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Natalie is 27. Due to surgery she can’t have sex for five years. Natalie is a virgin but guys chase her for sex. 27 virgin who can’t have sex now wants to go to a swingers party with relatives. Think you all have her sense of humor as this has to be funny. And she is model material, ultra attractive and very slim. Did you forget she only likes anal and that’s why she’s a virgin?

My wife and I have again this year booked a condo at Paradise Lakes. We have already noticed differences. Although most people seem to conform to the Florida mindset that wearing a face mask is a violation of their Constitutional Rights, some are doing so. I had to smile as I greeted a woman while walking past who was completely naked except for the mask covering her mouth and nose. She did not see my smile as I too had a mask. There is a sign at the entrance to the club and swimming pools area that says "masks required". The club's employees and managers seem to be enforcing that rule, inside of the building, at least, but not at the pools. I'm OK with that. There are far fewer people here this year. The man from whom we rent our condo tells us that rental business is down. There are notably fewer RVs in the RV park. About the club, its new management have changed its days of opening from seven per week to five. It is now open Wednesday through Sunday. The club has new management owing the fact that the former manager passed away. I remember this guy. We would often see him about the place directing maintenance tasks. On one occasion last year I saw him admonish contract personnel to get down from a ladder owing to the fact that he did not believe the ladder to be same. Tragically and ironically, it seems the cause of his death is that he fell off of a ladder. May he rest in peace.

Thank you for sharing and ironically my husband and I, both Christians, discuss this often. We agree there is no room for us to ever judge anyone or pick which rules we “obey”, but outside of the numerous other things of ones’s faith, we agreed to honesty with one another & others, to hold one another and selves accountable that we never hurt anyone through this process. We also try to listen more to others backgrounds, beliefs & sexuality. Not how we were brought taught, but so glad we did. We’ve met amazing people!!

I think this one hits a several buttons, all at once, for me. I mean, right off the bat there is the "getting away with something naughty" part. All sorts of things push this button, but this is DEFINITELY one of them. Then, there is the voyeuristic button. I mean, watching is good, and watching someone I have a connection to is even better. Then there is the projection part. Since I know what he's feeling, I can imagine the sensations, and of course that's good. Then there is the vicarious part, of enjoying her enjoying herself (it would be no fun if she didn't). Then there is the anticipation part, because I'm going to definitely enjoy my part. Then there is the participation aspect, in that I get to be part of her kink too. Knowing that after sucking, she'll be dripping wet for me or whoever else is next is a huge turn on. Finally, although it doesn't get to control me, there is always that primal tingle of jealousy. Even if I'm thoroughly enjoying the entire spectacle, there's still that little burn at the base of the skull, where the lizard brain still whispers. So yeah, it hits all the buttons. I think the reason that oral does it more than plain old sex is that it's usually slower and more deliberate. By the time the fucking starts, everyone is purely in their moment (I hope), and so it's not so much shared or deliberate.

