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This goes back and forth with time. We started with people we knew and would see repeatedly, mainly because it gave Mrs. E a lot of comfort about pushing some personal limits. As time has progressed a little bit, and now that we've both been away from it for a while because of the circumstances this year, we're both excited to try new people, although we'll still see our regulars as soon as we can, too. We're both just eager to be social and outwardly sexual again with more bodies, new or familiar. She's gotten more comfortable flirting and sending pics of herself from messing around with Tinder to pass the time while we've been shut down, the single woman we play with wants to have a foursome when the border opens again and her favorite friend-with-benefits can visit again, the married woman I got to be a bull for in February wants to get together again for another solo visit. We both think trying a club or organized party might finally be on the agenda once things open up, although maybe we're all talk as we've always chickened out.

In my travels I have had affairs and one night stands each having its own pluses and minuses. I only had affairs with women I enjoyed being with and I would make arrangements to meet in advance of a trip. The vast majority of these women were married and enjoyed the times we would meet. When things got either routine or complicated I would move on. When in new places or when I had nothing planned there was an excitement of looking and enjoying a new woman. I would think everyone who swings or plays outside of marriage is looking for new experiences. A new body, a new touch, a new movement, a new reaction. No two people will act the same way. My wife has told me she enjoys new men and enjoyed the men who pursued her on cheater sites. For years our marriage was a don’t ask don’t tell relationship. When we decided that talking was fine she told me stories of meeting several men during a week I was traveling, even two separately on the same night. As a woman she had more control of who she would see again and who she wouldn’t. I am thinking we were very much alike in that we enjoyed both.

It is deviant. It deviates from social norms and those who want to control you. But as you say, so long as it is mutually consensual and not hurting anyone, it is moral. It is even obligatory if you want to live a full and adventurous life. As a woman who started non-monogamy by having a two boyfriends, both knowing and monogamous with me, one of whom became my husband, it gave me a sense of power and confidence that improved the rest of my life, especially as a young professional. With my consent (more than consent, it was my idea) and under my control, finding women for my husband to have sex with, becoming bi, inviting one then another into our family, having hubby make children with them, me having a child with my boyfriend, were all deviant (my father has told me I'm a whore and doesn't speak to me) but these are our choices, my choices which have made my life infinitely more fulfilling than most.

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We are a married couple I'm 23 hubby is 24. We are just getting into a open marriage. I have been curious about black men and so has my husband. He wants me to date black men then come home and tell him what happened.

Years ago we were at a house party where one couple arrived late, we were already naked and they joined right it after the fun we got dressed and were having a drink with everyone when when my wife said to the wife "we know you." "To which she replied your husband certainly does", to which the two women looked at each other again and both said at the same time, "Band Parents Right".

I think the same goes for the women too. I don't know why or how my GF gets pleasure out of the many activities she engages in either. It's a strange thing but we are all different.

The problem arises with professional boundaries. There are rules that are in place to protect both clinician and patient. Same thing goes with professor and trainee (or senior/junior professor) -- power and authority is imbalanced.

I am thrilled just to have sex as my favorite is still the one I have sex with everyday. I know that’s not swinging, it is still pretty great. My wife is the one who started me in the swinging world when she asked me to be with someone else, something I couldn’t refuse. Without being specific it was creepy being watched while fucking someone. My wife continues to set us up with meetings and every time I get to taste and fuck some strange is the ultimate dream and I can’t believe she encourages it. I have never met a new pussy I didn’t want to be in and am looking forward to many more. I am also happy to go back to any repeaters as well.

It's not always easy to explain to the Mrs. what you're getting out of it, is it? Can be pretty far removed from vanilla communication. First time Mrs. E was comfortable enough to get spit-roasted by two different men - something she's only done a couple of times since - was unbelievably intense to watch.

Thank you for your suggestions we will look into the sights.

