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First time I saw this thread, I dismissed it out of hand, but the exhibitionist aspect could actually be kind of fun.

I wonder about these types of posts too. I feel so inadequate that I’m statistically average and my cum is closer to a tablespoon not a quart. My wife has never asked for bigger cocks and never mentioned someone being to small. I realize I am new on here and maybe I’m going to be thrown off for saying I think much of what I read on these answers are fiction. I’m not going to call specific posters out but some read like bad erotica. I apologize if I am off base.

There are a few genres of slightly-obsessive fiction that are recurring themes on here. My favorite is always "my wife got pregnant (by a black guy)". Part of human nature, I suppose. As for cum, biologically, a teaspoon is a pretty good load - and a real, measured teaspoon is actually pretty close to what most people imagine a tablespoon is in their mind. If you've ever cooked sticky Chinese sauces with cornstarch, you know a little goes a lot further than you expect.

Not broken, just different and that's just fine. Either the people we play with understand that, or we don't play with them anymore. If the people you are playing with feel differently...we'll leave the light on for you.

I love small cock anally, medium in pussy, either of those orally, and in dp small one anally and medium vaginally. I like the feel in my hands of large cocks and after dp I can usually take large cocks anally, I do like seeing a large cock f*** anally and love how full they feel but I most definitely have to be well done prior to. I have to say though, I was able to get my husband to finally take this gorgeous hunk of man meat anally recently. It is a couple we trust and know are very safe, no one has been able to take him except his wife, and now my husband. I am so proud of him, it is without a doubt the hottest thing I have ever been a part of 8 x 6.5 a total f*** down. His wife was so impressed they want us to go on an extended trip with them to a hendo spot. She says the guys would be the hit of the parties. So YES I love LARGE Cocks especially anally. Now I have a favorite of all my favorites.

Whaaaaa, we love finishing off the last person. Find people who do! So many wonderful tidbits of advice here I do hope something pans out for you. My husband & I have several couples we have multisex with and there is always someone who needs a lot more, we all pitch in and do whatever we can to assist. For me when I am tired I always need extra help and having a penis in my front and my backside tend to eventually get me off, even when exhausted. So dp is the answer for me, or and time of multiple play. I have been eaten and done anally which works wonders for me, vibed anally and tongued is crazy, but still two penises at a time even three with oral does the trick. I do prefer dp and watching sex acts up close for my best orgasms. These are just experiences you might wish to try. You will have to most likely train people on how to do this well, it does not come naturally for most, but oh so worth all the effort!!! If you are in our area we might ever can help you once all this covid mess is under control.

You never finished this tale...?

Cialis here and I use the one a day as needed. So might do one or two depending

Yea, sildenafil the stuff for which my urologist recently gave me a prescription. He told me that i could safely take at one time anywhere from one to five of these as I learned how much would be needed. I have learned that two do the trick just fine. I had been taking daily Cialis but I no longer feel the need to be 24/7 ready-to-go.

That's actually a very good idea. When my GF struts around a casino floor or bar very late at night in a skimpy outfit there have been several guys who have approached her or that she approached that thought she was an escort. From our experience this seems to be very common in those settings. I think I like the idea of bar pickups because there is no expectation of anything happening. When we go to a swingers club we know it's going to go down because everyone is looking for the same thing. But a pickup at a regular bar you never know who you are going to come across or what they're desires are that night. Hard to explain I guess.

BNSF? NSFW?

Wedding ring and "Hotwife" necklace, that's putting it out there and hot.

For some reason we only do this in Vegas. I gamble while she prowls the bars.

Same for me...it takes a while but is epic when I get there, and even though I reciprocate several times with all involved, I've yet to find other swingers who will go the distance with me. It feels pretty rubbish... I think the 'getting out of her head' thing is also quite relevant for me. Easy to say, not so easy to do. For all that we hear that there's women who struggle to orgasm and it's not that unusual, your wife is the first instance I've actually ever heard of. Thank you for replying and not making me feel so alone and broken for once

Include in that list various types of human stimulation as well. One quite young and somewhat inexperienced woman who hubby and I played with early on found it difficult to orgasm with penis in vagina sex, which had been the only kind she had had. When he went down on her though she really had intense orgasms. No one had ever seriously done that for her before. Hubby and I used to joke afterwards that when one of us would offer to lick her (I think I did an even better job), her pants flew off by themselves. Other women wanted specific nipple play, or a finger gently moved around in her bum, music on/music off, watch another couple having sex, be alone. So try different thing with different people and see what works.

Sometimes you have to close your eyes and jump. Would a glass of wine help? I really do have a better time with a couple of drinks. Maybe more foreplay?

We like everyone naked and having fun

A great diet, being fit, etc are wonderful and do help in libido. However, no matter how healthy you are sometimes the equipment doesn't work because of mental issues or nerves. I've seen people take 25mg with great results. I've heard people experience no side effects while others get really bad side effects. If you want the 'insurance' (as someone said) you can try Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil) and see which causes fewer side effects. Always talk to your doctor. Avoid buying online from some shady site.

