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I went from no interest or curiosity to full bi in one night. It was a complete surprise to me when a friend just went for it during a sleepover at a hotel that wasn’t planned, with a male friend of hers. To this day I can’t believe I allowed the contact and that I ended up spreading my legs allowing her more access. Did I miss the the curious part or should I be grateful that I never went through the anxiety? I have mentioned many times that the experience has really changed my life 100%.

A woman is curious until she plays with a woman. I’m not talking about kissing, I’m talking doing something sexual. When she does it a second time because she wants to, not forced by her husband or boyfriend she loses the curious label. A woman who loses her virginity is no longer a virgin, you don’t refer to her as sexually curious, she is officially sexual.

As we play mainly with friends we hardly use condoms. I, the male, am not a fan. One night we were with couples and it was everyone was using condoms. Not to kill the night, I used them too. After the evening, I complained to my wife about it and she asked me if does it make a big deal. She said she couldn't tell the difference. I asked what about stopping, opening and putting on a condom was not really fun and besides it felt different for me. Honestly I always thought she could feel me shoot. Maybe I am naive

The wife and I have always talked about another person in the bedroom. key word talked. A short time ago I had mentioned that maybe it is time to pursue this idea. To my surprise she said sure. Now this is our idea. Has anybody ever started out with strippers? I feel this is possibly the easiest way to find out if both parties involved are going to be able to handle the situation. I'm hoping to get a private show for her and sit back and see how it affects me. I've already said that I'm probably not ready for her to jump right on and give it hell, but a more aggressive touch session is what I'm thinking. Has anyone ever explored this idea and how did it go? Also, if anyone has done this out in Vegas, what agency did you use? We are planning to be out in Vegas in October and want to start looking for an agency.

I meant holding on tight to each other, like the bottom guy holding or bracing me at the waist while the top guy has to hold tight on me or the bottom guy's back for support. We all ended up sweaty but it worked better than doing it standing up prior to that, due to the height differences.

Oh so you got jokes? Ok I see you, funny.

Id start with thre and work your way up.

Reverse cowgirl seems a little easier but cowgirl works for us as well.

We’ve done several gangbangs although not one that was organized in advance. We have a favorite club in Amsterdam and it just takes a life of its own when there. The club locale seems to help keep control of the situation a bit more than in a private place. We will do again as soon as we can. One particular smile for Mr V was this - after having finished up a multiple guy session and taking a short break, we were hanging around the bar. A gentlemen walks up, says ‘Hi, how are you two?’ Mrs. V, without missing a beat, says ‘Do you want to fuck me?”. Damn. Of course the answer was yes and off we went. Mr V has not participated but is very open should the option present itself.

I've done a couple, one went horrible and two went ok. I won't repeat it. I'd recomend starting with a mini gang bang before going all out, just to test the waters. It is a lot happening all at once and can be overwhelming, at least it was for me. The level of Communication and control that I need kinda flies out the door when you got 5+ naked guys ready to go. The room can loss control pretty fast as they are all feeding off each others testosterone and bravado. I actually cried uncontrollably after my first one which brought the mood of the room down really fast.

I would join one, and I would also like my wife to be the center of one. As of yet we haven't actually done a real gangbang. We have done a lot of MFM but I think there must be a difference between a threesome and a gangbang although I don't know exactly how many guys are required for a gangbang. Having one was actually a topic of conversation for us just before covid hit. It's a bucket list item for me and for a while there my wife was open to the idea. Hoping to get that conversation started again.

It doesn’t make much of a difference to me. I can understand those that say it could be a mood breaker, I try to make it part of the fun if we are using one. I can’t feel it during sex unless it’s oral sex of course. Yuk I hate the taste lol. I am pretty sure I can tell when he ejaculates if he doesn’t wear one and pretty sure I know even when he isn't wearing one, the breathing and noises they make are a give away. I have experienced guys who have had condoms slip off and I didn’t know until they were finished. I think I could understand guys might have a different feeling using a condom, more so after they cum.

We prefer cow girl. Tried reveresed one time, but the guy in the ass just keep sliding out, so we soon went back to "regular" position. We once tested me sponing my wife in the ass, she had one leg up in the air, and the other guy fucked the pussy from on top/side some way.. . That was just tricky and no point of doing it that way. So for us it's the women on top of one guy with his cock in her pussy, the other guy in her ass from behind, that works best for everybody.

I love the taste of pussy, but not so much after there has been a condom in it.

He is a very lucky man and you a lucky woman.

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IMO a person who is attracted to both sexes is bi sexual whether they have been with their own gender or not. Your sexuality is about who you are attracted to not who or what you have done. I was straight before I ever had sex with a woman and I am straight now. My missus was bi sexual before she ever had sex with another woman and she still is. All these terms like bi curious and bi situational are nothing, but confusing and annoying when it comes to finding people that are compatible in the lifestyle. On top of that so many people are just dishonest in their description on profiles you don’t know who to believe and who not to believe. We have found that many of the women that are listed usually by their hopeful husband as bi are indeed not and many of the men that list themselves as straight are indeed bi. We wish people would just be honest and save us wasting our time on people that are not what we are looking for.

