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I simply miss being around friends without all the issues of distancing, who feels safe etc. Interestingly, I've only come to the place of really missing normal life the last week or so, maybe a New Years thing. Like 2020 is behind us, can't we just get back to normal. I've also missed being to act on our fantasies. IE arranging a meeting or exploring a new kinky experience. We have the ideas, get excited and then remind ourselves it's probably not safe. So a roller coaster of excitement then reality hits. I'd venture to guess that this board is populated by people that are more social beings then others. I know I crave social situations.

The problem is that the behavior affects more than just the attendees themselves. They may be acting on what they think is "best for them". But they have chosen to ignore the consequences to others not attending the event. Somewhere between 1/3-1/2 of all infections are asymptomatic, and yet they will spread the virus to others who may be especially vulnerable. You surely do not believe that those attending were going to quarantine at home for two weeks, do you, and then make testing their first stop? Yes, people should be free to do as they want--provided it does not place other at preventable risk. In this particular context, failure to adhere to distancing, mask wearing, hygiene is a subsequent threat--and a violation of law. They knew the gathering was illegal, they chose to gather anyway, they were arrested and charged.

So drunk driving, speeding, no seat belts, no motorcycle helmets are all ok?

You know, Since we had previous posts deleted, I don't think we can get into this as an argument, as we fully expect any further comments will result in us being banned. Therefore, we are not going to engage.

Have you ever met a couple where you were more sexually compatible with the other spouse, and your spouse was more compatible with the others spouse. My husband and I love each other but we have alternate preferences in the bedroom. My husband is a lover, he likes taking his time with it, lots of kissing and oral and then he likes to grind deep inside me till we both cum, then he enjoys cuddling. Its extremely intimate and passionate and intense. I like it rough, really rough, I like to get pounded, pull my hair, maybe choke me a little, call me a slut. I like it rough and dirty. Its also passionate but in a different way, its about need not love, and it is intensly satisfying to me. I can't really call it making love, its more just getting fucked. I like that, a lot. Now James and I enjoy time with each other but its either he gives me what I want or I give him what he want. A few years back two of our best friends inquired about our swapping experience after a get together at their house. Over several bottles of wine we discussed it, James and I went to bed in their guest room as we had drank to much, they stayed up talking. About 2 in the morning I got up to pee, and Julie and Adam were still up, Julie asked me if we would consider swapping with them. I went in and talked to James and we decided we would. Physically we are opposites Julie is adorable and has a very tight body, and Adam is a fitness instructor and very ripped and pretty muscular. I am curvy and soft, skinny in the middle but a D cup with a Serious booty and thick thighs, my husband is muscular but leaner than Adam and not chisled. After we decided yes, I came back out and took Julies hand and took her in to leave her with my husband then I took of my shirt and walked out to grab Adam in all my naked glory, and I took him to bed. Sexually Adam is aggressive which is usually my role with my husband, so it is a nice change of pace to be chased. To my delight Adam was packing and likes it rough, which is my jam, but Julie is smaller than me at 4 foot nothing so he often has to be careful of hurting her. Since I am sturdier I can take more, a lot more, after we got started and I realized he liked harder sex , I started prompting him, I told him to fuck me harder a few times, I told him to pull my hair, I put his hands around my throat and pulled his weight on me, and told him to call me a slut and other naughty names quite a few times. Once he realized the rules were different than his normal he really brought it, and I very happily took every deliciously mouthwatering inch of it. To say it was a good night for me was an understatement. Once we found our groove Adam fucked me like he had been fucking me for a decade and knew all my kinks. I orgasmed several times and spent a good amount of time with my face buried in the bed and my ass in the air as he hammered away at my insides. Afterwards my legs were so wobbly I couldn't stand. I was a happy girl. In the morning, I went into the bathroom and Julie was there getting ready to take a shower, she told me to stay, so I asked her how it went and she smiled shyly and said it was really really good, she was hoping Adam and I had as much fun. I assured her I had and since I had drained Adam three times I felt safe in saying he had ample fun. She looked at me in shock, you took him 3 times? He is too rough with me for that, I smiled and explained I like it rougher, I actually made him go harder. She looked at me and said there is a harder? My vagina hurts just thinking about that. I replied well I am guessing that you enjoyed my husband's softer touch. She smiled, and said she really did. She told me last night was intensly passionate and I needed that. She mentioned she had multiple orgasms with my husband and he had cum several times also. We've been friends for a long time. So she knew I was bisexual, and I always felt she seemed curious, but I do not like to push those kinds of things as I'd never ruin our friendship. She asked if not having any girl time ruined it for me. I laughed and said no, I got what I wanted last night. It's not a must have type thing, I am the queen of taking cock. If girl time happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't, but if she wanted to make it up to me I'd be happy to oblige. She laughed, and commented on how much more aggressive I was than her. She mentioned sh might like trying kissing but was nervous. I pulled her into the shower and we made out a little in the steamy hot water. It was sexy. Afterwards on the drive home I talked to my husband and he said Julie was so passionate he had loved every minute of it. That was three years ago and we have had many such nights with Adam and Julie, in March they were selling their home and needed an apartment for a couple months, we let them stay with us, then Covid happened. In PA the real estate market was not considered essential and put on hold, then their deal fell through so they have stayed with us in our guest room. Over this time living together we have melded into a more Polyamorous relationship. Julie loves to cuddle as does my husband, but Adam and I are not cuddles and were more likely to slap someone's ass to show affection. So Julie and James have a solid routine, and Adam and I have a solid routine. We still all have sex with our spouses but we both find deep satisfaction with each other. Have any of you run into this type of poly relationship? I've talked to my husband and we kinda feel it will be sad when they find a new place and we were considering asking if they'd like to find a bigger place with us and we could expand this relationship to a more permanent thing, more defined.

