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It's considered a "Superspreader Event" Seriously, I know we're all careful with protection from STI / STD's when we're out playing -- but holy cow, people! -- masks just aren't going to be enough. Also, "Police".

Ride or die for some people. We are well documented quarantiners. For those who have to attend indoor, unmasked swing events, you are not just taking risks for yourself. You are endangering your friends, relatives and neighbors if you get an asymptomatic case and spread it to a vulnerable person or persons. Don’t be a superspreader. Get a vaccine as soon as you can.

I have always wanted to attend something like this. There is a huge role reversal/power struggle theme here with a healthy dose of exhibitionism. Femdom can be mentally exciting and submitting to a group of women is a big turn on to some. So, like all fantasies it's hugely mental and I feel a lot of times people look at fantasies as too physical. To be honest, I kind of expected more interested but to each their own :)

Hard to believe people are this dumb, or selfish. Yes, it sucks right now, but things like this just feed into the idea that swingers are weirdo deviants. I mean, it's like looking at porn at work. Just wait until you get home!

Bad publicity for swingers. Just like Nawty in Nawlins and an event in Astoria, Queens, NY. Thinking with little head, not big head.

I too have this fantasy. I've talked with my wife about it when we're "in the mood" and in those times, she's all for it. But that's the extent of it so far.

Yes, when I was with Ms. Kaye, then some of our swing parties would have theme nights.

The exhibitionism is a quality I really appreciated about the parties I went to. No problem with watching and being watched, and it leading to something else.

I am not reckless by any measure, but my philosophy is the opposite. Regrets come from what is not tried as well as what is. You only need to ponder an adventure for a long time if it is something permanent, like quitting a job and moving elsewhere or having a child. Having sex with someone is not such an event, you can just stop, it doesn't detract from you. One of my biggest "regrets" early on was playing for some months with a guy who turned out not to be nice and not even a good sexual partner. My husband recognized that I was persisting at it even though it was unfulfilling because I hate to fail at something; I was trying to make sex with this guy "work," and hubby told me it was ok just to let it go. It turned out to be a good lesson, and not really a regret.

Rule no. 1 for us has always been: Nobody does anything they are uncomfortable with. You'll know when you're ready to push the envelope, or it may just be a spontaneous feeling, so if ppl are generally happy where they are don't rush things. Also, as @Idahocouple6969 says, a glass of wine is often helpful to feel relaxed and ease inhibitions. Every time my wife and i did "push the envelope" and try new things we always wondered what we used to be so scared of.

Did the women think that it was worth the time? Discovering my Lesbian side was certainly worth it for me. That beats my husband, I was having no limits sex with my boyfriend for two years before deciding that I wanted to be on the other side as well. It helped that I selected the women from among my friends. My recommendation is to just go for it. If it's not working out, just pause, readjust, and decide how to move ahead.