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It is a fantasy of ours to throw a 70s themed key party. We figured it was something we would do once we became empty nesters. But as soon as that happened - Bam. Covid.

I wouldn't over think it, men don't hide their impending orgasm very well. So I will have you where I want you to cum, or I'll give you specific instructions on where I want you to cum.

The fishbowl thing is pretty much a myth. I won't say it never happened, but it was very rare if it did. Why would women want to give up control of who their sex partner was? The orgies I heard about were pretty much as they are today, people got together, screwed who and when they decided to.

Interesting experiment, and a plausible conclusion. One small detail. Your introductory paragraph reported the researchers had used “real vaginas”. I believe you may have misread or miswritten. .”.. a variety of dildos, artificial vaginas, and a homemade semen recipe...” That noted, it might have been a more fun experiment with real vaginas. ??

Us (Lora, Claire and me in our poly family) too. That's why as our family added women (at first it was just me and the two guys) and we all entered our thirties we women had to add a boyfriend - two guys can no longer satisfy three women.

My take on this is in the definition, Cuckold is an old term, that refers to a man who has been cheated on. Cuckolding in recent years has become its own fettish, it involves a man who's wife cheats on him and uses it to humiliate him. The cuckold has no choice and may have given consent to the wife to treat him like this or may not have given consent at all and his wife is in complete control. Sometimes the Cuck no longer gets to have sex with his wife as she prefers others. In my mind it is too mean and cruel. A Hotwife is different, her husband gives permission for his wife to explore her sexuality and have sex with others, with the intention of giving the husband all the dirty details. As a Hotwife I do not ever degrade my husband I instead celebrate my sexuallity and share it with others and my husband.

I think it is a normal thought to wonder how you match up. Our first was with good friends. The wives are best friends and my wife approached me to join the friends who were already swingers. My first thought was why would she want to do this, was I not satisfying her? I even wondered if she had already joined them behind my back. I still wonder about that even if it most likely didn’t happen. When my wife was entered I secretly wanted it to be fast without her cumming. When that didn’t happen and I heard her being even louder I too was worried about my own play with her. Was I not giving her the best and now she was finally having great sex. I can’t say all men have self doubts or if anybody had the same feelings as me. I have since learned to enjoy her time with others. I hope she is having the greatest sex, not every man can be the best. If she is enjoying it better I am happy for her. I try not to compare my new partners to my wife as sex partners. As someone else once wrote, we do go to restaurants because the food tastes better there and we enjoy new things we can’t do at home.

I have never understood the amount of people in the lifestyle that are homophobic. I had one lady say they wouldn't play with a bi guy because she didn't want him checking out her man's butt ?. We know several LS couples where the guy is at least bi curious. But it's almost an instant "pass" for most other couples if you identify as bi or bi curious. While I am straight, I never say never. And with a couple of drinks and under the right circumstance.....who knows?

I think this pretty much shows why. They are really sexy

My ex-wife refused to allow me to screw her ass and because of my persistence she decided to teach me a lesson and screw mine instead with a strap on. I find out what it’s like to take it in the ass and she liked it so much she adopted strap on sex as part of our sexual repertoire. She never gave me the chance to reciprocate and I was always on the receiving end of her dildo.

Anal is amazing and I think if people got over the stigma of it and really just relaxed, they would find that its' quite enjoyable. My advice... go slow and use LOTS of lube. try to warm up with toys of increasing size and lubricate the inside of the bum, not just the thing going in. As subtle and small as fingernails are, they can hurt.

I want all y'all to know that Swingersboard also has a glossary (called dictionary here).

Tonight's outfit. It's "Daisy Dukes & Cowboy Boots" night... I'm kinda going "around" the theme and I'm going to wear sandals with a heel, rather than boots. It's just too hot here for boots, plus my brown boots don't match that top.