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I think the hostess is knitting a shawl with everyone’s names

This is true, but you also mention seeing this since high school. I suspect it has more to do with maturity level than gender.

I recommend the option of going to a club, watching and being watched for a first experience.

I agree. There is a guys night every so often where we get together for some poker. All the guys are between 32 and 48. Some talk like they're still in high school. Most don't. Those who do tend to talk about women with a rating attached. It definitely isn't the norm from what I've seen.

haha, I hadn't thought of it in that way, but that is exactly right - shoes may not do anything for me, but the next best thing to sex for her ?

What world do you live on? I've literally seen guys since high school rank girls by a number system. She's a 7 she's a 5 she's a nine, but she'd be a ten if her boobs were bigger. She's a 3, and I don't fuck 3s. I have heard every one of those statements. Just because you might not rate women doesn't mean guys don't rate women. It happens so often it is literally considered a cliche.

Feet do not do anything for me, but my husband will tell you my love of shoes does. ???????

I (Mr) don't really look for anything specific. A woman is attractive for many reasons, and it isn't just physical. A pretty face, a beautiful smile, a great laugh...all sexy. Yes, a hot body is wonderful, but not a deal breaker if the body isn't great. If a woman is willing to have a good time, doesn't bring drama, it's a fun time. Heck, there is no perfect body, and it is sad that women strive for something that doesn't exist. I'd be willing to bet women are more judgmental about looks than guys are in the lifestyle (oh my, I'll be attacked for that comment).

Yes please!!! I'll drink them all!

Kind Eyes and a nice smile. Then I look for the 6 pack abs! Yummy.

TRUTH! I can fit two dicks easy peasy lemon squeezy!

You don't actually believe that women wear them because they are comfortable?

Arithmetically speaking: our stance is two guys go into one girl much better than one guy going into 2 girls.

I think from a stamina level two guys for three women is a bad ratio. It is the reason I do not care for FFM 3sums. Unless the guy is a serious stud, like you find in porn, he isn't gonna be able to hold off his orgasm till both women orgasm, so one of us is stuck with a tongue. For me the Sapphic stuff is fun but its a warm up, its foreplay, at some point I want the Dick. But I have a friend and she is completely happy to be licked, sucked, and fingered, once she has cum she is just happy, while I'm trying to decide who's fucking me in the shower. I guess different people like different things.

At Idahocouple6969: That's our view as well. Our sex at home is fantastic. The reason we add another couple, couples, woman/man, etc is because we can't do certain things by ourselves. Yes, a toy is ok to try to emulate a threesome but adding a real life c&&^ is significantly different. Watching my wife giving iral to another female while getting done from behind isn't possible when it is just the two of us. Adding someone else brings a different dynamic to our sex. It is about enjoying the pleasure of this added dynamic. It isn't about feelings, it is about pleasure. Jealousy is a horrific thing in a relationship. If there is an inkling of it, adding people would blow the whole relationship up.

Gator, swinging is what you make of it; any particular encounter can be what the three or four or more of you want. I see your point about the threesome. I've been in many an MFM with my wife. But in any configuration, there are moments where two people are enjoying each other and the third is only mildly involved, or simply watching. I have fun watching my wife with other men, but I wouldn't call it 'personal.' In foursomes, again, it's what you choose it to be. Most of the time, yeah, it's usually two sets of one-on-one, but there are times when all four are together. Now that I haven't really answered your question . . .

Smile is the first impression, but the personality is more important than anything else.

That's easy. Her smile. It is the sexiest curve a woman has.