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I think it's important to draw a distinction between a public clothing-optional beach versus a nude beach at an adults-only, or lifestyle, resort area. I'm including this just as a point of information, not to be argumentative. Nudism is not a sexual, or even sexually provocative, activity. At the public clothing-optional beach Ann and I frequent most, it is not unheard of to see families with children. We have helped to organize/support a group of volunteers who discreetly patrol the beach to ensure a pleasant and stress-free environment is enjoyed by all. Nude beaches attached to places like Hedonism, Desire, Grand Lido, Temptation, etc. are different affairs altogether and actually *encourage* a sexually charged atmosphere. At those locations, seeing and being seen is the whole point ?

That's actually a very good idea. When my GF struts around a casino floor or bar very late at night in a skimpy outfit there have been several guys who have approached her or that she approached that thought she was an escort. From our experience this seems to be very common in those settings. I think I like the idea of bar pickups because there is no expectation of anything happening. When we go to a swingers club we know it's going to go down because everyone is looking for the same thing. But a pickup at a regular bar you never know who you are going to come across or what they're desires are that night. Hard to explain I guess.

Wedding ring and "Hotwife" necklace, that's putting it out there and hot.

I opened this post to see if CFNM is a railroad. Swingers on a train.

In current times, many people, particularly men, are more concerned about passing on their ideas/view of life than they are their genes.

Most of our play is alone play or threesomes within our closed group, either one of us with another couple or one of them joining us. We don't have a rule about needing prior permission to play or a subsequent disclosure, although it is always mentioned. The "proof" from my wife that I like best is smelling pussy on her breath and finding cum in her cunt. Nothing has been better than the occasions when they're in our bed when I get home.

Um. Yes. It is safe to say you still have it ? Cute feet, BTW.

"Give yourself permission to NOT have sex." Superb advice, and not just for novices. To say it in a different way: Give yourself permission to feel whatever it is that you are feeling in the moment, without expectations or value judgements. In fact, this notion is the very foundation of our "lifestyle" activities. We try (usually successfully) to avoid embarking on new relationships while carrying the baggage of high expectations. Over time, we learned that setting out with big expectations only set us up for disappointments--either in ourselves or in a prospective lifestyle partners. Our singular goal is to have fun--in whatever form that takes. If the "fun" is just meeting interesting and enjoyable people with no physical attraction between us? Great. That's still a "win" to us. On the other hand, if we determine we are mutually physically attracted, we simply let things naturally progress--and without any kind of time limit. We may take several more get togethers before we're feeling ready for any sexual activities. And we always start out SLOWLY. Usually, we will begin with some same room sex, then move on from there. Also, we've found that having a comfortable and relaxed environment promotes better outcomes. For that reason, we like to entertain at home or in spaces and locations with which we are very familiar. Anyway, this is what works for us ? Your mileage may vary. Stay in touch.

20 to 40 mg of Silnadifil. That is the generic of Viagra & comes in 20 mg tabs. Don't always need it.

My husband and I do Hall Passes when ever I travel for work. While I'm away I can fuck whomever I want and he can fuck whomever he wants. Its fun.

With all the at home time, no travel to and from work time, no rushing home to cook dinner, we caught plenty of Netflix and Prime and the explored streaming Pornhub. It’s not that we never watched porn before, it’s just we started exploring categories we would usually stay away from. We watched some that neither of us cared to watch more of. Other things interested us more bringing us to explore our own fun and some were funny to us. The more we watched the less we liked the produced porn, people don’t act like that. And then we explored real people clips and realized that could be us.

Like I said, we have done it. I have no issue with how far she wants to take it but its her preference to not go "all the way."

I generally give that up too! ????????

Enchilada? I've always heard it referred to as a taco.

First gangbang was kind of a weekend experience rather than just one time gangbang session. It was hot, awkward, weird, exciting, fun, annoying, pleasurable, and a little painful for her. We've done it like this a couple more times as it's really fun but the first time was just too long. By the end of the last day both her holes and her throat were too sore. My GF can take A LOT of sex but that was the only time I think I've ever seen her hit her limit.

Mary got a little wild at a house party one night, it wasn't a gang bang per se. Normally, the most she would do in one night was three - one man in a foursome with me, perhaps a single guy, and of course me. One night, she did four in an orgy-type situation. That night at the house party, after a foursome a single guy desired her, she agreed and didn't complain when he took her into the common room. And then the chain started. We're sure she had at least eight, the total may have been a dozen or more. On the ride home, it didn't seem much different than any other night, except she was very tired and we didn't have reclaim sex. The next day, I couldn't tell any difference as we got up and went to church. When we finally got around to talking about it later that day, she was exuberant about the experience, and when we hit the mattress in the afternoon she seemed as excited as usual.