SLS used to be much better. The owners are trying to do new things to the site but he seems to be trying to push people to their app and add features to make it more like (vanilla) Social Media sites. Then they roll out the changes that don’t work and screw up the site. Never consulting/surveying/focus group with the paid members. looking tonight at The Who Viewed Me section, a post stating changed July 21...?! Either very late of pretty early. Lots of members. Seeing far more single males in recent years but correct that it’s a pretty crappy website and changes are making it worse instead of better.

We ran into a man and his wife at a tantric/swingers’ retreat in Florida. I knew him from my profession. We were both shocked, but we got over it and when we saw each other back in our home state, he gave me a bro hug and we had a secret bond. We decided not to consider playing with them. We saw it as a conflict of interest and too close to home. Not sure if they had an interest, either. Best to not go there.

My husband and I have been married 32 years and for the past couple years have been interested in swinging. We just don’t know where to go to meet other couples in our area.

So how is the interracial swing coming along?

Why would ethics come into play? As long as you are not sharing medical information or endangering people then I do not see an ethical issue.

Am I crazy or are some people overthinking this entire thing? Your wife is not a child. If it were me I would be open, honest, and direct with her. She brought the idea up in bed so you already have the opening. If you're direct with her she should either say yes, no, or maybe. I am not really into playing games so maybe I'm a bit bias but I would be upfront at this point.

My feelings have changed over time. When we first started meeting my school friends there was an excitement to see who was going to show up at our tailgate parties and I used to wonder who I might be playing with. I was excited to have a friend approach me as I was not sure how to approach others. It was more like wow they want me and even though I was attracted to others I didn’t approach. My husband on the other hand always approached girls he never met before. He would get me mad when he would say he got new pussy. As I became more comfortable being with my bi side, I started acting like the guys who approached every attractive girl. It was always exciting to see someone who was a good friend back in school was now as bi as I was. There was one party where a guy who was very endowed was the attention of too many of my friends. At first I had no intention of playing up to guy who knew his assets were an attraction and then I fell right in like the others. Then it became a challenge that I succumbed to. I admit it was exciting to be with someone new.

We joined the Mile High club on a United flight to Europe. We had three seats to stretch out during the long overnight flight with plenty of time for a a deep suck. An hour later we went to the lavatory to complete the membership. We know the flight attendants knew what we were up to as one gave us a big smile when we returned to our seats. Yeah it’s tight in the lav.

I so very much love to watch the Mrs. suck and swallow another man. she has been told that she has a very special touch, at first she was not into it but now loves it, and goes after it like a hungry kitten after cream. It is so very hot and I love her so much more for sharing this with me. We have a rule that the man always has to kiss her deeply after.

My husband described it as he likes seeing me play the slut. He likes it when I do all the dirty stuff with another guy cause then he can spend his day imagining I am out there taking whatever I want sexually. He imagines I am so horny I couldn't control myself. If I met a guy I wanted my inner slut would do anything to take him. Of course its totally in his head, I can control my vagina just fine. But he loves the imagery so I give it too him. I play the slutty unfaithful wife that is a succubus and needs sex to survive.

With all the at home time, no travel to and from work time, no rushing home to cook dinner, we caught plenty of Netflix and Prime and the explored streaming Pornhub. It’s not that we never watched porn before, it’s just we started exploring categories we would usually stay away from. We watched some that neither of us cared to watch more of. Other things interested us more bringing us to explore our own fun and some were funny to us. The more we watched the less we liked the produced porn, people don’t act like that. And then we explored real people clips and realized that could be us.

Serious conversation about swinging started during lockdown which was the worst time ever. We were having groceries delivered to us and we wiped every item that came into our house. What started as fun talk became serious over time and we joked about every type of sexual deviance and then decided it’s not deviant if we both can agree and it doesn’t hurt anyone. Working from home gave us much together time and opening up with things we never talked about.

