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We are looking for a female to join us in a trial run to an upcoming vacation to a hedonism resort and wanted to see what we are into. My husband wants a double blowjob and I want to do that and see what else I would be opened to. I know I don’t want to have sex with another man and he don’t want to with a girl. Just each other’s pleasure in the form a a talented lady. Should we experience this act before we go next year or save it for the moment? We have never done anything like this.

I don't get texts or pictures, just sloppy seconds, which I prefer.

Pretty much the exact same thing for me. I don't really fantasize about other women when having sex with my GF but I will think about times she had sex with other guys especially if I wasn't there. It could be some guys she sucked off at a bar a few weeks back or how she fucked her boss at work earlier that day. Either way I enjoy both thinking about it and hearing her tell me the stories before and during sex. My GF know I love this stuff so she will sometime send me texts about sex she just had with a guy or pictures of it. One time we were having sex doggy style talking about it and she handed me her cell phone and said click play. I see her a video of her on her knees sucking some guy off until he cums on her face. The video only lasted 2 minutes and so did I ?

This will be my first with another man since before we were married. 29 years! We do plan on starting slow. Thank you for the tips for my husband and I

Gangbangs are a popular topic here, but they are notoriously difficult to set up and successfully pull off. Lots of no shows, etc. Here's some good tips for gangbangs. Lots of other info here too if you click the "gangbangs" tag at the top of this page right under the thread title. Will this be her first swinging experience? If so, while the fantasy may be great, it may be better to start a little slower. Just couple on couple swinging can be extremely frustrating, especially just starting out, and gangbangs much more difficult, even for experienced swingers.

That is primary reason, I believe, for being non-monogamous and allowing our spouse/partner - the ability to partake in activities and enjoy physical characteristics that the other doesn't have. As long as she is safe, let her enjoy it.

Attempting to pickup another person or couple as a swinger is seduction. When I meet someone I'm physically attracted too, I strike up a conversation and flirt my ass off. I compliment them, I touch their arm lightly and keep it there slightly longer than comfort allows. I laugh at their jokes, I love when they have on a bracelet, watch or ring, as I will take their hand in mine and look at the item in detail, and when we move on I keep my hand on theirs for a few minutes. Try to create little moments of connection or intimacy. Things that will make them take notice and desire more physical contact. At the end I ask them if they want to get out of here, go do something fun, live a little. It works.

Sorry that part wasn't meant to be directed at you. I was speaking in general to people who say that "size doesn't matter." I don't want to be the bearer of bad news but size does matter. You can have a huge dick and be terrible at sex - I know because I've seen it. The best sex my GF has ever had was definitely not with the biggest dick she ever had. There is a lot more to it than just size. But that doesn't mean that size doesn't matter.

You are correct, my apologies. Sometimes when jumping into the fray, I get overbearing.

It’s my husband that will get the double bj. I think I want to try a girl in the middle to play with for both of us with open to learning. I’m reading this is called a soft swap. I believe this is up our ally for a first. Thanks for the help

You are looking for the same thing we were a few years ago. Our experience was many fakes answering ads. My wife was doing it for me, I wanted to watch her do something she did before we met, be with a woman. I didn’t even care if I was involved, I was going to watch. We almost hired a professional and then didn’t. We figured we would advertise for a couple as long as the wife was bi. We found a couple and I watched the women which was great and I got to be with the woman, also great. The guy was an asshole. We have read dozens of ads like yours where the wife is curious and decided no couple should go through what we went through. We have answered many couples that we would meet, as a couple with me just there to watch. Linda will go as slow as they want, mostly for the wife. We have had couples change their minds, we are not pushy. Maybe if you open your minds and see your way with a couple you might convince them to go by your rules. I hope it works for you.

Well put! That is me as well whenever I see the others in my poly family engaged in sexual activity of any kind. It still hurts after all these years, but I can't wait for it to happen again. (I particularly like it when I can suck him back up, then go down on her while he enters me for a second attempt.) To answer the question, "Why do guys like their women sucking on other men" my guess is because it leaves her pussy available for him to go into. Ultimately, that's what guys want.