Jessica sweat it not. People are starting to get to know you. In any community there is always a getting acquainted curve. When someone has a .... (looking for word) ... out there presence then that curve can get a bit bumpy. Of all the posts that I read, and there WERE quite a few, there was not one that was off topic or not interesting.

So I had met a guy in my vanilla life that I had a huge crush on. He was hot, and confident, and really nice. I had been crushing on him hard for about a year and a half, before I was presented an opportunity to do something about it. That was my most erotic instance, I had been fantasizing about this man and wanted him soooo bad, when the time came I was extremely over the top turned on. To this day he was my favorite fuck.

I had always thought of myself as straight and then in my 40's. I started thinking that some erections were sexy. I had dreams that I was sucking one. I'd wake up fully erect. During one of those dreams, my girl friend said that I was going wild and wanted to know what I was dreaming. I told her. She was so excited and we made plans for the first time I would do it and she would watch. She wanted to pick the guy. I told her that he had to have an attractive penis. She got hot with my description of what I need in a penis. Three nights later it happened. I was just looking at the man's dick as he got undressed my girl friend was on the sofa stripped and giving me words of encouragement. I slid down off the corner of the bed and took his beautiful 6 inch dick in my hand. I was nervous. This was really going to happen. I ran my lips and tongue on the under side. Then I got a wiff of his nuts and I new I was going to be doing this more than once. I will never forget how it felt parting my lips the first time and the stroking in my mouth and throat. I found out that I am good at deepthroating. My girlfriend got off the sofa to get me undressed. She was glad to see that I was fully erect. She wanted to see us 69. I was surprised how much I liked it. We both came in the back of our throats and he left soon after. My girlfriend wanted me to enjoy the experience with out her participating. But after that time, we would share. I am addicted to good looking dick. I'm bi now.

I will give a blowjob to completion and swallow, but much prefer to orgasm with a dick in my pussy (being licked is good foreplay and postplay) and having those swimmers in my vagina, as a souvenir to live in me for several days.

Does your question relate to my performing oral sex on a woman? Or are you asking, rather, whether or not I would perform oral sex on a man?

It’s great when a man answers for a woman, just kidding. My first sexual experience was a blow job to completion most likely with a hand on my head. I was afraid to move and afraid of something getting on my clothes. I don’t remember gagging or choking, I just swallowed and felt like I was now a grown woman and I pleased an older guy. My pleasure was not physical and no orgasm happened for me and I was saved from what I heard might be a painful first time. I had heard there was a porn star that had orgasms from giving blow jobs, Linda Lovelace didn’t really have a clit in her throat, it was just a story. Am I okay today giving a blow job and not getting anything physical in return, it depends. I know my husband enjoys watching me give a blow job and if my partner wants I will give him a great finish. What I prefer is oral leading to much more. If it is mutual oral and my partner is good at it, it could be just as good as full sex.

This is only my opinion: It would seem that as long as she wants to claim it.

Mrs. Alura's sexiest remark came when we were trying to impregnate her. At our climax, she grabbed my butt, pulled me as deep as she could, and whispered, "Stuff me full of little people, Darling." We only found one big cock (9.5"-Laura measured it) in our swinging years. Swapped partners were warming up on our sectional. Laura took Rick's penis our of her mouth and said, "Are you really going to fuck me with this thing?" In a few minutes she was expressing more vocal opinions than she ever had. She still felt "big cocks don't matter" but decided one would be fun occasionally. Unfortunately, we didn't have another experience with Rick and Jo.

The whole exclamation issue ended for us when two things happened. First the last of the kids moved out. Second while discussing the new noise level we started to talk about why anyone hearing it was an issue. We discovered that "being discovered" somehow tied into a deep seated piece of trash learned early on that sex was somehow dirty and embarrassing. Neither of us had ever thought about it that way consciously. We were manifesting things picked up from the time when we were just out of diapers and on. Learned just from observing. Little things like the level of PDA's among our parents, mostly chaste kisses when they thought no one was looking. Conversations "not fit for mixed company". And other things that inferred a lack of comfort about expressions of this sort in any place that we could witness. We knew logically that the love and the sex was there. Both sets of marriages produced families that were large enough and marriages that lasted until death. At any rate we talked, and talked and little by little my wife started to be more vocal yet. Finally she just let loose and regardless of who might hear. She just lets whatever comes from her mouth come out. It is a joy to behold and hear. It is especially fun when we are in separate rooms. I have had more that one lady ask me "What is THAT?" The answer is always "It just means your husband was up to the task." From that experience I offer this. Do not over think your responses. Just let them out. If there is anything inhibiting you find it and vanquish it. You and he will probably enjoy it more if the sounds progress from your nerves and body chemistry directly to your lungs and vocal chords without passing through your frontal lobes on the way.

Holy shit that's so hot!

Testicles are just such magic to me; all that man junk is on the outside. I just like to gently feel them and how it's all connected in the sack.