Aren't you worried about what could happen with pictures and videos? Among our group our rule is no pictures. Even though there is an extremely high level of trust among us (we're totally bareback), things can always be hacked or mistakenly revealed.

One that I hadn't expected, my wife being DPed by two other guys. Anal with another guy was nothing out of the ordinary. I had DPed her with other guys a number of times. But the first time I saw her riding a guy when another guy came over, put it in her ass, and for a few minutes they hit perfect stride, it hit me emotionally the way nothing else had. I was proud, I was humiliated, I was embarrassed, I was excited. Nothing she had done before ever made me feel like my wife was slutty, but this did. Although she was being "taken" by two men with their dicks in her, ultimately pumping their cum in her, she never looked more dominant, in control. Afterwards, I loved her more than ever. Later I hinted at how I felt, but she didn't catch on. She's done it several times since, and it now is normal to me.

Pretty much the exact same thing for me. I don't really fantasize about other women when having sex with my GF but I will think about times she had sex with other guys especially if I wasn't there. It could be some guys she sucked off at a bar a few weeks back or how she fucked her boss at work earlier that day. Either way I enjoy both thinking about it and hearing her tell me the stories before and during sex. My GF know I love this stuff so she will sometime send me texts about sex she just had with a guy or pictures of it. One time we were having sex doggy style talking about it and she handed me her cell phone and said click play. I see her a video of her on her knees sucking some guy off until he cums on her face. The video only lasted 2 minutes and so did I ?

Gangbangs are a popular topic here, but they are notoriously difficult to set up and successfully pull off. Lots of no shows, etc. Here's some good tips for gangbangs. Lots of other info here too if you click the "gangbangs" tag at the top of this page right under the thread title. Will this be her first swinging experience? If so, while the fantasy may be great, it may be better to start a little slower. Just couple on couple swinging can be extremely frustrating, especially just starting out, and gangbangs much more difficult, even for experienced swingers.

For me its the atmosphere, its usually very sexual charged and full of desire.

Hi, all! We’re new to the site, just joined today, but maybe this is as good a place to start as any ??‍♂️ For me, it’s the basic naughtiness of g/g action, coupled with the fact K is very... visual and vocal when aroused. Being able to watch more than usual is a huge turn on. For her, she loves the idea of me watching her do things to other people and the idea of another woman admiring and using her body. I guess we’re fortunate that a lot of out desires align the way they do, and things are still very new - just one real (and unexpected) actual experience, but we’re hoping for more!

A quote from John Waters (whoever he is), "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty." And may I add, Lesbianism a guilty pleasure.

There was just a post from a pretty wife who wanted to watch her husband spit roasted by to well hung guys. I thought it was weird but maybe it was a coincidence. I also thought she might have a husband that doesn’t need to be asked what he wants.

A most important question to ask.

I think if you love someone you want to see them happy, I love watching my husband suck a dick, it does it for me.

Go to a nice hotel bar, the men tend to be out of their normal environment and no one knows them. They will do things they normally won't.

This forum makes me feel so inadequate, so many posters love 10 inch and bigger, and they are always thick and those same women love to get it hard. So here I am, nowhere near 10 inches and enjoy normal sex that’s fun. Should I also feel my ejaculations, which are quart size, are not enough to satisfy?

We like to play with one couple at a time, i fact, once we find a compatible couple we like to stick with them, assuming that is what they want too. How do we know? We ask and hope were are not getting just a story. We are always honest with our play partners, That is why we have not had that many.

Our group consists of five married couples, including ourselves. We are closed to any outside play and have made a solemn commitment that so long as anyone is in the group there is no outside sexual contact. Not foolproof perhaps, but with the amount and variety of sex available to everyone in the group, we feel cheating is less likely than between a strictly monogamous couple. This allows us to feel safe playing bareback and with alone play.

At one time, together or separately, or totally? We have been with about 5 couples totally, however never with more than one couple at a time (two couples seems to work out, three couples seems to have problems with everyone partnering up where everyone is happy). Currently we have been dating one other couple for...years now but we have all come to the decision that we need to try and open our group to more (2 or 3 more) new couples (if we can find couples that fit in with all involved).

I'm 75 years old, 50 mg usually does it for me, but I occasionally take 100mg. That causes me to have a flushed face, so don't do that often.

I guess the one thing I might suggest is, 'have no expectations'. Well, unless the four of you have been communicating about things you expect. There's always the tendency to want to try everything when you live a bit far apart and know it might be a long time before another opportunity.

Mr. Learning is straight. I used to think I was potentially bi but after an experience with a true bi female there's no way in hell I am bi. She was way too experienced for me and she was way too over the top with me. It was extremely uncomfortable and I hurt for days so there is no way I can say I am bi now. That whole situation really has turned me off to females as that was one of the last experiences I had with a female before retiring. If we ever get back in, I think I would set some guidelines such as please don't try to pull my uterus out please.