret a woman's sex life, everybody goes through different "seasons". I've known a number of women who enthusiastically went through dozens of men in their dorms, then settled down into stable monogamous married life like nothing ever happened. On the other hand, Mrs. E has fucked more men during her second marriage than she did before her first. The single woman we've played with for a while jumped on all the dating sites after her divorce, and it wasn't because she was trying to land a new husband. People's circumstances change their confidence, openness, and needs, and so do our ideas about what's permissible - and how much people lie during or after as a result. It used to be widely assumed that a single woman was not having sex, and now it's widely assumed that a single woman is probably having more sex than a woman who has been in a committed, exclusive relationship for years. Either of those assumptions can turn out to be way off.
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2 pointsI think this fits into the same category as guys who can't accept that their wife just isn't open to swinging at all. The fantasy is extremely common, but so is the phenomenon of people who just can't grasp that someone else doesn't secretly share their fantasy.
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2 pointsWe define "completion" as a blowjob to orgasm, regardless of where it goes.
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2 pointsI will try to answer for her She has given many many blowjobs to completion. We have talked about this and I know she enjoys a new partner. More than once men have apologized and she has reassured them that she enjoyed it too. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want it to be reciprocated. The second part no, I never tried and have no desire too.
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2 pointsGood to know! (I guess they forgot to tell us in Sex Ed in Hs. ?)
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1 pointThis is my story from my first time for many things.... I am telling it as my notes in my diary from after it happened. I let hubby take me to the Green Door I was in this red tube dress bra and panties with heels... the height limit I could walk in This was the outfit (see attached) We walked around a little... hung out in a larger area a while. A bar... No Alcohol I noticed a few couples I noticed more single men than couples Time went by... little more comfort... Hubby whispers in my ear... Suggested... "Go to the ladies room and come out with no bra" In the ladies room... I did as I was told I'm now in my red tube dress, panties, and heels I make my way back to hubby After more time... hubby whispers... Suggesting... "Go back to the ladies room and remove your panties" The bra I didn't mind taking off I knew at some point after the bra he was going to tell me to take off my panties I was telling myself no I won't take them off The room had couples pass through as they were on their way to someplace it seemed I noticed more single men Single men looking I was still telling myself no I won't take them off, my panties Single men walking closer I was still telling myself no I won't take them off Single men smiling at me I was still telling myself no I won't take them off Hubby whispers again... "Go back to the ladies room and remove your panties" I now find myself in the ladies room... my bra and my panties now have a new home in my purse I'm now in my red tube dress and heels I make my way back to hubby After more time... Hubby whispers... "Lets take a walk..." There is a hot tub We pass a pole dancing area There was a pool table or two I can't recall downstairs or upstairs... I see another bar Another area with a pole dancing stage I notice couples... I notice single men... Now down the hall... There are large beds A very big bathroom area and a steam room Another huge bed surrounded by glass walls I notice couples... I notice single men... There are many smaller rooms with beds that have curtains I notice couples... I notice single men... Now... Here is an interesting area... A Dungeon... It had racks and stocks A swing I notice couples... I notice single men... A center round stage with another dancing pole Another shower area And now where we stopped... Some of the single men... come in with us A room that has a chair with leg stirrups... We look at the chair... It's not harsh but more comfortable as it seems... But I know I am not getting in that chair We walk around it more... I know I am not getting in that chair There are three men... I have no panties... I know I am not getting in that chair Hubby whispers... "Have a seat..." I'm saying no in my head... Hubby takes my hand... I now find myself in the chair... Where I told myself I would never be... The three men now move in front of me... I know hubby won't have me use the stirrups Hubby whispers... "Ready..." He moves in front of me... In my mind I am saying no... He holds my heels... I'm saying no to myself... He places my heels in each stirrup... As if I was wanting it... Hubby moves away... Behind me... I gasp... My manicured triangle was in full display... The