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I thought about this but there are just too many to choose from. If I had to pick one I would say her first gangbang. It was just the most insane weekend event ever. We took a trip to Atlantic City with a bunch of my buddies and it was the wildest time we had. The amount of sex was surreal. It felt like my GF was just constantly getting fucked. When it was over she felt absolutely exhausted and sore but proud. She said that it was just one night too long though so since then we have shortened it. Everything was on the menu that trip - oral, anal, golden showers, etc. I think it stands out because there were just so many different crazy memories from it. We still talk about this trip all the time.

In my travels I have had affairs and one night stands each having its own pluses and minuses. I only had affairs with women I enjoyed being with and I would make arrangements to meet in advance of a trip. The vast majority of these women were married and enjoyed the times we would meet. When things got either routine or complicated I would move on. When in new places or when I had nothing planned there was an excitement of looking and enjoying a new woman. I would think everyone who swings or plays outside of marriage is looking for new experiences. A new body, a new touch, a new movement, a new reaction. No two people will act the same way. My wife has told me she enjoys new men and enjoyed the men who pursued her on cheater sites. For years our marriage was a don’t ask don’t tell relationship. When we decided that talking was fine she told me stories of meeting several men during a week I was traveling, even two separately on the same night. As a woman she had more control of who she would see again and who she wouldn’t. I am thinking we were very much alike in that we enjoyed both.

Fellas, how many of you enjoy rimming your woman's ass? Ladies, do you enjoy it as well and would you or do you like to rim your man's ass? Myself personally I love to lick my wife's ass. It's a big turn on for me!!! I also love it in return. I know a lot of guys can't get passed the "if she play with my ass, and I like it" then does that make me have gay tendencies? Well, when you fuck your woman in the ass, do you think about gay tendencies? I don't think so!!!

I have rimmed an old GF ass before I climb in a start fucking her in the ass! My fantasy is if the woman/GF/Wife dose anal prep/anal enema, I would love to fuck her in the ass and then rim her gapping hole as she squirts in my mouth.

Hooked ever since the first time I tried it. Doesn't hurt that it drives my wife wild! She likes to finish herself off with a vibrator with her ass in the air and begs for me to eat it. Naughty girl loves to do it to me too, I cum so damn hard and fast (maybe a bit too fast when she does it)

A few more that I would also add to my list: 1) Our first FMF threesome. 2) A party at an off campus college house me and my GF went to. That was a crazy night too... mostly for her. 3) Watching my GF taking a facial for the first time from her boss.

One of the clubs we go to is like that. Couples and single women get in for free and single men get charged a high rate of entrance but it doesn't stop them. Definitely good if you're seeking a gangbang or into being watched by a group of guys. But it can be overwhelming for some.

How many guys like kissing while Fucking. Before, after, or while someone else is in her?

I don’t know how I missed this when J&Wu started this thread last summer, but I’m happy it got bumped. Kissing is a major turn-on for me, before, during or after intercourse. At home, all it takes is about five minutes of making out with my wife and I’m ready get stripped down and fucking. (She’s a terrific kisser, which not everyone is.) Playing with another couple or at a party, kissing is also all it takes to get me revved up. At a social hour once the woman in a couple who’d shown interest during a pre-party dinner kissed me and the next thing I knew we had our hands in each other’s underwear and I was trying to talk her into going into a side room for a pre-party fuck. ☺️ I really enjoy osculation during copulation, whether it’s with a woman I’m fucking, or a woman who is being eaten or fucked by someone else. If she enjoys vocalizing or sexy talk between kisses, that’s all the better.

Am I crazy or are some people overthinking this entire thing? Your wife is not a child. If it were me I would be open, honest, and direct with her. She brought the idea up in bed so you already have the opening. If you're direct with her she should either say yes, no, or maybe. I am not really into playing games so maybe I'm a bit bias but I would be upfront at this point.

I was always under the impression that it was considered bad form to bring up who was sleeping with who.

My feelings have changed over time. When we first started meeting my school friends there was an excitement to see who was going to show up at our tailgate parties and I used to wonder who I might be playing with. I was excited to have a friend approach me as I was not sure how to approach others. It was more like wow they want me and even though I was attracted to others I didn’t approach. My husband on the other hand always approached girls he never met before. He would get me mad when he would say he got new pussy. As I became more comfortable being with my bi side, I started acting like the guys who approached every attractive girl. It was always exciting to see someone who was a good friend back in school was now as bi as I was. There was one party where a guy who was very endowed was the attention of too many of my friends. At first I had no intention of playing up to guy who knew his assets were an attraction and then I fell right in like the others. Then it became a challenge that I succumbed to. I admit it was exciting to be with someone new.

I learned more about my GF sexually by watching her fuck her ex than anyone else.

My advice is for your wife to start with what is familiar, comfortable, and enjoyable. My wife and I began with her getting back (separately) with two ex-boyfriends. It started as a foreplay fantasy where she told me who she enjoyed as sex partners, so I said to go for it. First time they had dinner together, second time we three had dinner to make clear I was good with it, third time they did it. Eventually we MFMed with both and have moved on to couple's swaps. It was comfortable for me because she had been with them before and no new ground was being plowed, so to speak.

