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I think since many of us are working from home we are sleeping with coworkers.

Our first experience contained more than our first swap, it was also the first time I had a bi experience. The couple that we met online, also a first, was thoughtful, considerate and I want to say we are lucky to have met them. It was the first time I ever had sex without kissing because with the pandemic we figured kissing would add extra risk. I think our first fun went without a hitch and I would thank our partners for making it fun.

We have had an open marriage or what I call a don’t ask, don’t tell marriage. We both knew the other played. We now have a let’s talk after marriage. When she plays alone she tells me details. She specifically meets married cheating men and the stories she has are hysterical. Once after hearing what a great time she had, sexually, I asked when she was meeting him again, she said Never. She too doesn’t want anything that can turn into a relationship.

Sleeping with a "co-worker" was the best thing I chose to do in my entire lifetime. Laura managed one of my company's motorcycle shops. I was a stock-holder and worked in the corporate offices. I had met her once when she came (I don't know why) to visit our main shop. I was taking photos to be used in an article I was writing for a trade magazine. Struck by her looks, I asked her to be a model. Her 'role" was to be "selling" a BMW to a customer. She portrayed herself well. The article was published. Months later, Our driver (who was called "Pirate," his bike club nickname) was sick and couldn't deliver a shipment of new model year bikes and accessories to Laura's store. I was the only one at the headquarters who had a license to operate trucks in Germany, so I substituted. Pirate was also to "do a show" at Laura's store, which meant staying in Nurnberg for the weekend. I took my bike (an R100RS) along thinking I'd have a chance to tour around Nurnberg. (I did, with Laura on the pillion.) During a lull in business, she asked me if I'd arranged for a hotel. I told her I planned to after the store closed. She looked at me suspiciously and asked "Did Hoffman (Corporate Manager) tell you to stay in my guest room?" I admitted he had. She was obviously perturbed. "I'm tired of his inviting employees to do that, but okay, you can stay at my place but you have to take to dinner at my favorite restaurant." Her husband, an Army Captain, was "in the field." Laura's favorite restaurant was the only Mexican restaurant in Germany (I believe). Having lived in New Mexico, I had grown fond of Mexican food. We spent four hours after Fajitas sipping beer and deeply involved in each other. Besides telling each other about our lives, I learned that she and her husband had decided to divorce. She had agreed to stay together until he was reassigned to Fort Ord which was to happen in a few weeks. He would arrive at his new base as a single officer. Our company was planning to open a new (and largest) store in Kaiserslautern. Laura was one of our best organized managers so I urged her to apply. She interviewed with Hoffman and got the job. Laura and I found an apartment half-way between our offices in a small town named Kirschheim-Bolanden. We each drove 32 kilometers to work. That was the beginning of thirty wonderful years together.

Prior to our first meeting we were both completely new. Our first real conversation came during the pandemic and was talk to make being home together 24/7 interesting. I don’t think either of us thought we would act out on fun talk.

We are experienced but within limits of the number of contacts. Amy and I have different experiences. We first swapped with friends about 13 years ago, before we were married. It was a unplanned but great experience. Nothing happened for ten years, then about 3 years ago Amy discovered the delight of two sessions of sex with her friend's husband. So delightful that I was enlisted to start foursome swinging with Lesley and Ken, my wife's lover and his wife. We now swing with them frequently, plus twice with our old friends from 13 years back and a couple of swing parties. We do hall passes with our individual lovers which is the most exciting part of swinging for both of us.

Ann-Margaret is hot to this very day!

Still, according to my HR source, there is a lot of that going on.

Great photo! Wife would be all into that.

When one of my college roommates was a teenager, his family stayed in a hotel in the Catskill Mountains of NY. Used to be a popular resort before cheap airfares to warmer climes. Two young women asked my friend if he wanted to watch them engage in lesbian activities. Scared and knowing it was immoral and wrong, he declined. My friend reported this incident to his father, expecting praise for his restraint and moral compass. Instead his father said “Are you an idiot? That was the opportunity of a lifetime!”

My wife reminded me of a funny story, to keep my borscht belt thread going. I accompanied my wife to a lingerie shop and I dilligently read my iPhone while my wife was trying things on with the assistance of a sales associate. The sales associate said to me “Your wife has an incredible body.” The sales associate is right. I said “ Can you imagine how much money I have to have to land a wife like that?” The sales associate did not know what to say. True story, verbatim.

We all have a few, but imagine living an entire life of regrets.

Reading through some old posts on here as we haven’t been here in a while . It occurs to me just what a valuable asset this site is . So much good sound advice here from friendly , non judgmental people . Especially touching seeing the late Padoc chining in with sound advice as was the norm

I’m waiting to read how your first fun went.

How did that happen? I see so many women on here are trying bi for the first time, were you curious or pressured. How did you react?