COVID had put a real damper on fun for a lot of us. The thing we have missed most are house parties. We love them as they are fun, not just for play, but for sitting around naked and having good, real, conversations. What do people miss most over 2020?

I miss seeing friends, both clothed and unclothed. I miss being able to just go out and get a haircut or quickly run to the store. I miss everyone getting along. I miss the old world and fear that it will never return.

Yes I miss house parties, but they are so much better than clubs. This covid is incredibly depressing.

I don't see these people as being dumb or selfish. They are acting on what they think is best for them. Others choose a different path.

LA county had the highest rate Of Covid infections in the country. We are still under stay at home orders with all bars indoor and outdoor dining closed and only 25% of capacity allowed in essential retail shops.The rule is gatherings for parties Greater than either six or 10 Are prohibited unless they’re all members of the same household. All open establishments require masks worn properly at all times. Some are doing temperature and symptoms checks to allow entry but still the understanding is to remain masked. I couldn’t find the name of the club but pretty sure I know which one it is. All other clubs in the area have been dark since March. They are always under a fair amount of scrutiny due to the nature of the business and have the usual hassles with capacity and fire code and those type excuses and not uncommon for lawn Forssman or fire marshal to break up a party even outside of a pandemic. if it is the club I think it is, they advertised and sent out emails and although they did temperature checks and symptom screenings at the door it just brought people out who are sick of the pandemic including law and code enforcement. especially when everything else has been clothes for almost a year it probably wasn’t a good idea for this club to open. And even less of a good idea to attend although I am sympathetic and understand their reasons.

They're still good rules, regardless of who's breaking them.

I think it's important to draw a distinction between a public clothing-optional beach versus a nude beach at an adults-only, or lifestyle, resort area. I'm including this just as a point of information, not to be argumentative. Nudism is not a sexual, or even sexually provocative, activity. At the public clothing-optional beach Ann and I frequent most, it is not unheard of to see families with children. We have helped to organize/support a group of volunteers who discreetly patrol the beach to ensure a pleasant and stress-free environment is enjoyed by all. Nude beaches attached to places like Hedonism, Desire, Grand Lido, Temptation, etc. are different affairs altogether and actually *encourage* a sexually charged atmosphere. At those locations, seeing and being seen is the whole point ?

A great diet, being fit, etc are wonderful and do help in libido. However, no matter how healthy you are sometimes the equipment doesn't work because of mental issues or nerves. I've seen people take 25mg with great results. I've heard people experience no side effects while others get really bad side effects. If you want the 'insurance' (as someone said) you can try Viagra (sildenafil) or Cialis (tadalafil) and see which causes fewer side effects. Always talk to your doctor. Avoid buying online from some shady site.

My ex-wife knows that my now-wife and I swing with several other couples. She has asked me if it would have worked for us. We agreed that it would have (we never even got close), but we still would have split for the reasons that we did. One needs to be with the right person.

I miss going to our football games and friends weekends. I also miss seeing my friends and going to an office to work and seeing my coworkers. I miss going into restaurants, movies, museums, concerts, shows. I miss seeing people walking and talking. That’s it, now I’m getting depressed. I’ll tell you what I enjoy. Being with my husband and not rushing out in the morning. We have also made a decision that we allow two friends into our house. We have also been able to save money because we aren’t traveling, eating out, and doing all the things we are missing. Think we are going to need the savings after things get back to normal.

I think people should be free to do as they want.