There is something exciting about playing with someone new. I think I have read I am not alone in the excitement of undressing a new man, and the sight of seeing what I am going to find. I usually say size doesn’t matter and then I say it may be when first seeing a new one. Every man reacts differently when we meet. On the other side meeting people we enjoy being with is exciting too just a different excitement. We will only meet a couple a second time if we enjoyed being with them socially and sexually. It needs to be more than just sex.

Attempting to pickup another person or couple as a swinger is seduction. When I meet someone I'm physically attracted too, I strike up a conversation and flirt my ass off. I compliment them, I touch their arm lightly and keep it there slightly longer than comfort allows. I laugh at their jokes, I love when they have on a bracelet, watch or ring, as I will take their hand in mine and look at the item in detail, and when we move on I keep my hand on theirs for a few minutes. Try to create little moments of connection or intimacy. Things that will make them take notice and desire more physical contact. At the end I ask them if they want to get out of here, go do something fun, live a little. It works.

It gave me 3 day phlegm, that's what it gave me. Fun, none the less.

Totally agree with MrMrsSwinger. Just because someone exercises doesn't mean they look like they do. And just because someone looks like they're in great shape doesn't mean they are. In college I was 6'0 175. I spent the majority of my time in motion - played college sports (basketball and baseball), worked out 7 days a week with team trainers creating custom workouts, ate reasonably well...and I never had abs. I had a flat stomach, don't get me wrong, but some of my teammates were ripped like the airbrushed guys you see on Men's Health and Muscle & Fitness magazine. My dad is pretty thin. As an old man now, he carries all his fat on his stomach. Any extra weight I have now, right on the stomach. I don't drink. I still workout 5+ days a week yet time adds a few pounds....and it all keeps my abs warm. So yes, people have their types. That's fine. The OP states that "everyone can get fit and healthy", very true. But not everyone that is thin falls into that category. Just as everyone who is heavier than average is not fit and healthy.

I think it depends on how you're approaching your selection of play partners. Appearance doesn't mean fit and healthy. That's where people drift towards 'snob' I think. I know many people who look like fitness models but have a terrible diet, drink excessively and never exercise. I also know people who work out 4-5 times a week and watch what they eat...but you wouldn't know it by looking at them. Your body type is your body type. Some people don't have to put in much effort to stay thin. Others put in a lot of effort and always look overweight/heavy. Not everyone can look like the cover of a magazine simply by working out and eating right. Some people have a body type that stays lean and muscular while others have a softer look regardless of how much they exercise and perfect their diet. So the OP states "People that care about their health and show it in their appearance are much more appealing to us now and people that clearly don’t just are not our thing." The problem with that statement is that not everyone who is thin cares about their health, and not everyone who is not thin doesn't care about their health.

I've only been unmarried doing swinging (A GOLDSTAR UNICORN!). After my divorce I had a fuck buddy mention he fucked hotwives now and then. I had zero idea what he was talking about. He introduced me to swinging after suggesting it.

I frequently swallow. I really do not see the big deal, if a guy blows in my mouth, it is already in my mouth, I've already tasted it, if I was to spit it out there is no way to get it all out some of it gets swallowed regardless. So I swallow it all. Plus, guys think swallowing is sexy and it gets me closer to them being hard again for more playtime.

I swallow if the guy deserves it. To me, swallowing is a sign of attraction and compatibility. If I meet a guy at at swing party or event and we have great conversation and he's an overall nice guy, I'll swallow his load if it gets to that point. I like cum, but love it if it comes from a nice guy.

Last year, I had my mouth treated as a cum receptacle. Had about 15 guys shoot their load into my mouth. It was a fantasy I never knew I wanted.

We've played with our neighbor as a single woman for most of a year now. Her (now) ex-husband was a chronic cheater and eventually people sat her down and showed her the receipts. Before the pandemic, she was on all the dating sites and having a great time. We were careful to avoid her being seen coming and going at sketchy hours to avoid gossip, but there was no hiding what was going on at her house. One day, the nosy widow caddy-corner to her stops me while mowing her lawn and says, scandalously, "you know, there is a different car at her house every weekend". I did not point out that I knew she'd banged the ex-husband herself. Seems to me people who gossip a lot are often trying to preemptively damage others for fear they, themselves, will eventually be revealed.

"I love making out with my wife during sex. My fantasy would be to be romantically making out with her while someone else is actively penetrating her while his wife is is sucking me. " You need to get out there and make that fantasy a reality!

I love making out with my wife during sex. My fantasy would be to be romantically making out with her while someone else is actively penetrating her while his wife is is sucking me.

Even if true, you're apparently having fun and you've broken the code as far as recreational sex is concerned. Let em talk, they only wish they were having as much fun as you apparently are. Mrs Doc was denied two substantial raises because she was 5 years older than her boss, 5 times sexier than she and the bosses husband remarked, within her earshot at a Xmas party, that he thought my wife was hot. If it doesn't cost you money, just smile sweetly and carry on!