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home laser? just don't do it with any cats around...they go crazy chasing after lasers!!

It's been the same from the beginning until now. After sex with a man or a woman, whether I've been dominating or dominated, I have feelings of confidence and power. Watching hubby with another woman makes me jealous, inadequate, a little mad at myself even, but afterwards it's all "Can't wait to do that again!" (And to fuck him myself.) The guys are interested in watching me (or Lora or Clair) before they orgasm, but after a guy cums he pretty much loses interest for a little while regardless of what else is going on ("have fun, Pet.")

Reading Mr & Mrs Naughty's thread regarding Single men and profiles got me to thinking that maybe it would be a good idea to have a thread where single guys can post a link to their SLS profile (or other external profiles/ personal ads on other sites) and let the couples who are interested in single guys review said profiles to give them an idea of how to make it better and more appealing to said couples. So single guys, here's your opportunity, post your link. And couples, be honest and let them know what you think.

I’ve seen this term referred to before and wondered if it’s common .. it refers to the feeing immediately after an encounter , like threesomes or group or even full swap . Perhaps not immediately after but can be a few hours or even days after ? Feelings of anger , guilt , shame have all been reported. I do know that the first time we did threesome with another man , Marilyn felt down about it . Took a bit of time but she got over that and now looking forwards to a new liaison with a new man we have been chatting with but she worries if she feels the same down feelings afterwards again . Any tips on dealing with them ?? I should add that I suffered no such feelings ..

I doubt it is important that you can. The point is that you can recognize that it was. The whole definition thing can get too hung up on the particular at the expense of the conceptual. It is a forest and trees scenario.

Looking back on my relatively strict and well-indoctrinated Catholic upbringing, I am amazed how many aspects of sex were considered immoral.

We play with a single male. We are swinging . He is not swinging as there is no consensual non monogamy on his part. All three of us are in the LS. I would include those in serious committed relationships as "married". I would not include those couples just hooking up. This distinction between LS an Swinging is more for clarity than anything else. It is good to know the general backdrop of any encounter.

I just tell them sorry, I'm not feeling good this weekend, maybe next week. It's not a lie, my cramps fucking suck. In the end you don't owe them an excuse, if its not a good time its not a good time. We all have lives.

With all the at home time, no travel to and from work time, no rushing home to cook dinner, we caught plenty of Netflix and Prime and the explored streaming Pornhub. It’s not that we never watched porn before, it’s just we started exploring categories we would usually stay away from. We watched some that neither of us cared to watch more of. Other things interested us more bringing us to explore our own fun and some were funny to us. The more we watched the less we liked the produced porn, people don’t act like that. And then we explored real people clips and realized that could be us.

We think you hit the nail on the head. We have similar tastes and play experiences with single males and females. They tend to have a pretty good time and we usually get call backs to enjoy adult play again. If the males have great skill sets and become friends, we introduce them to other singles and couples. We have even traveled with them. We are all adults here and the single males know that they get to have satisfying sex with no commitment or costs. It's a win win for a couple and the DWAP (Dildo With A Pulse).

Why.. is there something special happening in April? Hmmm wonder what that could possibly be lol. ?????

The mind is complex. Never know what will come up.

It is deviant. It deviates from social norms and those who want to control you. But as you say, so long as it is mutually consensual and not hurting anyone, it is moral. It is even obligatory if you want to live a full and adventurous life. As a woman who started non-monogamy by having a two boyfriends, both knowing and monogamous with me, one of whom became my husband, it gave me a sense of power and confidence that improved the rest of my life, especially as a young professional. With my consent (more than consent, it was my idea) and under my control, finding women for my husband to have sex with, becoming bi, inviting one then another into our family, having hubby make children with them, me having a child with my boyfriend, were all deviant (my father has told me I'm a whore and doesn't speak to me) but these are our choices, my choices which have made my life infinitely more fulfilling than most.

Sex can be so totally different, depending. It can be brutal, a crime, a favor, a treat, love. Women have the ability to be positive in dispensing sex in ways that men cannot. Women give children. You are more than an angel because you are not only a spirit, but corporeal as well. "The angels, not half so happy in Heaven, Went envying her and me..."

You are an angel.

Wow, I wish I bumped into you while I was in college. I spent every birthday and New Year's alone back then. I was probably a "nerdy" guy But I digress.... I've been known to buy lunch, dinner and coffee for cops when I see them. For anyone who has ever worn a uniform, especially in a big city that hates police, these small gestures go a long way. Imagine going from a domestic call when the husband is gone, wife beat unrecognizable, then off to a traffic stop where the driver spits at you as soon as you're in range, to a brawl at a night club where the participants decide to attack you upon arrival, to a traffic accident where someone is dying in front of you...having someone buy you a Subway sandwich or burger breaks up the night. And years ago when layaway was big I used to randomly pay off bills.

We have had an open marriage or what I call a don’t ask, don’t tell marriage. We both knew the other played. We now have a let’s talk after marriage. When she plays alone she tells me details. She specifically meets married cheating men and the stories she has are hysterical. Once after hearing what a great time she had, sexually, I asked when she was meeting him again, she said Never. She too doesn’t want anything that can turn into a relationship.

That's what we've found as well.

Shortly after we moved to Florida (summer 2006) we were contacted by a couple on sls. The age was right and they lived close by. The husband even opened their private pictures. Turns out that their definition of h/w/p was way different from ours so we replied that we weren't a match and wished them well. I then received a number of additional emails that got progressively more obscene and confrontational. The last one described the front of our home and our Bassett hound and he stated that my wife was fat and he'd maybe stop by one day just to meet her. I replied that we usually had 3-somes, me, Mrs Doc and our good friend Mr Glock. I told him he was welcome to stop by anytime, Mr Glock would welcome him. Then I blocked him. This was the photo in which he described Mrs Doc as a fat bitch. Go figure!!

Laura and I spend more time sunning in the nude at our pool, and yes a few neighbors that we know check us out, which having been Nudists most of our lives, is no big deal, but we love the attention we get, especially Laura and her all over tan with pierced nipples and clit. Our neighbors Barb and Stan seem interested in seeing us nude more often, we catch them with their cell phones on us, which turns us on. Barb approached me and said that my cock was the darkest and biggest she has seen and we got together with them and the party was on. Dave and Laura vegasnudecouple

Ok lets see if I can say this right I have no attraction to other guys at all. But when it comes to playing what happens happens. I have handled another man's cock, spitting on it and putting it in her pussy, and I have sucked her clit while she was being fucked (we all loved that) . But so far I have never sucked or been sucked by another man. She had a previous boyfriend that sucked other guys' cocks for her and she thought is was hot as hell. She also likes the idea of guy guy action. But for us it's not something we have looked for or had happen yet. Now my main concern when playing is the pleasure of the lady so who knows what our future has in store for us.