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Being in the ls we don’t care about your number. If your down to swing then let’s swing and have a good old time. The only thing we are going to ask is are you clean and hard drug free also sober enough to make for consent. We are all hear for sex and having fun. If a number turns ya off in the lifestyle then your asking the wrong question.

Notice to "Sluts": For every man who disdains you, there are five guys who want to eat your pussy.

So becoming a sex expert either takes a bunch of different partners or just one really devoted training partner (and lots of lotion and lube to help with all the friction involved). If you want to be the best, you have to put in the effort! Finally: Anyone really asking where the number is going to make a difference to how they think of you isn't worth knowing.

We enjoy meeting new people, there is an excitement of the new experience. We have found it fun to entice a man or men to a hotel room and see what happens. Mike is always watching as I approach random men and ask them if they want fun. It’s not as easy as one might think as they think I want to get paid and even harder when they hear my husband wants to watch. There are several questions as to what we will do, will you suck my cock or can I fuck your ass are the normal questions. I find it funny that almost all will use those expressions. I always say no to anal. It’s also funny that they never ask for straight sex. Mike is not a cuckold, he doesn’t watch to be humiliated, he watches to see me enjoy. I never realized I have a ritual when I am about to do oral. From partially undressing the man, taking his dick out and then Mike says I inspect before finishing taking his pants off. Some men will then undress me others just lean back. I do enjoy our meetings and Mike enjoys watching me have fun. I learned many years ago how to relax and go deep down on most men. Some guys cum and it goes straight down but Mike likes when it makes me gag and comes out of my mouth or nose. I never know how the pick up will go from there. Some men just want to leave and others can’t wait to go again. Our best meetings are when our new meet up agrees to screw while I blow Mike, something that doesn’t always happen. Most are afraid to have Mile naked, like he would do something to them. To answer the second part of the question Mile is not interested in that at all.

Until the two of you can openly talk about what your fantasies are, then you are not ready to try and act out any of them. Love, trust, communication (I've said it a thousand times), you can't have too much of any of the three and the more you get of any one, the more the other two grow. Talk to him and be ready to lay some of your secrets out into the open (start small and work your way from there). Ask him how he would feel about a threesome...both MFM AND FMF. As far as jealousy goes, the more you communicate, the less jealous seems to enter the picture. It all starts with talking so get started. Let us know how things are going and good luck.

I absolutely love this idea. I've put in the effort lol.

I have never understood the amount of people in the lifestyle that are homophobic. I had one lady say they wouldn't play with a bi guy because she didn't want him checking out her man's butt ?. We know several LS couples where the guy is at least bi curious. But it's almost an instant "pass" for most other couples if you identify as bi or bi curious. While I am straight, I never say never. And with a couple of drinks and under the right circumstance.....who knows?

Um yeah. I agree. Don't do that I am of the opinion that you guys need to talk first..... sitting across from each other at the kitchen table type of talk. NOT pillow talk! To be really successful in an open relationship you both have to realize that you need to give up the last thing that you could have kept secret, your sexual fantasies as well as your reaction to them. Swinging can be the greatest thing the two of you can share. Or it can burn your marriage to the ground. In many cases it's the man who brings up the idea (not in our case lol) but there are tons of articles written about how to propose swinging to your partner.

With him not on board this will likely blow up in your face. You’re comfortable being with another man but not so okay with another woman. It’s a common double standard that works when couples have clearly communicated what will work for their dynamic. Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. My advice is to find some way to spice up your sex life with the two of you. The big C in swinging is communication. Also very helpful in everyday life. How would you feel if he tried to plan a threesome with another woman, especially as some kind of surprise?

Many men are turned on by bi women. Probably more than there are biwomen. I think a lot of women in the life style are more bi performers than bi sexual. People should do things voluntarily and not be coerced.