Seems like we been discussing it a few years now but have not taken that big first step. I'm 60 Gwen around the same. Long story here, but if you got time to kill and some comments feel free to.... Couple years ago, we had been out wine tasting one afternoon and came home and were fucking. During a break in the action out of the blue Gwen tells me about some of her past fun......I had an idea she had some fun but she never brought it up. She tells me she and her first husband swapped a few times. Seems she agreed to do it because marriage was going through rough patch and she thought it might help. It didn't and they divorced. After her divorce she started hanging out with a group of friends, over time it became a small swingers group. 3 or 4 times a year they would met up for an extended weekend of some group fun. Also during this time she traveled for work and had some fun times (one night flings they were called back then) while on business trips. She also told me some nice stories of random encounters...... Well her stories got me rock hard again instantly (and when I think about them now I still get aroused). Over the next few weeks I wondered why she brought the subject up. I had my hopes up she wanted to swing again, I never had. We talked about it on and off for a while, but we have not taken the next step. I'm willing to but Gwen backs out each time. I would like to have some fun but not going to sneak out on my own. Would love to watch her enjoy a couple guys, and while I would enjoy seeing her have fun I sure hope I would be able to have fun with their wives...... I still bring it up now and then and she just laughs it off. One thing I'm still trying to figure out is after hearing some wild times she had, she always been sexually conservative with me. Perhaps that falls on me...... with me never been to adventurous pretty much routine sex. And she doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral (again maybe thats on me). But hearing tell the stories she seemed to enjoy that and other things back then..... I'll continue to bring it up once in a great while....never say never.....

When we were stationed in germany, we ran into a young lady in my husbands unit. we had a great relationship with her after that.

Seems like with the examples so far it's slightly awkward initially and then either no big deal or actively avoided. However, I'm curious if there is anyone in the health care or education fields that have experienced this where ethics/etc. might come into play? Thanks

Last summer we were at Gunnison Beach in NJ. I was standing in a small group by the water with my wife and a co-worker and her husband strolled up. There was two seconds of awkwardness and then we laughed it off and had a great day together. Ever since, we have remained great friends outside of work. A few years back, we were in the public room at a local club. My wife was with me and another guy and I noticed two of our old neighbors in the group that was watching us. We gave them quite a show and did talk to them afterwards. I think the husband least had a thing for my wife so i’m sure he enjoyed seeing her being fucked by two guys.

We were custom building a house. The builder we'd hired was a cool guy and he and his gorgeous wife were our age. We became friends quickly, early on in the process. We'd gone to dinner together, sort of to discuss building matters. We'd had them to our home for drinks and then one evening at their home a name of a single man was mentioned by the wife of that couple. She simply mentioned him as a vanilla friend but we also knew the guy from swinging and knew the only way she must have known him was from the same way. I figured there was no reason to beat around the bush, and in fact I was very interested in her bush, so I said that we knew the guy too and asked if she'd enjoyed him as much as my wife had. During the rest of the construction period we played with them several times and even took a long weekend trip with them. The playing had no adverse effects on the business side and some very great memories. We, both of us couples, moved on to other folks and other things after the business side of the relationship was completed but we, and I think they too, never had any regrets.

At a swingers' club party we ran directly face-to-face with members of our synagogue. Their kids had gone to school with our kids and both my wife and the woman had worked together on committees. We realized instantly that we were all at the club for the same reason. This does not mean that we right away took them to a room for sex. We din not, in fact, make any plans for meeting them for sit-down talks for anything. We might have done so but it did not strike us as being worthwhile. They apparently felt the same as we greeted each other a few more times at the club and saw that at shul but received no "feelers". Life went on.

He has been coming into the restaurant for as long as I have been here and has always been really nice to me

Yes there are, and I told him I won't be rushed into anything

At first I didn't want anything to do with this, but then as time went by I really started getting turned on by it

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Welcome to the Swingers Board. Enjoy the joys of an open marriage!

We've only had a total of four play sessions with the same couple, but our first full swap was very vivid. Mrs. E bent over one side of the bed and Mrs. E's friend bent over my side, both getting it from behind. I'm not sure who Mrs. E made more eye contact with, me or her friend while her friend's husband fucked her, but it was one of those dazed "desperate for cock" looks that I really prized.

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