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I think from a stamina level two guys for three women is a bad ratio. It is the reason I do not care for FFM 3sums. Unless the guy is a serious stud, like you find in porn, he isn't gonna be able to hold off his orgasm till both women orgasm, so one of us is stuck with a tongue. For me the Sapphic stuff is fun but its a warm up, its foreplay, at some point I want the Dick. But I have a friend and she is completely happy to be licked, sucked, and fingered, once she has cum she is just happy, while I'm trying to decide who's fucking me in the shower. I guess different people like different things.

Well your guy brain is mistaken. Cause the vagina is covered.

It also sounds like a good way to get an eye full of Cum which is why I started sucking them down in the beginning lol. I never worried about trying to get him to cum outside and the negative outcomes since I prefer it in me and not on me. Guys like it even better when I make a show of rolling their semen around in my mouth and displaying it on my tongue before the big swallow. That never appealed to me, the injecting of semen right down my throat. I've done it a couple of times, but no more (see above).

She has always been a swallower and knows just how to apply the perfect sucking pressure to the finish. I was surprised one night when she knew I was about to cum that she took her mouth off and pumped me into her mouth. It seems that a man she met enjoyed that and she thought I would too.

A Visual may be a big part of your process, as said before everyone has their own excitement. You want to see men give your wife a facial, what does she want? Maybe she wants the visual of the man giving you a facial. Though Mike and I are both there for sexual excitement he first wants me to have fun. His excitement partially comes from me having fun with a partner. It is me who decides if I want to swallow, as a matter of fact he has told me he enjoys when I do. Just to let you know in case you don’t know, swallowing a man does not lead to making babies. ?

Thanks for your suggestions. Don't worry, we remind the guys every day how lucky they are to have us in their lives. But we recognize as well our good fortune in having two really hard-working, intelligent guys to father our children and take good care of us. And we recognize that as just part of human nature and human history, it was usually men that had plural marriages, not the women. We women are lucky to have men that unjealously allow us to seek love and sex between the two of them. Lora and I spoke to hubby and Red about how us girls would like/need more sexual attention. They know all three of us are multi-orgasmic, and while in the past they could go two or three times in a session, especially when switching to another woman, it's now sort of one-and-done. They'll do oral on us, but hell, we can do that ourselves. One of the things we've agreed to is once again set aside Saturday nights for sex with the guys and two of the women (the third can watch the children). Our past Saturday evenings reserved for sexual play were some of the best, crazy sex, loving nights we ever had among the three (Red, hubby & me), four (when Clair came along), and five (when Lora joined our group) we've ever had. The guys agreed to cut back on the gym/track on Friday and none on Saturday. During the week they will be more conscientious. In theory the women having one or more new men to share would be great and acceptable to the guys, but finding someone who meets all of our requirements (whatever those are) and be safe, safe, safe would be hard.

Are the guys hitting the gym and staying in shape? Seriously, we seem to run into a lot of guys that have 'performance' issues and I would hazard a guess this was the number one cause. I would also say a bit of variety may help their libido as well? I mean right you would think having two or three women to choose from would do it but, I would certainly believe that they would still desire a total stranger, or somebody outside of the family group. We have a new partner and I am fired up for months with my wife. I am also talking about somebody outside our normal swing circle. I would be really curious if I am the only one? I know both of those things effect mine.