Sleeping with a "co-worker" was the best thing I chose to do in my entire lifetime. Laura managed one of my company's motorcycle shops. I was a stock-holder and worked in the corporate offices. I had met her once when she came (I don't know why) to visit our main shop. I was taking photos to be used in an article I was writing for a trade magazine. Struck by her looks, I asked her to be a model. Her 'role" was to be "selling" a BMW to a customer. She portrayed herself well. The article was published. Months later, Our driver (who was called "Pirate," his bike club nickname) was sick and couldn't deliver a shipment of new model year bikes and accessories to Laura's store. I was the only one at the headquarters who had a license to operate trucks in Germany, so I substituted. Pirate was also to "do a show" at Laura's store, which meant staying in Nurnberg for the weekend. I took my bike (an R100RS) along thinking I'd have a chance to tour around Nurnberg. (I did, with Laura on the pillion.) During a lull in business, she asked me if I'd arranged for a hotel. I told her I planned to after the store closed. She looked at me suspiciously and asked "Did Hoffman (Corporate Manager) tell you to stay in my guest room?" I admitted he had. She was obviously perturbed. "I'm tired of his inviting employees to do that, but okay, you can stay at my place but you have to take to dinner at my favorite restaurant." Her husband, an Army Captain, was "in the field." Laura's favorite restaurant was the only Mexican restaurant in Germany (I believe). Having lived in New Mexico, I had grown fond of Mexican food. We spent four hours after Fajitas sipping beer and deeply involved in each other. Besides telling each other about our lives, I learned that she and her husband had decided to divorce. She had agreed to stay together until he was reassigned to Fort Ord which was to happen in a few weeks. He would arrive at his new base as a single officer. Our company was planning to open a new (and largest) store in Kaiserslautern. Laura was one of our best organized managers so I urged her to apply. She interviewed with Hoffman and got the job. Laura and I found an apartment half-way between our offices in a small town named Kirschheim-Bolanden. We each drove 32 kilometers to work. That was the beginning of thirty wonderful years together.

Very compelling picture! Some of my worst performances were with my most attractive swing partners. They can be intimidating. Some are pillow princesses. Wonder if people feel less jealous if their spouse has a less attractive swing partner? We have not found jealousy an issue. We are not leaving each other.

I am outgoing, but this entire website is built around being actively involved. The way that I know that is because if I go to my profile or for that matter anybodies profile the first and pretty much only piece of information it gives is their site score, how many posts, how many quotes, how many likes. All of that is based on posting. I wasn't trying to upset people, and I have felt like I was keeping it relevant. I just wasn't trying to be braggy, that felt hurtful.