My first multi-person sexual experience was a soft swing session with my first wife and a couple who were close friends of ours. It was the mid-1970s and we were all in our mid 20s. After a few glasses of wine at our friends’ home one winter evening my wife persuaded the rest of us to take off our clothes. We proceeded to some slow dances with each other’s spouses. I was fascinated watching my nude wife holding another man close and move sensually to the music, her breasts pressed closely against his chest and his hands pulling her hips close against his. (I was so taken by this vision that at one point my wife had to remind me to pay more attention to the other woman.) There was no intercourse or even oral that evening, but I was fascinated watching my wife masturbate the other man to a series of loudly-announced orgasms. Meanwhile, I was kissing and fingering the other wife on an adjacent sofa. I would have been happy to have proceeded to intercourse, but neither of the wives were up for that, although by that time the activities have moved to the bedrooms upstairs. I remember being in bed with the other woman, both of us still nude, and suggesting we should fuck. She declined. ???? I went off to join my wife in the guest bedroom and suggested we should fuck. My wife said she was too tired and suggested I should jerk off off on her. Which I did. My wife and I were both interested in swinging, but the combination of the challenging logistics of that era (the mid 1970s) and the press of our respective professional and educational lives meant for the time being our curiosity went unaddressed. Later our friends marriage broke up, and my wife and I suggested the woman should become my lover. But, by that time she had a boyfriend and declined the invitation. My curiosity about having casual sexual partners in a setting of three or more remained, including past the end of that first marriage. I was in grad school by then, and though I had sexual partners almost too numerous to count, all of those encounters ere one on one. I knew threesomes (and moresomes) was something I wished to pursue. It took another half-dozen years before I was able to enjoy that experience for the first time. This encounter was also unplanned and was also with a couple who were friends. We unexpectedly found ourselves sharing a hotel room at an event and unexpectedly discovered the room had one king bed rather than two queens. While the husband was showering, the wife made clear they were interested in playing. I was so excited I was literally shaking. She had to assure me everything would be fine. I’m not sure she understood the trembling was not anxiety but anticipation. The three of us got into bed in our nightclothes. Soon the woman said “this isn’t how we sleep at home,“ and began pulling her nightie up over her head. She had ample and gorgeous breasts. Her husband and I got out of our night clothes almost as quickly. There was a little kissing and then soon I was sitting up against the headboard with my legs spread she was sucking me. Her husband sidled up behind her and began fucking her doggy style. watching his face as he thrust into his wife was very hot. After he ejaculated in her we switched positions. While she sucked him to another erection I fucked her until I had come as well. Rinse, repeat and we fell asleep, all exhausted. I awakened in the middle of the night and found her still receptive. I climbed on top of her and began to fuck her in the missionary position. She call softly to her husband “he’s taking me again.” I found her words exciting, and apparently her husband did as well. He fondled my balls while I fucked his wife until I came yet again. (Ah, the energy of youth.) I played with the wife every now and then over the next 20 years, though sadly the husband never joined us again. There’s been no sexual play with her for a decade now, but I am still friends with both of them. In fact, I spoke with them on the phone earlier today to congratulate them on recently becoming grandparents. Happily, I’m also good friends with my first wife, after some years of estrangement. We exchanged New Years greetings and spoke about mutual friends we’ve known for half a century. Oh, and I did get to fuck the woman in that first couple. In fact, I just fucked her again yesterday. More than a dozen years after our first marriages ended we were platonic friends, until we had dinner one evening and after the meal we ended up in bed. One thing led to another and in January we will celebrate our 31st wedding anniversary. ??

She will love you more for giving her the opportunity for her to enjoy something that you can't give her. It's true for all of us, everybody has something different to offer. Bigger dick, tighter pussy, harder movements, bigger tits, anal - just be happy you can give her these things.

I have, on occasion. Although there is a place for "Men, what do you think" and "Women, what do you think" polls, it's better if they can be constructed to be all inclusive. Besides, even when the question or poll is directed to women, men answer.

I am laughing at this whole thread as it is seems that so much that is posted falls into the same vein. It’s nice to share experiences not made up scenarios. I primarily joined for information and to see if my experiences are similar to others, along with the hiccups we’ve had along the way. Instead I see the same posters posting the same drivel ad infinitum. I remember reading the same things in my dad’s Penthouse magazines.

So, most of the polls are created by immature men, imho. That's why they are oriented from the man's point of view. You have the power, as a woman! Create your own polls, put a stop to this travesty. (Yeah, I'm being a little snarky, but I'm not trying to be disrespectful.)

Everyone has their own kinks. I've met people who enjoy being suspended from the ceiling by metal hooks through their flesh... very much not my thing but very much theirs. I try not to judge. This is why communication before play is so important... make sure that everyone involved is aware of everyone else's desires and limits.

God gave you a body and a mind that can experience pleasure. We always believed it's silly to think He doesn't want you to use it, and it's a sin to live life foregoing pleasure for pain and suffering.

I don't know if it counts or not, but my high school girlfriend was 18 and I was 17. We'd sometimes call into those singles chat lines and have phone sex while we masturbated each other. We didn't think of it as swinging/group sex-related at all, it was just a game. The first same-room group sex was with Mrs. E and only a few years ago. I can say that growing up in the 1990s, by the end of the decade talking about threesomes was not at all unusual, as a hypothetical, but following through was still fairly scandalous. I think FMF threesomes are considered fairly vanilla at this point, where two committed couples swapping is much further down the scale.

I can’t answer that you were repressed. I think the 1960’s was supposed to be free sex and orgies and porn has been around forever. And that wasn’t the first time I fucked someone and I am sure she had done this with others before.

