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I posed a question to men to find out how other men think, not women. You can respond because you feel a need to respond to every post. And how does this add to the original question? My answer might be snarky just like Adam said about his post, you already have 3 responses to a poll question that you can’t possibly answer.

He was asking the opinions of other men to see if they feel as he does, his post, his want. If he wanted to know what we feel or want he would have directed the question to women. You think it’s important for both sexes to respond but it’s not your post. I see you found the need to respond and you did.

This whole post just makes too much sense, not only for this specific situation but in general. Thanks. ?

Be kind, be polite, and put others pleasure ahead of yours. From that you will be generously rewarded.

A quote from John Waters (whoever he is), "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty." And may I add, Lesbianism a guilty pleasure.

And as a woman, I agree. But another reason for posing questions and conducting polls is to find out what women think and want, that's why I think it's important that both sexes can respond. So to answer the question: The ability to be bisexual, straight with a dick in my pussy and Lesbian with my tongue on a cunt, at the same time.

So, most of the polls are created by immature men, imho. That's why they are oriented from the man's point of view. You have the power, as a woman! Create your own polls, put a stop to this travesty. (Yeah, I'm being a little snarky, but I'm not trying to be disrespectful.)

We wanted our first experience to be with a unicorn and that never happened. We met a couple on Craigslist, not the best place to find someone, with a bi female. Watching Linda with a very attractive woman that first time is unforgettable. It was predetermined the ladies would play first, my first time witnessing this, Linda had played before I met her. I couldn’t believe they were kissing, undressing and then fingering, I swear it was almost too much until Linda went down, my wife eating pussy. They took turns and then a true female 69, and the moaning was real. Hey this was something I only saw in porn. Fucking this gorgeous girl was great but I had fucked before, I had never watched women having sex before. They both had sex with me which was also great especially knowing I made a younger woman cum and I watched Linda have sex with a better endowed guy who was I could see a lousy sex partner. Yet I still picture that first 69 with a smile. It wasn’t a true FFM yet for me it was.

My wife and I love to DP our GF. She likes it too!

One option was left out. I personally enjoy pleasing two or (rare, but a few times) three women at the same time. Using hands, fingers, toys and my cock. it can be sensory over load.....but very erotic. best two positions....both on top, one woman riding and the other over my face for oral. The other position, me on my side both women prone (like a human “Pi” symbol) me giving oral to one and inside and pumping the other. Swapping back and forth. If they enjoy each other....one reverse cowgirl reclined back while the other uses her mouth, tongue and Hands on both of us. a rare treat but always memorable......

OK, my advice is set the swinging/sex idea aside for a moment. You say you have anxiety issues. Think about how you usually deal with those? Just think about it in terms of going out to a new place, with new people. Think about your standard coping mechanisms. Turn to them and apply them here. Now, once you've thought of those, we can open up the idea of sex. The idea of sex is, I'm sure, adding to the anxiety. So I guess my advice here is, give yourself permission to NOT have sex. You don't have to. You've already gone to the club a couple of times, not had sex and had a good time. Do that again. If, while you are there, you and your partners all feel that the mood is right for sex, go for it. If any of you... especially yourself... don't feel it's right, don't do it. If you started, and it feels wrong, stop. Just say "I'm not feeling this" or "I'm sorry, I don't want to continue right now" and step away. That is OK. It is always OK. The key here is don't put pressure on yourself to go and have sex. Go and have fun. If that fun involves crazy acts of naked passion, great. If it involves sitting around chatting with your partner, great. Whatever works for you on the night.