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It’s my husband that will get the double bj. I think I want to try a girl in the middle to play with for both of us with open to learning. I’m reading this is called a soft swap. I believe this is up our ally for a first. Thanks for the help

You are correct, my apologies. Sometimes when jumping into the fray, I get overbearing.

Let that kind of mentality go, I have had orgasms on big dicks and I have had orgasms on average size dicks. We can have fun if we are turned on properly. Sex for a woman is about the seduction not the size of the dick. I have made the decision to fuck a guy before I see the size of his dick. I have never pulled down a man's pants and said never mind its not big enough. If I am turned on I'm fucking him, and I'm gonna get my orgasm even if I gotta do it myself. Now big dicks are fucking fun, but it doesn't mean she will stop enjoying your dick.

You are looking for the same thing we were a few years ago. Our experience was many fakes answering ads. My wife was doing it for me, I wanted to watch her do something she did before we met, be with a woman. I didn’t even care if I was involved, I was going to watch. We almost hired a professional and then didn’t. We figured we would advertise for a couple as long as the wife was bi. We found a couple and I watched the women which was great and I got to be with the woman, also great. The guy was an asshole. We have read dozens of ads like yours where the wife is curious and decided no couple should go through what we went through. We have answered many couples that we would meet, as a couple with me just there to watch. Linda will go as slow as they want, mostly for the wife. We have had couples change their minds, we are not pushy. Maybe if you open your minds and see your way with a couple you might convince them to go by your rules. I hope it works for you.

He was asking the opinions of other men to see if they feel as he does, his post, his want. If he wanted to know what we feel or want he would have directed the question to women. You think it’s important for both sexes to respond but it’s not your post. I see you found the need to respond and you did.

You don’t need to apologize for your post, I a woman have no problems with you trying to see if you are normal, not that anyone here is normal. For the rest of your post I agree with you on oversharing and while I’m posting on your poll, you are most likely not the only young male posting, you’re just one who admits it. Welcome to the board ?

My husband described it as he likes seeing me play the slut. He likes it when I do all the dirty stuff with another guy cause then he can spend his day imagining I am out there taking whatever I want sexually. He imagines I am so horny I couldn't control myself. If I met a guy I wanted my inner slut would do anything to take him. Of course its totally in his head, I can control my vagina just fine. But he loves the imagery so I give it too him. I play the slutty unfaithful wife that is a succubus and needs sex to survive.

When I say the title of this thread, my first thought was that this was a troll. Just on the off case that it isn't, here's our thoughts: Don't play with vanilla friends, don't play with family. If (and usually when) your swinging activities become public knowledge it can be very difficult and uncomfortable once EVERYONE knows what you do inside the bedroom. At this point, you still have plausible deniability. Second, since she can't really participate, what's in it for you? What's in it for her? Third (and already pointed out), she already thinks that everyone chasing her is looking for sex...which she can't have for 5 years...going to a swingers event where everyone at least is OPEN about wanting her only for sex...which she can't have for 5 years. Seems like taking a starving person into a 5 star kitchen and telling them they can look and smell as much as they would like, but they can't taste ANYTHING. Really, then why bother? Any way we look at this, there just isn't any reason for anyone to move forward and only storm clouds on the horizon if you choose to move forward.

I’m down to play with another Woman. That’s the entire reason we are going to hedo. 15 years of a great marriage and we are just venturing out a little. Everything goes except penetration on our first few times is our rules. I’m curious for girls. I want to have another girl help me suck his dick and we can all suck and lick each other. I know I don’t want another man in the picture. He is with me on this journey to just explore for some fun. Whatever it may be. I’m sorry I wasn’t more clear. This is all really new. I mean really new. So if we are on a path that’s impossible we will just wind up enjoying our vacation with each other getting freaky with one another. Thanks for your input.

My husband and I do Hall Passes when ever I travel for work. While I'm away I can fuck whomever I want and he can fuck whomever he wants. Its fun.

It's a reasonable thing to want, and a fun thing to do... but the problem is what you are looking for is what is commonly called a Unicorn (a single, bisexual female who is willing to have no strings attached sex). What's more, you are looking for a very, very specific Unicorn (a single, bisexual female willing to give a no strings attached blowjob to a stranger with no reciprocation). Unicorns are called unicorns because they are highly desired, so vanishingly rare as to be nearly mythological and therefore almost impossible to find. Unless you have an open minded female friend or are willing to hire a prostitute, I expect you will like have a very hard time in setting up the encounter you describe. I might respectfully suggest that consider what it is you really want out of the encounter and why.

Well, there's some good recommendations about this on CDC.org

For some reason, I took another look at this post and the multitude of reactions. It seems to me what the definition of 'hall pass' is in your relationship is important. Does it mean that either party can have unrestrained sex with whomever they please with no consequences? Or does it come with conditions? For us, I'd say, no, we don't have 'hall passes.' Before either of us solos, we opt to inform our mate, ask for 'permission.' Although I can't think of a time when 'permission' wasn't granted, it did give us the opportunity to consider if the proposed liaison was a good idea or not.

I posed a question to men to find out how other men think, not women. You can respond because you feel a need to respond to every post. And how does this add to the original question? My answer might be snarky just like Adam said about his post, you already have 3 responses to a poll question that you can’t possibly answer.

Guilty as charged! I am new to here and felt I needed to add something and not just be lurking. I am younger but please don’t consider me immature. How about the over posters who need to answer and post on every thread constantly repeating the same things? It seems to me that the mature women find a need to post a dozen times a day. I did originally join here for information not titillation and have stayed away from posting our experiences. I apologize to anyone who found my post not relevant to the site.

So, most of the polls are created by immature men, imho. That's why they are oriented from the man's point of view. You have the power, as a woman! Create your own polls, put a stop to this travesty. (Yeah, I'm being a little snarky, but I'm not trying to be disrespectful.)

Natalie is 27. Due to surgery she can’t have sex for five years. Natalie is a virgin but guys chase her for sex. 27 virgin who can’t have sex now wants to go to a swingers party with relatives. Think you all have her sense of humor as this has to be funny. And she is model material, ultra attractive and very slim. Did you forget she only likes anal and that’s why she’s a virgin?

Great photo! Wife would be all into that.

I'd say any type of positive change has to start from a place of owning your reality and stop making excuses. You call yourself big boned, but according to national health standards on BMI. A BMI of between 18.5 and 24.9 is ideal. A BMI of between 25 and 29.9 is overweight. A BMI over 30 indicates obesity. A healthy weight for you is 173 lbs. At 250 lbs, According to a standard BMI calculator you are at a BMI of 35. That is not big boned it is obese. Recognize it and take control of it, because it is not a healthy weight for you. Saying you are big boned means you can't fix it, and your a victim of circumstance. But you can fix obesity. I'm Not saying it'll be easy but you can change your situation. If you got serious, like really serious, you could be at 200 lbs in 4 to 6 months. At 200 lbs you'd still have work to do, but you'd probably see more action for you and your wife. Good luck.