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I find it interesting how some have answered the OPs question with harsh "no way!" type answers regarding a man performing oral on another man. It is interesting how it is almost expected the women perform oral on another woman but NO WAY a man could do the same to another man. I wonder if the stigma of 'guy guy contact' will ever fade. I understand how some women who performed oral on another woman and respond with 'wasn't my thing' or 'eh, could take it or leave it'. But the mere mention of a guy doing it is repulsive, insulting, etc. Strange. Is it a masculine thing to have such a harsh reaction to the mention of guys touching another guy? I know guys who are adamant that 'there will be NO contact between the males, even incidental'. I'm not bi. I'm not gay. I don't find men attractive at all. Yet I don't respond with vitriolic hatred when the topic is touched upon.

Each man is different and I respect that. Like in my other comment in a DP post, the 2 guys I did it with are comfy with their skins touching as they sandwiched me. I'm not sure if they would go that far in this 3-way 69...but if they do, that would be more fun for me! ?

An uncommon scenario to be sure but we have been dabbling in the lifestyle for a few years. Not much in 2020 for multiple reasons. As we have met mostly couples and a few single guys, we have found that she likes the attention when in MFM but has only had sex with Mr. Shy and wants to keep it that way. Also she can be a little jealous if he gives too much attention to other ladies. This works out pretty well since I enjoy seeing her get off, drive men wild, and be as slutty as she dares. Probably the hottest thing we tried along these lines was a mini blow bang with 3 other guys. Crazy hot. All the guys left smiles on their faces and their cum on her tits. Would like to explore more of this without crossing the line to full sex unless she decides that she is ready. Anybody done this? Thoughts? Suggestions? Anecdotes?

I have said many times that I don't understand the homophobia in the LS. For a group that is supposed to be pretty broad minded I'm always surprised at the reaction if the male half happens to identify as bi-curious. Not just saying no but a complete revulsion of even touching. While I'm straight, under the right situation with the right person and after a couple of drinks I'm not sure how I would react but it would not be with any revulsion. As I have said we have several LS friends that the male has privately said that they feel the same way as I do. But would not share that information with everyone.

MrMrsswinger - my question wasn't meant to bring up such reactions. I was just curious whether those men who had tried oral on another man were a 'one and done' or thought 'not bad' and continued to incorporate it going forward (if the opportunity presented itself). I'm like you, I don't find guy guy contact to be repulsive, it just isn't a strong desire for me. We started in this lifestyle to explore, experience new things. We've found some things we really like and some things we don't. Maybe I'm the strange one but nothing really causes a harsh reaction in me. I was out with a couple buddies and their girlfriends in San Francisco a few years back. We were at a dance club having a good time. I'm extremely familiar with all the clubs in San Francisco, and the clientele each attracts. Anyway, I dance rather poorly so I was leaning on the bar watching, enjoying my drink. A guy came up to me and asked 'do you come here often?' My response was 'come on man, you have to have a better line than that if you want a stud like me'. He laughed. We laughed. All good. It was pretty funny. We chatted about some better lines to use in the future. When I mentioned this story to a few friends over the years nearly all of them responded with 'I would have punched the guy!' Really?? Why are guys so crazy about this?

Noooooo, WOMAN RULE 2: Vaginas are magic and mystical and the men must never be allowed to understand their powers to stretch, squeeze and return MAGICALLY back to normal. Its in the rules sister sssshhhhhh. They can never know!

My daughters are both with my husband. Im on birth control when I play, so I've never tried to have another guys baby.

Fortunately, we don't have to use them. I can definitely feel the difference, can certainly tell when a guy ejaculates, and love having cum in me. I like licking it out of Clair's and Lora's pussies too.

That's what we've found as well.

I have been surprised that after having children pass that way that the stretch hasn't loosened me up. Probably has to do with the muscles being in good tone, not the coochie itself.

Oh so you got jokes? Ok I see you, funny.

We prefer cow girl. Tried reveresed one time, but the guy in the ass just keep sliding out, so we soon went back to "regular" position. We once tested me sponing my wife in the ass, she had one leg up in the air, and the other guy fucked the pussy from on top/side some way.. . That was just tricky and no point of doing it that way. So for us it's the women on top of one guy with his cock in her pussy, the other guy in her ass from behind, that works best for everybody.

It is interesting to see the variability of times in this thread, spanning about 18 years! It is funny how much things have changed within this time period. There is certainly a huge effort to address these different identities in a public way now. Like JJ has said, there are so many different variables affecting a person at any one time; maybe the only utility in identifying as anything is to be clear when it comes to being sought by others. I think the states are becoming more secular all the time, and with that transition stigmas will only continue to diminish. I don't think people have any way to know how they will be from one moment to the next honestly.

At some point someone will Google tmjd and oral and end up here. ?

This is definitely not a new concept, I worked in a strip club for almost 12 years first as a shot girl and then as a dancer and I have had so many couples hoping to see if a FMF threesum is a good fit. I will say since female nudity is generally allowed, and even viewed as a positive, in a strip club I always did much more with a woman in the VIP than I could with a guy. So she needs to be clear about her request, cause if she seems into it, popping a boob out and giving it some attention may be considered a commonly performed part of the show, and if she had on a skirt, well lets just say I have left the vip wearing the wife's panties a few times so shit can get pretty real back there. SO TO THE GUYS... If all you want is a lap dance be clear about that. Every stripper knows paying attention to a female guest means more tips from you, as well as, everyone else who sees it, cause its the fantasy of almost every guy in the building. As to how effective it was for the couple, I think it is probably mixed. If the wife wasn't into it then it was probably an awkward scenario, for the wife's that got into it, it probably reaffirmed the desire. I know I got a lot of proposals to take this back to their house. Many even offered money to make it happen.

Same for me I like a little on the smaller side visually. Definitely a balls girl.

Someone mentioned flogging. This is going to be a bit wild for most of you. I have seen it on video but I have also witnessed it in person. It was at a private dungeon party I was invited to – about 2 dozen people at a private dungeon setup in a rural barn type building. A woman was tied spread eagled (actually standing and towards the middle of the space and they used leather cuffs, not rope). A man started flogging her. I would say the flogger was pretty expensive, it had long soft leather tines and a medium weight to it. He was good, he had an easy fluid motion and he hit what he aimed at. He started on her back, ass and legs. Not too hard, but firmly and increasing a little as she quickly warmed up. She was very obviously enjoying it and had become the center of attention in the room. He seemed to be very caring about it, strange as it sounds. Then he moved round in front of her and started flogging her breasts. She really liked that and made it very clear. It was oddly beautiful and sensual. After a few minutes he brought the flogger up between her legs and hit her pussy. She gasped and moaned but did not complain. Soon he did it again and then again and ended up concentrating on her pussy in a steady rhythmic pace. She was getting very excited and calling for him to do it harder….. and harder! He obliged and was eventually flogging her what seemed to me to be quite hard, but still in the same steady rhythmic pace. She eventual had the most incredible orgasm, at which point he dropped the flogger and held her lovingly while she came. It was a real eye opener for me and as I said, actually it was strangely erotic, beautiful and very sensual – and incredible hot! But what really surprised me is that several other women immediately volunteered for the same treatment!! (And they received it and enjoyed it immensely – I talked to a couple of them about it.) There you have it – it is what it is.

Thank you for posting this, there are so many misconceptions about BDSM relationships, I’ve been to house parties that have a specific BDSM theme, but overall not at general parties.