Small potatoes make the steak look bigger....Just sayin’

I like them on the smaller side and very tight, big hangers dont do much for me visually. If I am fucking, I like they way a big set feel against my ass when he is all the way inside me.

This is the correct answer here. Who cares what you call it.

Having done it a couple of times with my wife and our close male friend, I can say it was a lot of fun for all three of us. If you are having sex, do what you enjoy and don't spend your time worrying about what others are thinking. Just remember that the mere fact that you are fine with and enjoy non-monogamous sex just for the fun of it means you are doing something a majority of the population does not approve of.

It is not gay. It is pure fun for all 3 parties involved. An the tightness of 2 penises inside the same pussy can get you to explode like never before if you just relax and take in the moment.

I vote not gay as well, with two males 'entertaining' a woman at the same time their cocks are bound to touch at some stage.

It's not "gay" at all, JoshuaKing. It's all about the lady, not the men. from Oklahoma!

My wife definitely feels the difference between bare and wrapped and she doesn't like the latter. When I've been with other people (she's bi but doesn't play) she won't have intercourse with me for at least ten days "just in case." She enjoys being penetrated, but only with bare on bare. Like Mrs. Doc, condoms dry her out, even with lube.

If your selection process is effective, condoms are unnecessary. We do use condoms at clubs where the play is kind of random and hence a bit more risky but neither of us like them. Mrs Doc dries with condoms and the sex eventually becomes uncomfortable for her which kind of offsets the last longer benefit.

I think most agree that there isn't a major difference. I think one major difference is spontaneity. Not that it is a big mood changer. I just don't like doing oral to a condom. I am not a gagger but I hate the taste and smell of a condom. I also can tell the difference here.

For the most part I can't tell the difference, I would say the initial entry feels better to me without a condom, about 30 seconds in I couldn't tell either way. I guess like every other guy (pretty much) Jon prefers no condoms.

I can't feel a difference.

I honestly can't tell a difference. And oddly, I prefer condoms. There is something, I have no idea what, but there is something incredibly erotic for me about condoms. Although we don't use them all the time vaginally, I require them for anal and for when we are with our other couple.

I hate condoms. They are a necessary evil if pregnancy or STDs are a concern, though. Still clean, after all these years.

I don't feel much of a difference except that I usually need to apply some lube half way through with condoms. I am usually a bit drier later on because of the pill. But I do enjoy warm cum dripping out of me. My husband, probably like most men, is not fond of condoms. It's getting to be more of a problem as he gets older because the sensitivity is not there with condom and he'd have difficulty reaching orgasm.

I never feel a difference whether he is wearing a condom or not while he is thrusting or I am riding. If he ejaculates without a condom, then of course I do feel the warm cum as it drips out. Personally, foregoing the feeling of cum is not a big deal for me.

I can't say there is a major difference to me. The feeling if he is stroking or I am on top is the same if he does or doesn't have one. If he cums I think I sometimes feel it but mainly I think I feel a warmth or something dripping down me. For anal sex a highly lubed condom I think is easier for both of us and I rather not have someone cum back there. Tell your husband that it's not that much different either way. I know my husband agrees with yours that it isn't the same for him.

While some people do think this is a good way to break the ice, I agree with the statement above, it's not really a good test since it is missing some of the major components of swinging with real people. I don't necessarily think it is any major error to give it a try, but I'm not sure that it really answers anything if and when the day eventually comes when you do it for real. I think you will find the two situations are totally different both physically and emotionally.

Avgjoe, actually, I think this sounds like a common route for some couples. If you look in the forums, there are a few members here who have gone to strip clubs as a couple, enjoyed the show and perhaps a private dance for either the wife or husband to test if there was any jealousy. Obviously, some come away with a steamy experience...and maybe some don't depending on how their emotions go. However, some couples might come to the conclusion that it isn't quite the test they wanted since it is the stripper's job to act interested in you two. As for doing this in Las Vegas, I have heard of couples going to the Green Door and the Olympic Gardens.

It's lovely to see so many nice couples who are willing to enjoy the full sensual and sexual potential between couples. Our favorite is everyone on one bed exploring many avenues toward pleasure. It is so liberating to know that there will be no freaking out if a cock finds a male mouth or feminine lips find a wet pussy. We have a massage table and find a six hand massage one of the best ways to break the ice and to get to touch the victim in a comprehensive way before jumping into penetration. It's great foreplay. For the one who is getting the six hand treatment the pleasure is divine! It offers a fine way to become familiar with the physical body and touch of the same sex. For those playing for the first time with the same sex it is a safe and gently lubricated stroke of discovery. We are in northern Vermont and welcome travelers to the northeast.

I dont think it is possible to remain bi-CURIOUS after you have actually had a bi experience. That seems to refer more to the fantasy stage. However I think a lot of women (and some men) are more bi-open than actually bisexual. Able to be sexual with someone of the same sex in certain situations but not living an actual lifestyle of bisexuality. I would guess that those women make up the vast majority of females in swinging, but maybe they are just using bi-curious to describe it