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We like everyone naked and having fun

If a woman's vagina could be permanently stretched out, most women would never have a second child. ?

We try to be as 'nubie friendly' as possible for the same reasons. Most 'experienced' couples don't want to bother with nubies, mostly because of potential drama issues, but we were all nubies at one time and had to start somewhere. We always look at it as making new friends (even if we aren't interested) and it's kind of fun being able to talk about sex with others...out in public of all places. At the same time, we try to be much more aware of red flags. Even the red flag couples give us a laugh and something to talk about later.

"Give yourself permission to NOT have sex." Superb advice, and not just for novices. To say it in a different way: Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is that you are feeling in the moment, without expectations or value judgements. In fact, this notion is the very foundation of our "lifestyle" activities. We try (usually successfully) to avoid embarking on new relationships while carrying the baggage of high expectations. Over time, we learned that setting out with big expectations only set us up for disappointments--either in ourselves or in a prospective lifestyle partners. Our singular goal is to have fun--in whatever form that takes. If the "fun" is just meeting interesting and enjoyable people with no physical attraction between us? Great. That's still a "win" to us. On the other hand, if we determine we are mutually physically attracted, we simply let things naturally progress--and without any kind of time limit. We may take several more get togethers before we're feeling ready for any sexual activities. And we always start out SLOWLY. Usually, we will begin with some same room sex, then move on from there. Also, we've found that having a comfortable and relaxed environment promotes better outcomes. For that reason, we like to entertain at home or in spaces and locations with which we are very familiar. Anyway, this is what works for us ? Your mileage may vary. Stay in touch.

Sorry, just sounds plain weird to me, my wife agrees. Not saying it's not for some people, just not us.

Our pleasure? I thought we were the only couple looking for a unicorn unsuccessfully. I will say it was both fun and frustrating looking. We tried to make even the fake no shows into fun nights. We assure every couple we are in contact with that we know what they are going through. I’ll tell you what we hate, husbands forcing their wives to do this. Linda is very good at reading the situation. She also good at chatting and making everyone relaxed. We ask every woman what she wants. We have one rule, I will stay dressed unless I am asked to join in. It is still a thrill for me to watch Linda and a woman. Most of the time the husband wants to get up close to watch before getting involved. There is no set way things go except it goes the way the wife wants it to go. I will also say that eventually I get involved in good number of meetings.

She is an exhibitionist and likes to be filmed and have pictures taken. Like I've said before, she is an adult and can make her own decisions. Personally I would not allow anyone to use a camera if I'm involved as I do not want to be filmed or have pictures taken of me for those reasons. She is different. She enjoys the excitement of it.

Aren't you worried about what could happen with pictures and videos? Among our group our rule is no pictures. Even though there is an extremely high level of trust among us (we're totally bareback), things can always be hacked or mistakenly revealed.

My ex-wife knows that my now-wife and I swing with several other couples. She has asked me if it would have worked for us. We agreed that it would have (we never even got close), but we still would have split for the reasons that we did. One needs to be with the right person.

We did this before we were married with a man watching and not involved with any of the sex. I thought it was very weird at first then as our sex started I blanked his presence. Having two girls blowing me was only a wet dream before that and your husband will always remember that blowjob. Just wondering if at Hedo if you find someone to help will you allow others to watch?

I hope not, I am not the king of the locker room

My husband and I do Hall Passes when ever I travel for work. While I'm away I can fuck whomever I want and he can fuck whomever he wants. Its fun.