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Have you talked with a doctor about this?

This question always makes me wonder. We all know that a finger can produce hard squirting orgasms. I do not know anyone with 8-10 inch fingers coke can in diameter. If I did I would likely be seeking treatment for it. At any rate dimensions are dimensions, finger or penis.

We like everyone naked and having fun

The enemy of jealousy is communication, love, trust, mutual respect. I used to be VERY jealous for most of my life and when we turned down this road I was concerned that it would once again be a problem...it wasn't. As long as the communication is there, jealously has no place to take root. Of course, the only way to truly learn this is to take your time and take baby steps. There's no need to rush this, you both have the rest of your lives to find out. I've posted this before (heck, I may have posted this earlier in this thread) but for other Christians having issues with swinging and religion, first remember that the Old Testament had almost every marriage being between multiple people and it wasn't 'condemned'. Second, read this: Monogamy Isn't Biblical, It's Roman Yes, I have it bookmarked and refer back to it every so often myself.

Same for me...it takes a while but is epic when I get there, and even though I reciprocate several times with all involved, I've yet to find other swingers who will go the distance with me. It feels pretty rubbish... I think the 'getting out of her head' thing is also quite relevant for me. Easy to say, not so easy to do. For all that we hear that there's women who struggle to orgasm and it's not that unusual, your wife is the first instance I've actually ever heard of. Thank you for replying and not making me feel so alone and broken for once

Humans are not monogamous, it's not in our nature and God (nor anyone else) should blame us for having been made that way. It's the same as being vegan, it has benefits but isn't in our nature and no one should be forced or shamed into it. It has been found serendipitously through genetic testing that even animals that are considered monogamous are "socially" monogamous - they mate for life but have sex with others. That's what we in our poly family are striving to be.

Rule no. 1 for us has always been: Nobody does anything they are uncomfortable with. You'll know when you're ready to push the envelope, or it may just be a spontaneous feeling, so if ppl are generally happy where they are don't rush things. Also, as @Idahocouple6969 says, a glass of wine is often helpful to feel relaxed and ease inhibitions. Every time my wife and i did "push the envelope" and try new things we always wondered what we used to be so scared of.

In all my years of swinging and sex, I only met one gal whose pussy seemed loose, but that was only on the second or third session of the evening, and also when her pussy was full of my cum. One gal who was my swing buddy for 11 years always snapped back in seconds after bring fucked by a very big cock, as can be seen in the before and after photos below.

Sometimes you have to close your eyes and jump. Would a glass of wine help? I really do have a better time with a couple of drinks. Maybe more foreplay?

However there still are consequences for it today which is why I don't allow myself to be filmed. But I do admire her attitude towards it.

Sorry, just sounds plain weird to me, my wife agrees. Not saying it's not for some people, just not us.

Our pleasure? I thought we were the only couple looking for a unicorn unsuccessfully. I will say it was both fun and frustrating looking. We tried to make even the fake no shows into fun nights. We assure every couple we are in contact with that we know what they are going through. I’ll tell you what we hate, husbands forcing their wives to do this. Linda is very good at reading the situation. She also good at chatting and making everyone relaxed. We ask every woman what she wants. We have one rule, I will stay dressed unless I am asked to join in. It is still a thrill for me to watch Linda and a woman. Most of the time the husband wants to get up close to watch before getting involved. There is no set way things go except it goes the way the wife wants it to go. I will also say that eventually I get involved in good number of meetings.

One that I hadn't expected, my wife being DPed by two other guys. Anal with another guy was nothing out of the ordinary. I had DPed her with other guys a number of times. But the first time I saw her riding a guy when another guy came over, put it in her ass, and for a few minutes they hit perfect stride, it hit me emotionally the way nothing else had. I was proud, I was humiliated, I was embarrassed, I was excited. Nothing she had done before ever made me feel like my wife was slutty, but this did. Although she was being "taken" by two men with their dicks in her, ultimately pumping their cum in her, she never looked more dominant, in control. Afterwards, I loved her more than ever. Later I hinted at how I felt, but she didn't catch on. She's done it several times since, and it now is normal to me.

We did this before we were married with a man watching and not involved with any of the sex. I thought it was very weird at first then as our sex started I blanked his presence. Having two girls blowing me was only a wet dream before that and your husband will always remember that blowjob. Just wondering if at Hedo if you find someone to help will you allow others to watch?

They do. We do want to watch and have sex in the same room. We are going to let it out at the resort. We’ve discussed our boundaries. No other men and just play so we are hoping to relax and see what transpires. Thanks again for your advice.

It gave me 3 day phlegm, that's what it gave me. Fun, none the less.

When I started using Viagra I was in my early 50's, my doctor recommended 25mg to start, see how that worked. I was great with that. As I aged, the dosage went up, now as I approach 70 it's 100 mg. Start with a low dose, see how that impacts you, go from there.

I'm 75 years old, 50 mg usually does it for me, but I occasionally take 100mg. That causes me to have a flushed face, so don't do that often.

We once met a couple (through another couple we were seeing, we all went out for a day on the lake) where the guy was HUGE. Unfortunately, he seemed to think that size was all that mattered and would just hammer away at his woman, seemingly without caring about her pleasure. He also was rather crass and would touch the other women without asking or permission. Lets just say that we didn't see them again after that. It's not the size of the wand, but the skill of the magician...

I've tried 'all' the toys, a VAST array of positions, types of play, types of stimulation. I can cum, it just takes a really long time and when it happens, its epic. I've yet to find other swingers who are prepared to take me where I need to go...even with good communication and reciprocating several times with everyone involved. It's very disheartening always being the only one in the room who doesn't finish or leave with that blissful glow. I love sex (in its many forms) and make it known I'm enjoying the feelings...alwayseft with that "blue balls" female equivalent and a deep feeling of inadequacy