three men now see what only hubby has seen for the past 10 years... I hear them... Their eyes as if magnetized gaze between my legs... Compliments... "Look at that pussy!" I could just move my legs from the stirrups... But I don't... Hubby whispers... "They love your gorgeous pussy!" I bite my lip... My eyes close... I feel the Tingly sensations... More compliments... "Look a that slit!!!" "She's getting wet!" My eyes open... I know they can tell... More Tingly sensations... Hubby whispers.... "Here goes..." He slips my tube dress down exposing my 38E breasts... My eyes close... I gasp I bite my lip more... More compliments... "Look a those tits!" "Fucking huge!!!" Even more Tingly sensations... My eyes open... My heels in the stirrups... I find myself opening my legs as if I could open them any more... Wanting them to look... More... All three are now stroking for me... My pussy is tingling... They move closer... Their comments... Compliments.... "Smell that pussy!" "Look at those tits!" My pussy tingles more... Hubby whispers.... "Which one do you think is good looking?" I reply back... Hubby moves to him... Saying something to him... Hubby comes back to my side Hubby motions to him... He drops to his knees between my legs... My eyes close... My pussy tingles more... His comments... "What a hot pussy!" "It smells so good!" I feel his presence... I feel his breath... I GASP!!! I feel his tongue gliding through my Treasure! My thighs... Butter... I clench my hands on the arm rests... His hungry tongue.... My pleasure... Builds... I look down... His tongue... Flicking... Darting... Flicking... my moans grow... Hubby whispers.... "Let go" "Cum on his mouth" My legs quiver.... My hands clench the chair... I let out a loud moan... "Wow! She just squirted!!!" I have one of the biggest... Strongest... ORGASMS! "Her pussy is so WET!" "Holy Shit!" I didn't want it to end! (I'm waiting for hubby to take me there again)
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1 pointI never thought or had reason to think I had a scent or aroma. I have always had a full bush and when I started posing for photos I would hear that I smelled lovely... Wasn't sure if it was my perfume or otherwise but never thought about it more. One shoot I did there was an instance where I was posed open legs for a few photographers. As the shoot went on someone came into the room and they literately said "Wow"! I found out as the shoot went on that as more went out of the room and came back in they were saying they could smell (my pussy) as they came back in. No one made is sound bad but that is when I realized I had a scent or aroma. That was years ago and have posed countless times since and have always been told it was very good for all involved. I assume men enjoy my aroma and it's noticeable but not overwhelming.
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1 pointThis is also us. Wanting to watch her give head was the very specific kink that got us started. I still enjoy it most. ...and to the OP's point, it's a mood. When she's gotten motivated to pick up a male, we have not tried the club scene, but sometimes she has been interesting in going further, other times she's not been in a daring mood and knows I like it. Vanilla men, by and large, don't complain about "just" getting their cocks sucked. I do understand where it would be limiting with experienced full swap couples. We do full swap with the two couples we see semi-regularly, and both did the times we each played separately. With the couples, we do have to travel to meet and usually spent enough time together for a few sessions. Nobody has ever mentioned any concern when one round isn't completely reciprocal.
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1 pointI feel like this hits the nail on the head, a guy has a fantasy and cannot fathom a reason his wife doesn't share it. So when she says no he assumes she is either telling a lie or has not met the right woman. He then either badgers her till she tries it to silence him or he tries to force the scenario without her knowledge creating an uncomfortable situation for both women. It's blind and willful ignorance.
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1 pointI enjoy giving blowjobs quit a bit and I like giving till he pops, but I definitely expect some reciprocation. If it's his preference, I will often finish guys off with my mouth.
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1 pointOlder men love that I am Not Shaved
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1 pointSigh . . . I totally agree with your first paragraph. But you go off the rails in the second paragraph, in my opinion. Swinging is when a married couple partake in the LifeStyle together. The most usual type is the foursome, where two couples swap partner. Moresomes and orgies, etc., also fit in the definition of swinging as long as both the wife and husband are having sex with others at the same time. Hotwifing is where the wife has sex with the knowledge and approval of the husband, but the husband does not have sex with others. So Hotwifing is not swinging, but it is another subset of the LifeStyle.