I appreciate this. We are both attractive and active And while not religious we are Christian. It’s hard to find the answers we need to see if this is the right thing for us. I worry most about jealousy - any info for me is love it thanks James

What I count as my first shared sexual experience was when we were in our early 20s. I had broken up with my ex-fiancé Red, who I was still seeing, sharing the details of my personal life with, and screwing, while dating David, the guy who would become my husband. David and I had sex after a date, then I went to see Red, told him what had happened, and had sex with him as well. Or maybe it was several weeks later when David said that he knew I was still screwing Red (I talked about him a lot) and was OK with it. Or maybe it was months later when we had our first not-so-awkward and normal feeling MFM. It felt strangely normal and empowering for me that two men could love me despite me loving the other. BTW, David is still my husband, Red is still my boyfriend and I have children with both.

You nailed it. The whole "ranking system" is entirely a theoretical exercise; it only exists in the imagination. It's what our minds project onto the person in question. It's only after we actually meet that person when we discover if a level of genuine attraction exists or not. Unfortunately, we've met plenty of people who seemed "attractive"... until they opened their mouths. Lol... For us, it all boils down to a sensually-based, person-to-person connection. Do we like them? Are they fun and interesting? Do we feel a sensual attraction? Are they practiced in the art of seduction? Are they experienced lovers who know their way around a man or woman--or both? ? I've met some "church lady next door types" who, aside from my wife, were some of the hottest (and kinkiest!) lovers. What made them so hot? They understood what is possibly the least understood fact about the Law of Attraction: The BRAIN is the largest sex organ.

I was a stripper in a strip club from age 18 to 27, and it is a huge rush putting yourself on display like that. I got a huge charge from doing it. Now conversely I do not really like an audience while having sex, but I will get naked at the drop of a hat. I think I still got it, even though I'm a 30 something.

So I've never done a swing club, but I was at a guy club one night called the triangle. I am bisexual and was meeting a woman I had been seeing, we were dancing and went to the corner booth too make out a little bit. As we were making out I realized some woman was watching us intently. I didn't care so we kept going, finally I realized she was moving closer, I was feeling cheeky so I looked at her and said "would you like to join us." Then I realized, much to my embarrassment, it was my boss. I had just propositioned my direct supervisor.. turns out she was married and in the closet and came to that club to blow off steam. To my surprise she said "I would but not if it causes issues for you at work." I was floored.

Last summer, we were sitting with a group and it was clear one of the wives really liked him. Just for fun and to catch her completely off guard, I asked her if she wanted to see him with an erection so using our canopy and friends in front of us as cover (the park police don’t take sexual activity lightly) I lubed up his cock with suntan oil and started jerking him off. She watched intently as he quickly inflated. Once he was hard, I pointed out the shape of his head (which is perfect), his thick shaft and nice balls. I honestly pointed out the obvious that he’s not big but that he knows how to use it. I invited her to give him a feel or to join us later that evening at our place. Fun to put him out there and put her on the spot.

Sounds like one of my signature moves! Love that casual and subtle flash. I also love it when i see a woman interested in my husband. This summer I noticed the female half of a couple watching him every time he came out of the water. Just for fun I met him at the edge of the water right next to her and got him talking with me and my friend. His cock was ten feet from her. He had no idea and her reaction was priceless. Just one of the many reasons we love it there.

When the minority becomes huge, something is up. ...Long before we met, my wife did several amateur nights at strip clubs. She has told me that it was interesting watching the men (and a few women) watch her. Have either of you ever done it? Seems the perfect place for a female exhibitionist. My wife isn't an exhibitionist per se in that she does it for a thrill, but if he's looking and she's showing off, she will spread her legs wide and manually part her lips. Once when I said I thought that she was going overboard, my wife told me it kept him from staring at her tits.

My husband and I are very devout Christians - I teach Sunday School and volunteer a lot of hours. I find nothing conflicting about the lifestyle and Christianity. I am faithful to the man that I love - I choose to have sex with other people but I only love my husband. But nothing is more important to me then my relationship and faith in God and Jesus. I know there are a lot of people in the lifestyle who share these beliefs.

Lustylearning, we meant that swinging was fun and we seemed to be more alive than we had in years. However, what it boiled down to was we learned much more (or either RE-discovered) than we had known. We're not sorry it happened, it was a good learning experience. We just decided that we didn't need it to start with: we had each other all along. We made some great friends and do still keep up with them. WE (the two of us) had let our passion diminish, swinging definitely cranked it up again, as we posted in our first note. And it's still cranked up. No problems.

Funny, I'm pretty sure I ran across their profile when searching profiles the other day. I remember this exact statement. Small world.