Yes - it’s definitely something I enjoy after having a good vaginal orgasm. 9 times out of 10 when we are playing with another guy, we get into a DP session as long as his cock isn’t too big - that does nothing for me. My husband and I enjoy it as well.

Lately I am addicted to my girlfriends pussy while my husband is inside her. I love watching them together and pleasuring them both - can’t get enough.

I'm being persuaded to let a few men take turns with me today. I think u and u enjoy the same your of treatment. Like u said u like them taking turns. I want to start there. In ur situation did they wear condoms? And where did they cum. I don't know y but I like when men talk dirty to me. They ask me where I want it and I tell them. Id love to contact u.

I'm extremely bi-curious. I'd love to suck some cock.

we had a man join us this weekend. He was openly bisexual and asked if he could join us after chatting at the nude pool all afternoon. He wanted to please both of us so he went down on me while I rode my husbands cock. His oral skills were amazing and had me cumming repeatedly. In return he wanted my husband to himself for a bit. Watching him suck my husbands cock was one of the hottest things I have seen. He wanted more so I watched my husband fuck him. I masturbated hard and had an incredible orgasm with my husband as he pulled out and ejaculated all over him. His cock was perfect so I asked him to finish i me. I offered up my pussy to him. It only took a few strokes and his huge cock emptied inside me. I guess we are hedonists - we don’t get hung up on labels and are all about the pleasure. Fortunately we have friends that are into the same with no judgement or weirdness.

My first was with a couple that started off as a hotwife/threesome but rapidly progressed to the husband being a sub cuckold. We had planned my first sleepover with them which started with me fucking her while he watched and after I blew my load in her pussy he wanted to eat her but she was kinda uncomfortable with it. She cleaned my cock and as soon as she was done he kissed her before she could react, and said she tasted good. We went out for drinks and dinner and on the drive back she got in the back seat and after sucking and fucking I left another load in her pussy. We got back to their place and did a few rounds of shots and were nicely buzzed and naked messing around. He asked me if I had cum in her pussy and the second I said yes he went down on her while I kinda sat on her face with my cock in her mouth. After a few mins he got on top of her in missionary while she was still sucking me and he put his head by hers. For a while she alternated sucking me and kissing him and then he asked me permission to suck my cock. She moaned when she heard him and I said yes and they both started sucking me while kissing each other. The dominance was HOT and we had many evenings of him sucking me ready, cleaning me up etc

Mine was during a three way with my wife and buddy. We had been getting after it hot and heavy. We’d usually have a little cock touching as we wound tack turns going in and out of her at the same time. But this night he starting grabbing my cock and using it to fuck her and he’d also slide his fingers inside her stroking my cock. Then he grabbed both our cocks together and pushed both of us in her pussy at the same time. It felt so hot us touching while inside her I started coming almost immediately. Then as he was fucking her still I flipped around to eat her pussy and he pulled out slid his cock in my mouth. Then I slid him back into her and watched as he fucked her up close and personal. Haven’t had another experience since.

I guess my first experience started at a gangbang party I arranged for a couple I met online. The husband contacted me and asked if I had a few friends that would be interested in playing with his wife. I contacted a few guys and gave them the details. We arrived at the hotel and the wife was dressed sexy and ready to go. After a couple of drinks, the wife hopped on the bed and signaled that she was ready to start playing. One after another we took turns with her. Lots of sloppy seconds and thirds that night. Just as the last guy moved off the bed the husband dove in head first and started cleaning his wife up. At the time, there was so much adrenaline flowing I don't think anyone stopped to consider whether or not what we had just done was bi or not but it happened and we were all cool with it. The same couple contacted me again a few months later with a similar request. Except this time, the husband asked me to come over early before the other guys arrived. He said he and the wife had smoked a joint and wanted to get really freaky tonight. I headed over there and we started drinking and smoking. Out of nowhere, the wife told me to have a seat and ordered her husband to get on his knees and suck my cock. She came over, grabbed him by the neck, and pushed his mouth further down on my cock. Next she kneeled down and started to help him with the task. Once again, my adrenaline was flowing and I didn't dare ask them to stop. Plus the look in her eyes was one of pure lust. Later that night we did another gangbang and I remember that was the first time I saw her squirt. After my experience with that couple and seeing how turned on his wife was I have been hooked on couples that share cock ever since.