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1 pointI prefer a man that keeps his yard nice and tidy. When I get a guy with a nice clean manscaping, I give them a lot more lip service.???
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1 pointWomen having sex with each other is one of the most common fantasies for men. Forcing a woman to do anything, especially sex, is dead wrong -- but I think we all can fully understand the desire of a man to see his woman engaged in hot sex with another hot woman.
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1 pointI am not bisexual even if I had some bisexual play. I wasn’t forced by my husband even though I had no desire to ever be sexually involved with any woman. After spending a Wonderful first swap experience the next day did not go as wonderfully as the night before. My new lover was anything but the wonderful man he was the night before. In separate rooms the night before I was now being fucked in front of my husband and he was having sex in front of me. Not being one to ruin our time with the other couple I went along with what was happening. The other wife was urged to kiss me by her husband. I knew this was their first swap too and didn’t know what the right thing to do was. I went along with the kissing know we were being watched. My husband seemed to be quiet and just watched. The kissing led to her touching and then lowering her head to do more. When she lowered herself over my mouth I got sick to my stomach. My husband didn’t force the situation and he didn’t stop it either.
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1 pointMany men are turned on by bi women. Probably more than there are biwomen. I think a lot of women in the life style are more bi performers than bi sexual. People should do things voluntarily and not be coerced.
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1 pointIf women are promiscuous, they are called a slut. Men are called studs. I praise women who celebrate their sexuality. They are fully embracing life. No shame about it. Go for it!
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1 pointProbably three quarters of women today have had sex with two different men within 24 hours. An MFM is the next step, and any kind of DP is a small step beyond that.
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1 pointGreat job you badgered her into not wanting to fulfill her fantasy. I'm gonna come right out and say it, you fucked up. You had a rule, you do not fuck the girl. But then you beg to fuck the girl. So she feels guilty and gives in. But she knew herself when she created the rule. She said no sex between you and the girl because she would be jealous and you would treat the new girl better than her. And thats exactly what happened. You straight up screwed up. If you keep pushing this you will just be pushing her farther away from this. You either let her have alone time with the girl, no shows no sex but you have the fantasy, and maybe you eventually get the shows back. Or you let it go and she doesn't date women just you.
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1 pointThe first time I heard the expression Toss a Salad I almost tossed my lunch. I was in high school and thought it strange anyone would do that. I wasn’t very comfortable with anyone touch my butt let alone putting their mouth there. I smacked the guy who first touched me there. Then in college I was with a guy who would always joke about my ass. I told him to leave my butt alone and don’t even think of putting anything there. When we would sleep together he started to touch me there during oral. One night while we were having sex, he stopped and started to go down. It was something he would do I think to slow himself down. I was on my knees and I felt something strange. At first I couldn’t figure what he was doing. At first it felt like he was licking between my butt and puss then I figured it out. He was licking all over. It was the first time for me. To this day I never did it to anyone.
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1 pointI did a photo-shoot... I let the photographer... was that bad?
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1 pointMy hubby and I have been into anal sex for some years, and being very oral, we love a good all licking. I have been into anal sucking and licking since I was in college. Dave is the best as his 4 inch tongue can reach my puckered hole without difficulty and I melt from my ability to suck a guy's ass if he has a hard and tanned ass. I beg to have guys let me suck their asses. It's what I like.
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1 pointI love someone behind me
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1 pointI have a triangle. Hubby loves it that way. He hates a jungle though... So he actually enjoys keeping it it neat and trimmed for me. I enjoy that he takes the initiative as I know then it's just the way he wants. I am not sure what others think about a triangle but hubby loves it on me and I think that's all that matters.
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