So I'm brand new here, only been swinging for 6 months. But I've/We've had a good deal of interactions. I suppose the one that sticks out at the moment for me was after my daughter's soccer game. We are good friends with a couple whose daughter is also on the team, we've swung with them once at a part we went to very early on. After the game the girls were all going for pizza and that kinda left us parents with some time on our hands. Now honestly sex isn't always on our brains or anything but I guess K (the dad of the other girl on the team) was thinking about it all day. He said it was because of my sports top, a long sleeve spandex purple crop top. My stomach was showing a bit, little bit of a muffin top i'm still trying to get rid of. I'm not a busty girl at best a B but more an A cup. He invited us over to their house which was just a few blocks down the street from the fields so we walked. It was really hot out and so we were all pretty sweaty when we got inside. K invited me into the kitchen for some water while his wife J and my husband L went to the bathroom (not together just to actually go). In the kitchen we chatted about the game, drank some water and then K, as bold as I've ever seen sat in a dining room chair and asked if I'd ride him. I was stunned to say the least. I mean we are still really new to this life and hadn't been so very upfrontly asked something like that. Well it was why we were there after all so, blushing like a little girl, I started to take my top off. He told me to stop and keep it on. It was stained a bit with sweat and really clinging to my breasts, I wasn't wearing a bra so my nipples were poking through. He told me he loved seeing my breasts bounce when I was cheering on the girls that's what gave him this, and he pulled down his track shorts. K isn't especially long, maybe like 7 inches at best, but he's thick. And wow he was as hard as I've ever seen a guy get. Well i pulled my yoga pants down, i was wearing some simple seamless purple lace panties with a wide waist. They were kinda sweaty too. Honestly at this point I still wasn't used to the whole, other man inside me thing. It was still and still is like some kind of strange dream. He told me to leave the panties on too, so i straddled his lap. He pulled my panties just enough to the side to see my vagina and complimented it. Telling me he loves how smooth and tight I looked for a mom. Surprised me a lot but was kind of a turn on. His penis was straight up and so he very gently but firmly put his hands on my bottom, half exposed in the panties, pulled me to him and lowered me on. I told you he's thick so it was intense. I'd only had sex with him one time before and that was after I'd had a load of semen inside to help lube me up. Now it was just me, my sweat, my already warming juices and him. His eyes were locked on his tip pushing my lips open, entering me, slowly sliding in. I'm kinda tight so it was slow, pushing in a little sliding back out then going further. It took several minutes but soon every inch was in me and it was soooooo intense. He was long enough to just tickle my cervix but it was that girth, stretching me that was making me shiver. K just sat back his hands on my bottom and slowly helped me rise and fall on him. Going about halfway up then down, hitting my cervix. Then almost all the way up to the tip and back in slow. He kept that pattern and pace up for a while. He'd alternate watching his penis slide into me and watching my breasts gently bounce in my top. We were already sweaty from being out in the heat at the game but this worked up more of a sweat, like we were dripping on the floor more than my juices, which themselves were dripping down his balls to the floor under us. My tummy was bouncing a little too as I rode him. He has some incredible staying power and I think we were like that for nearly ten or more minutes before I couldn't hold back anymore and I orgasmed. I'm a little bit of a crier when I orgasm so I teared up whimpering, crying, body shaking and vagina squeezing down hard on him just making the orgasm more intense. I'm not sure if it sent him over the edge or he just let himself go because right in the middle of my orgasm he pushed deep into me right up against my cervix and blasted thick streams of semen. He's a very heavy thick ejaculator and i felt it splashing inside so hot it was amazing. We just sat for a minute after that, dripping sweat and now some other fluids. Then we saw the clock on the wall. Our girls were due to get done with the pizza party soon so we were going to need to pick them up. K pulled out of me and put my panties back over me before anything could drip out. He patted my stomach and kissed my stretch marks and said he loved filling a mom's tummy. Totally made me blush. I put my pants back on went to check on my husband and J. I walked in on L orgasming onto J's beautiful C cup breasts. She kissed his tip and thanked him, waved to me and got up. Gave me a kiss on the cheek as she walked by going to take a shower. I left with my husband to go get our car and pick up our daughter and the entire ride home my vagina was FULL of semen. My panties were a total mess! I'm just glad it didn't leak and show through my yoga pants. That's a stand out experience for me.

I have to say that I was the one that introduced into the lifestyle, although we are still quite new at it. To make a long story short, for years I have lived with guilt associated with the feelings that I was having. How could I be in love with my husband, yet have almost these primal feelings of wanting to have sex with other men? I swear, at times it was almost like a physical need. So, I thought out of sight out of mind....and I attempted to be a good soccer mom. I baked cookies, and did all of that other stuff. WHICH IS GREAT. I still do all of that, but that is not who I am. I want to get a tattoo, drive in one direction just to see what's there, jump on a Harley and ride to Sturgis, lol. And here I was, living this domestic lifestyle. And I felt dead inside. So, I talked with jay, and he was feeling the same way I was. We just never communicated. Now that we are in the lifestyle we are like dating kids again. He even calls my office just to say he loves me. Sorry if this is too long. But we have one life, and we have to live it well.

Welcome from Oklahoma, Mark & Holly! We're glad y'all have joined us and wish you two the best in your search. I've been lucky to see my wife "make the best of a big one." It was one of the most erotic sights I've ever seen. We've played with two couples who were married young. In the case of one couple, we were the first experience, other than their spouse, for both of them. We played with them for several years. Fun couple! Very creative! Your's is not an unusual situation. I wouldn't worry about the "big ones." They're not all that easy to find. One of our rules is that we always sleep together. After a night of play with another couple, we invariably have energy left to make love with each other. It's always better than the play, including the Big Dicked guy. Mr. Alura