First time was in a 4some with my wife at a swing club. We had settled into a room and were playing with ourselves. Then an attractive older woman knocked on the door and asked to join. Soon as we said yes she dived right between my wife's legs and started eating her out. Which was an indescribably hot first for us as well. After she made my wife cum she started going down on me and went straight to fingering my ass while she blew me. I murmured to her that I bet she's great with a strap-on which lit her up with a devious grin. Then her husband joined as well, which to be honest we never realized we were agreeing to a package deal. He was a tall built prison guard. Things progressed to an outright full swap with us fucking each other's wives. In between rounds there was a little chit chat where he mentioned they were open-minded. When the action heated back up again I was having an internal debate about whether I should go for it and make a move on the husband. His wife was blowing him and I just went for it. Started licking and sucking his cock with her. It felt so strange having that warm hard yet soft cock between my lips. A mixture of what I expected and not. But I was really enjoying it. I mentioned to her that it was my first time and she smiled and fed my his cock. He said it was his first time as well. My wife watched and made out with him as I blew him. His wife got behind me and stuck some fingers up my ass then held her hand against herself and mimed fucking me, clearly enjoying this like it had been a long fantasy of hers. He then said he wanted to fuck my wife again so I slipped a condom on him and guided his cock into my wife as she lowered herself onto him. Then put a condom on myself and fucked his wife. We both came and collapsed in a heap of bodies. Not long after another girl asked to join! We started playing with her but not long after her girlfriend came in and scolded her for leaving her to the creepy single guys out there, which ended that session as quickly as it started. But hey, technically a 5some? We exchanged numbers with the couple at the end of the night but never met up with them again. My wife is only really interested in one night stands in the swinging world. After I felt, I don't know, some sort of pride in myself for finally trying it. Also wondered why I waited so long(mid 20s). Now 15 or so years later have only sucked three other cocks, and been fucked by a nice thick BBC. We don't swing often. Once every few years sorta deal. We have fun with strap-ons and realistic dildos on odd occasion. But I'm finding at around the 5 year mark I just have a need for another cock. I become a bit obsessed with it and just need to vent that energy. Which is right about now... Wife also wants to try a gang bang, so I'm sure we can work that out as a two birds one stone situation. Looking forward to that next experience. We're going to be visiting family in Ohio in July but staying in an airbnb for the week. May well happen there.

Am I? Perhaps. I'd guess I'm 70-30: Mostly straight and in a way, bisexual. Not really sure I'd define it as such. And the "why": Although I have no particular romantic inclinations toward men, I do thoroughly enjoy cocks and cum. My favorite fantasies involve sex with women who are coated in warm slippery cum (like in those bukkake videos) from multiple men or to have a man cum in my mouth. I'm not sure whether that even qualifies as bisexual or just having a cock and cum fetish. Is it possible to have such a fetish without being bi? I have no idea. Regardless, I've always had an affinity for cocks and large quantities of cum.

Mine was my first wife and the wife of the partner we were swinging with. We'd swapped for several months so we were all comfortable with each other. I had her riding my cock and my wife on my face and the two of them were kissing. More than that happened then, but that is what sticks out vividly in my mind when I remember it.

Not only WOULD I like watching it--I DID like watching it when she did it on Tuesday (and then had it done to her). I think she's used it now with a total of four women, and she agrees with what some of the other posters on this thread have said: the turn-on isn't entirely about the physical sensation but rather about the power. But she also likes being the recipient of a strap-on, especially in doggystyle--which works out well, as that's not a position in which I'm very functional, so at least she gets to enjoy it this way. Interestingly, the woman of the couple whom we've been playing with longest (ten years or more) brought a double-dildo into play in one of our early encounters with them, and it's reappeared regularly over the years. My wife never minded playing with it, but it wasn't a big deal for her. And I don't think it's a big deal any longer for the other woman, either: ever since my wife introduced her to the strap-on, it's won her heart (along with other relevant parts). In fact, I sometimes think this woman would willingly forsake her husband, me, and any other males if only she and the strap-on were able to run away together and, perhaps, legalize their relationship.

Is this a trick question?

Mrs. Ekies has spent time with a lady friend of ours with the classic double ended 15" dildo and the Feeldoe. For me...hot in ways I cannot describe...for her...hot in ways she cannot describe (her words). With the Feeldoe she was on her back and our lady friend was on top in the classic missionary position. Mrs. Ekies had her knees pulled back and was telling our friend to fuck her hard and make her cum. In the end they tossed the Feeldoe aside and 69'd to the finish. HOT, HOT, HOT! Whew, I need a cold shower...

Would I like it - YES Has she done this - YES Was it hot - HELL YES!!! Always was one of her fantasies and she went out and bought a special harness where she can take care of her female partner while I can take her from behind. She also has one of those double vibrating dildos that has a dual clit stimulator. Talk about getting hot. Mr D.